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°BDJ 68 : CONTRACT
BDJ 68: CONTRACT
Akad comes from the word Al-‘Aqd which is the basic form of the word ‘Aqada and the plural is Al-‘Uqud which means agreement (recorded) or contract. According to the Encyclopedia of Islamic Law, the word Al-‘aqd is an alliance, agreement, and consensus (Al-ittifaq). Akad itself in a large dictionary of Indonesian or KBBI contains the meaning of a marriage with ijab and qabul. While ijab and Kabul come from the word obligatory which means obliging, and the word qabul has the meaning of receiving. Ijab qabul is used in marriage, which is a greeting from the parents or guardian of the bride to marry her daughter to the prospective groom.
The procession of ijab qobul itself holds tremendous meaning for a man. When a man utters a jab and a qabul, the meaning is: “then I will bear his sins from his parents, from not closing the aurat to leaving the prayer. Everything related to him, I bear and no longer his parents bear. And I will bear all the sins of my future children. If I fail, disbelieve, then I am a wicked husband, and I am willing to go to hell. I'm willing to have angels torment my body to the point of being destroyed.”
Before marriage, both men and women should consider many things. So no wonder sometimes parents always say, if you want to marry someone must first see the seeds, bebet, and weights. It is not without cause, because marriage is a sacred process towards a sacred bond.
According to Imam Al Ghazali, there are some women who should not be married because of their nature. First, women who have the nature of Al-anahanah, or women who often complain and complain. Second, Al-Manaanah, or the woman who always brings up her own good. Third, Al-Hannanah, or women who compare people in the past. Fourth, Al-haddaqah, or extravagant woman. Fifth, Al-barraqah, or women who decorate all day. Sixth, Al-syaddaqah, or women who talk a lot and like to nyinyir.
While according to the religion of Islam, for women do not marry men who have the following characteristics. First, never pray (in the hadiths of Ahmad and Muslim history). Second, bad morals (history of Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah). Third, be rude (historical Muslim and Abu Daud). Fourth, no income (historical account of Abu Daud). Fifth, like to glance at other women (hadist history of Bukhari). Sixth, have illegal income (hadist Tirmidhi history). Seventh, drinkers or alcoholics (history of Ibn Majah). Eighth, stingy (hadist history of Bukhari and Muslim). Ninth, likes to lie (hadist history of Bukhari and Muslim). Tenth, not jealous (history of At-Thabrani). Eleventh, make the wife become the leader of the household (historical Hadith Ahmad, Bukhari, Tirmidhi, and Nasa’i). Twelve, Musyrik (Al-Qur’an letter Al-Baqarah verse 221). Thirteenth, can not keep the association (Al-Qur’an letter An-Nur verse 31).
Before you get married, everything should be considered carefully. Remember the word papa Anzar, men can choose, but women can also determine.
“Waduh, Bang. With pre-marriage syndrome symptoms not overnight?” tease a voice.
Pre-marriage syndrome is an anxiety felt by the bride and groom ahead of the wedding. Pre-marriage syndrome is common in the groom and woman before the day H.
“Nervous not, Bang?”
A handsome man who this morning is increasingly beautiful in formal clothing, in the form of a white batik shirt top with a batik motif in dark brown and light brown combined with pants material it asks.
Although batik fabrics vary, not all batik motifs can be used for wedding ceremonies. Batik motifs that are usually used at weddings also contain certain meanings and philosophies. Usually the batik motif used by brides is batik motifs sido mukti, sido drajat, sido asih, sido mulyo, and so on. While the parents of the bride usually use a truntum motif batik cloth.
“Hm.”
“Hmm? Really nervous?”
“Slight.”
The owner of the name Algean laughed crisply as he approached the brother who was sitting at the end of the bed. Currently they are in one of the master rooms located at the Dwiarga family residence in Jakarta. In a few minutes their company will soon go to the bride's house.
Unmitigated, for transportation matters, Gean the owner of super cars and luxury motor cars willingly issued almost most of his personal collection to escort the entourage of the brother. Starting from Lamborghini, Ferrari, Bugatti Divo, Lexus, Rubicon Wrangler, Mercedez Benz A Class, and many more. All collections of super cars and motor cars are ready to march along the road to the residence Radityan. Gean also does not need to worry about his luxury vehicle lost or stolen, because each vehicle unit has been installed GPS chips that can be tracked through satellite images.
“Abang said it was nervous, but his face was ordinary tuh.” Gean looked at the look on his sister's face which this morning looked very clear and shining. Not thanks to facial wash or expensive skincare that is on the market, but thanks to the power of ablution water and tahajud prayer routine.
Last night Gean knew that his brother could not sleep, so he spent more time in night prayers, followed by recitation. Gean knew it was all done by his brother, because last night he forced to sleep with his brother for the last time. The two bachelors had been involved in deepalk, before Gean finally fell first at about half an hour in the morning.
“I said a little,” firmly the owner of the call.
Nathan who this morning appeared so handsome and handsome in a one-color suit, namely white. Starting from shirts, vest or vest, ties, to subordinates. Color that brings a strong sacred impression. Do not forget also the details of the jasmine roncean that circles the neck and dangles to the chest.
Nathan's handsome face was indeed ordinary, but deep down inside was a small part of the disturbing concern. Still, it will soon face one of the most sacred processions in life, making Nathan a little nervous.
“I'm also nervous, Bang. because it's still a bit unexpected, Brother who I thought was g*y today want to release his bachelor.”
“Please once you say that to your Brother.”
Gean puts on a grin when the familiar voice of the father answers his words, instead of Nathan. “That's ‘kan first, Pah. Just from nebak too.”
“Useless guesses,” comments Al.
Yes, the one who just entered the room was Al. The father of two handsome men who was currently sitting side by side.
“Lagian Brother was single from the past, Pah. Kek jones—jomblo ngenes so,” said Gean later. “If I ‘kan from the school age also already his toy girl, lah. A brother? I've never seen Brother toy girl.”
“Children are made into toys. Substantial. Whose son are you?”
“Dih, Papa's son is. Forgot?” sahut Gean ketus. His father who rarely joked it, once joking, Gean immediately in-ulti.
Al is not pinched. Make the youngest smile triumphantly.
“Gugup, Than?” tanyanya.
“Slightly, Pah.”
“That's reasonable.” Al took a sitting position between his two sons who were like heaven and earth, but still very dear to him. “All men who will do the cobul hijab will also definitely feel nervous. You guys know why?”
Gean chose to shake his head, because the answer that appeared in his head was still doubtful.
“Because ijab kobul means taking over a very big responsibility. When the cobul ijab is done, a man means that he is ready to bear the sins committed by his future wife.”
Al smiled faintly as he turned his head. “Kot more so. When you have said the sacred sentence, it means an increase in the responsibility that must be borne by the man.” Al paused his sentence for a moment. “When you say the sentence ‘I accept the marriage’ that's when you have to accept well the shortcomings and advantages. Love him without but, then accept him with all your heart.”
“….”
“For the future, nothing impossible (nothing impossible). A marriage will not forever run sweetly and harmoniously, there are times when bitters come so quickly. Papah hope that after you marry the woman of your choice, you will be wiser in making decisions in the future. You are both adults. If there is a problem in your household, talk carefully. If it can not be discussed properly, call witnesses from both sides to conduct deliberation. But Papah himself believes that you are ready to become a priest for Alea.”
“Hm.” Al smiled as he patted the son's shoulder twice. He then looked at the youngest. “Next year it's your turn. Papah just want to say that you are always careful, because before the wedding day there are usually obstacles and obstacles that block.”
Gean nodded while smiling widely. “Bismillah. Hopefully smoothly until the day H, so that you can follow Abang, not single again.”
Al and Nathan smiled at once. Makes Gean stunned for some time. About when did he see the two men he respected so much smiling like this? Forgetting. So long. However, now he again saw a smile on the faces of his father and brother. On this happy day.
“Now we should get ready soon,” Al said later. He glanced at the clock hand that was coiled around his wrist. “Come, Nath. Your wife-to-be is waiting to be redacted.”
Nathan nodded, then moved from his sitting position. “Then come on, Pah. Take Nathan to Radityan's residence to interview Nathan's girlfriend.”
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“Every woman would want a good husband and understand religion. There is no need for religious experts or religious leaders, which is important to understand the obligation as a husband. That doesn't mean the woman is acting holy or anything. However, he was well aware that the fact was that the mum followed the priest. If it is not heaven, but the destination of the priest, what about his knowledge? The world is a temporary place. While the hereafter the place where we settle for eternity.”
The middle-aged woman did not stop giving positive encouragement to the princess who today seems many times more beautiful than usual. Though the face of ayu covered in a veil cloth was only polished by a simple make up, but the aura emanated was so extraordinary.
So far there are four people who see the beautiful face of the great-grandson with the oldest position in the third generation of Radityan. They were both her parents, Aurra—bunda, and a make up artist who was hired to do make over. However, the four of them were equally amazed at the beauty of the bride. Really, so lucky her future husband.
“The groom's entourage has arrived, Ma'am.”
Aurra appeared after the greeting, carrying a bouquet of edelweiss flowers. Tells that the groom's troupe that looks more like a motorcade exhibition of super cars and motor cars has entered the Radityan area.
Not many people come to the event today, because only nuclear families, close relatives and friends are invited. Big event with more new guests will arrive the next day—ie at the reception.
“Alhamdulillah if they have come.” Airra looked at the princess. “Princess Mamah means to be immediately married.”
Despite his bow, everyone in the room also knew that his daughter was being shy.
The long-awaited happy day finally arrived as well. The marriage between the eldest grandchild in the third generation of Radityan, the only daughter of wayang Keevanzar and Airra.
“Now we see the procession ijab qabul through television,” said Aurra while turning on the 48 inch television screen attached to the wall. It was already directly connected to the live broadcast of the ijab kobul event out there. More precisely in the main hall of the Radityan mansion which subscriptions are used as a place of sacred pledges.
When the square object is on and displays the resolution of the image out there, the cameraman seems to deliberately highlight the main character longer. Yeah, who else but the groom?
“God willing, future son-in-law of Mamah,” monologue Airra with haru feelings. Didn't expect that this soon he would release his daughter to be married immediately.
“Candidate husband Alea if seen at a glance somewhat similar to Mas Van’ar when young,” comments Aurra. Despite taking a quick look, she felt that there was a resemblance between her future husband Alea and her beloved husband.
“Iya, Ra. Kayak Van’ar pas young. Handsome and authoritative.”
Alea became curious because Airra and Aurra were busy talking about her future husband. However, to just look at the television screen he was embarrassed. He better keep his eyes, in order to be able to look at the man more satisfied, later after they both legally become husband and wife.
“His cobular job will be starting soon, dear.” Airra said as she hugged the princess's little shoulder,
On the left, Aurra also calmed down through the soft speech on the back of Alea's hand. “Bismillah. One more step towards your new status, Alea. May your marriage always be blessed and blessed by Allah azza wajalla.”
“Amin yes rabbal alamin, Mother. Thanks for do’anya.”
“Together with my daughter,” reply Aurra while giving a warm kiss on the left temple Alea. If this is the case, a glimpse of Aurra is more visible as Alea's biological mother.
The voice of the host who started opening the core event then distracts. On the television screen, it appears that the headman and a set of other officers began to explain the technicality of the kobul hijab. Alea listened to all the sounds coming from the electronic object carefully, although he did not dare to look at the images presented there. The longer the process takes, the harder the heart beats.
Especially when the familiar voice of the father was heard, the entire performance of the system inside Alea's body seemed to respond slowly. Not long after, another familiar voice answered loudly with a single breath.
“Qabiltu nikahaha wa tazwijaha bil mahril madzkur haalan!”
“How are the witnesses, legitimate?”
“SAHHHH!”
“Alhamdulillah hirobbilal amen.”
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