GHIFARI ~ RADITE ~ GHIBRAN
CONCERNS OF IBAN
“You like ya compose lego like that?” ask Irwan, the psychologist who handled Iban at their third meeting this afternoon.
“Not really like it. Only if again bete is deliberately looking a bit complicated like this,” said Iban.
“Bete why? You've been fighting with your friend?”
“Not Om. Why also fight for the enemy, just again confused as the person who suddenly angry with me.” finally Iban began to open, just, at the two previous meetings there was no cloe anything that Irwan could draw a line, regarding what this little man of the Alkav family felt like.
“Not to think if people who are angry with you,” said Irwan.
“If he's angry with me, I don't think about what Om thinks about wong I don't know him. But he was angry carrying the name of the same mother's father. That's what I'm thinking. He doesn't know how dad is the same mom. How suddenly he said that my father and mother never cared for me. Can I be so confused whether the same father is wrong mother huh?” said Iban now even without brakes talk about his heart.
“Which I know the father of the same mother always taught us not to lie, so I if asked by people yes in accordance with what happened. I didn't lie when I said I hit Charles because he wanted my sister. Charles was lying, he said he wasn't gonna say anything but hit me. Eh the papyri rambled to me saying I never educated with dad. It pity the father who was the wrong target because of my behavior.”
“You're not angry because you were scolded by that?” irwan fishing line.
“And I told you, Om, if they were angry with me because of my mistakes, my mischief, or anything about me. I never cared. Because it's only about myself. But if they upset me because of my sister, or my sister, yes I will be angry. I don't like my brother being wronged. Now what is being done about that person is in fact father and mother. I'm disappointed there.”
“I feel like I have a burden, because of my behavior then mom and dad are wronged people. Though it is not the same mother father.” said Iban. Although Iban talk still continues to do the preparation of lego in accordance with the scheme in the paper. He built a tank for a very difficult war.
“If you feel your parents have educated you well, do not feel guilty with your father and mother. That means the person misjudged you. Already do not think,” advice Irwan.
“By the way don't think it's easy Om. But to do it is not as easy as people talk.” replied Iban with adults.
“I feel guilty with father and mother.” Iban.
“How about you talk to your father and mother, tell me about all this. About your regrets, because your father and mother were blamed. Your mother's father must have understood that you weren't wrong. The wrong guy.”
“I pity Om the same mother and father who have educated us well but wronged people.”
“Kan Om said earlier, the wrong view of the person.not the view of your parents. That's why you better talk to your father and mother. Just let it all be plong. Let clear. If it is like this, it will not be clear. Because you hold your own. You are always silent and you are more silent when you are with your father and mother, as if you were away. It makes them think you're mad at them.”
“I will not be angry with father and mother,” replied Iban.
“Ya then as Om suggested earlier, you better talk to clear. Om know why your father and mother are always open minded. Not as people think.”
“Iya um. Mother same father is always good to talk to. If you have a night before going to bed, let me talk first. She must have asked what happened at school, she immediately gave me advice on how. Also with mas Fari, definitely invited to chat first before we sleep.”
“Make me the same as Fari father and mother everything. Maybe if Aidan and the sisters still don't feel. They do not know yet how the struggle of mother and father educate us.”
“Saran Om that. Before everything became more wrong guessed because all this time since Charles you pulled away from your father and your mother. That's what makes them sad because they think you're mad at him.”
“No Om, I'm not angry with the same father as mother,” explained Iban.
“Ya already Om say yes, Om only one message. Immediately talk to them so that all clear and you return to being the usual Iban.”
“Ya Om, thank you.”