Not Struggled (R4)
°BDJ 75: PAPAH IN-LAW MESSAGE
BDJ 75: PAPAH-IN-LAW MESSAGE
“What are you doing there?”
Feeling that there was no one else in the place, the handsome man who was wearing a plain white t-shirt with a subordinate pair of comfortable-to-use material pants turned his head. Distracting the view of goods for a moment from a plate containing vegetable capcay.
“I'm taking dinner for Alea, Pah.”
Although only married two days and actually not used to call the other person with the frills of ‘papah’, he still tried as fast as possible to adapt.
“Then what is it for?”
Anzar pointed to a small plate containing pieces of carrots that had been in the vegetable capcay.
“Alea does not like carrots. So the carrots were separated,” he said. “Say Alea does not like carrots, because Papah also does not like carrots.”
Anzar smiled faintly at the honesty of his only son-in-law. He can not eat carrots, because it is a bad habit of his father—Keevano— who hates orange-colored vegetables. The custom was later passed down to his eldest son Anzar—, as well as to Alea, Arsyad, and the bontot aka Arion. The five of them are very anti with a vegetable called carrots.
“Where did you know that?”
“From Mamah Airra.” Nathan answered. “At the time of ta’aruf process, there are many questions asked. Including foods that Alea liked and disliked. I asked to be more familiar with the habits of my future wife.”
Anzar was touched to hear it. Nathan has really prepared himself well from the start. The decision to choose Alea as a wife was well thought out, so she had prepared herself from an early age.
“Alea feeling hungry?”
Nathan nodded. “Actually this is an initiative. Because I know if my wife hasn't filled her stomach since noon.”
“Then if you know, why only now do you feed your wife.”
Nathan fell silent. Just two days officially so husband, this is the first time he was scolded in-laws themselves. Maybe more precisely, reprimanded.
“So I've offered, Pah. But Alea refused on the grounds that he was not hungry yet, and there were still many guests to welcome.”
Anzar took a small breath. Nathan and Alea's wedding reception is over. On the last night of the reception, the invited guests present boomed, leaving the bride and her family overwhelmed.
After all it was the wedding of a Radityan, plus they only prepared one day for the reception. Though many invited guests who come from outside the memorandum, even abroad. Want how else, the schedule of the event of the two brides is full. After the meeting and reception at Radityan's main residence, Nathan and Alea will soon depart for Bandung for the second party at the Dwiarga residence.
There will also be a series of traditional events held there. During the week at the beginning of the wedding, basically Nathan and Alea's schedule was filled with various events.
“Add a little more stir-fried meat and broccoli, Alea likes that menu.”
Nathan nodded, then added two more spoons of sauteed meat and broccoli to his wife. He did take the initiative to take food for the wife alone, even though he could ask for help from one of the maids. However, Nathan is shaken, as he is the daughter-in-law at Radityan's residence. It does not feel good to play orders, even though his position is only two days married to Radityan's daughter.
“Already. That is enough to eat you two,”, Anzar said as he stared at the contents of the plate that had been arranged very neatly by his son-in-law.
Nathan smiled faintly. His good intentions were read by his father-in-law as well.
“Papah was also young, son-in-law.” Anzar chuckled while holding his chest. Smile on the lips. “Not to be ashamed. Eating together, or even eating while bribing is one of the sunnah of the Prophet.”
The real Nathan felt a little embarrassed, as his intention was read easily by Anzar could only nod. After all, it is common for a married couple to eat together in one plate.
“There is one thing you want Papah tanya.”
Anzar seemed to think hard before saying the question he meant. “What are you ....have asked for that right?”
“Uhuk ...uhuk.” Nathan suddenly chokes on his own saliva.
Anzar who saw it immediately patted his daughter-in-law on the shoulder. “You must be surprised suddenly Papah asked. But Papah has been worried since yesterday. Alea is the only princess of Papah. It feels, there is still a lot that Papa must pay attention to, even if Alea already has a husband.”
Nathan cleared a little. He understands. After all, Anzar is famous for being very protective of his daughter. “For that living, Nathan hasn't asked for it.”
“Justify? But, why?”
Nathan was silent for a moment. “Hmm. Nathan wants to wait until Alea is ready, and the time is right.”
Anzar. “It was nice, young man. Do not be like Papah,” who immediately break the fast after returning from studies at home RT—anjar continued in the heart.
“Don't like Papah how?”
“Forget it,” error Anzar. “If you really intend to wait until Alea is ready and wait for the right time, it is likely that time after you finish the event in Bandung. After the series of events there is over, you and Alea have more time to match up. Benefits of the time well to get closer to each other.”
“Iya, Pah.”
Anzar looked at the daughter-in-law. While the one being looked at is certainly increasingly made confusion. What else does it mean, being looked at like that?
“You ....learn the book of fathul izar and qurrotul uyun, ‘kan?”
Nathan swallowed the saliva. “Iya, Pah.”
Nathan studied both books. Fathul izar and qurrotul uyun are two popular yellow books that discuss s*sexual relationship guidance from an Islamic point of view. The study of this book is familiarly done by the santri in the scope of ponpes or boarding schools. Of course, under the supervision of a teacher who understands better, because studying these two yellow books cannot be done carelessly.
“If you already have the right supply of guidance, you must already know when the good time is allowed to raise your wife.”
Nathan nodded. Talking about mature topics with her in-laws like this, it was more stressful than being asked about the world of aviation by her father or grandfather. Because his flat and cold father, never talk about topics like this.
“Remember, treat Alea very well. If the time comes you take that right from Alea, but if she suddenly refuses, don't be forced. It might hurt your self-esteem, but look at it from another point of view. Alea was never close and open to any other man, other than her family. So, understand him. Maybe Alea needs more time to open up.”
“Iya, Pah.”
Answer ‘iya’ back Nathan give. After all, it was also impossible to force if Alea did not want to. Nathan is not a pushy husband. He will wait patiently, whatever it takes.
“One more,” added Anzar suddenly. “In the letter of An-nur verse fifty-eight, it is recommended to conduct conjugal relations after the prayer of isya until before the morning prayer, and midday.”
“….”
“If you have already got the green light from Alea, do not forget the advice of Allah Azza Wajalla. So that the worship that you do with Alea can bring rewards also good sustenance.”
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