GHIFARI ~ RADITE ~ GHIBRAN
WE HATE LIARS
“So that's the reason you hate your papa” asked Opung Gultom (commonly called the name of a child or grandchild to mention the name of someone's mother or grandmother ).
“Yes. We hate liars. If he has another wife, don't just say love is with us. The proof is that he can also marry each other. It means papa lied, right? Papa also love his mother Marry and the other pregnant,” reply Tarida.
“There are many things that make a person married, not necessarily because of love. It could be because of the return of the favor. Maybe like your dad, he doesn't love Mama. He just gave back. Could be, right? Because your papa college and your opung treatment used to be from Mama's family money,” said Sondang poignant. Imagine that Gultom had not loved him so easily turned to others. Though until Tarida class 3 SD there is no problem at all. There was a problem once Gultom knew Pricilla and the woman wanted to be married as a second wife. The woman REALIZED that Gultom already had a wife and they married without the permission of the first wife and no family at all.
“Can also because of forced. For example, there used to be marriages arranged by parents. So the bride knows nothing. Meet directly at the wedding altar.”
“There are many other things as wedding grounds. Later you will know if you are an adult,” of course it is impossible for Sondang to tell about a contract marriage, or because of prank and then pregnant for example it is impossible.
“I'm not a little boy Ma. PAPA SAYS SHE JUST LOVES MAMA AND THE TWO OF US. So he did not marry because he returned the favor to Mama. If he married Marry's mother not out of love, then what's the reason? Then to the other aunt too, what was the reason? A whim? Poor fellow? The darling? Taken as Mama said?” the word Tarida emotion.
“If it's true papa only loves Mama and us. But he married two aunts. That means he lied to those two aunts? Is papa a liar? We don't want to be the son of a liar like him!” sharp Tarida reviews.
“Whatever it takes, you can't erase your papa's blood in you. Marga you might be able to replace. But the blood of your father is your destiny,” said Sondang slowly. He knew his two daughters were very disappointed. Gultom had stabbed the souls of the children so deeply.
Sondang and host Gultom looked sad. Those two innocent souls had been extremely furious. They must have had a discussion. So that it can seia seia sekata in stringing words. As if they knew tonight they would be asked about meeting their papa.
“Opung say the same brother,” said Sondang that night after his children entered their respective rooms. He still speaks to BROTHER's call to Gultom.
“Those kids are not like my day and little brother. We are small that we can talk to anything, we can be lied to by parents. But the child now cannot. Just look at them already critical themselves, if the uninitiated will probably accuse me of teaching them to be disrespectful to his papa.”
“I know that,” host Gultom said.
“Ya Opar, tell their brother not to be lied to like that. His father told them his father only loved them and me. Turns out there's another woman, there's another little boy.”
“From there the children can conclude the papa is a lie. If now his father says he marries these women without love, then the children will rethink how easy it is for someone to marry without love? Without trusting each other? That would be a dilemma for them.”
“That's PR for you to solve that problem with the kids. I don't want to know because I don't lie like my brother. He's the one who lied so he's the one who should be responsible for the kids,” explained Sondang.
“Think also that children are hurt because the papa has lied to their mama by marrying women to have children. It hurts kids. Not just me.”
“Ya tomorrow Opung will talk directly. Pity the children if they are injured for too long,” said the host. She realizes her two grandchildren have lost faith in a man's love.