Not Struggled (R4)
°BDJ 85 : HUMBANG
BDJ 85: SWING
Everyone always has their own way to show love language to their partner. Love language is the way a person transmits his or her affection to or from another person. According to a marriage counselor named Gary Chapman, there are generally five types of love language. The five types of love language include physical touch or physical touch, word of affirmation or word affirmation, quality time or quality time, giving gifts or giving gifts, or giving gifts, and acts of service or service.
Of the five types of love language, for example, can be a hug, or kiss for love language in the form of physical touch. While the example of the word of affirmation itself is happy to appreciate the taste with words of affection, encouragement, and so on. Quality time can be realized in the form of appreciating the time spent together, such as eating together, sightseeing, watching, and more. Giving gifs? Can be realized by giving gifts to show affection, for example giving birthday surprises, birthday celebrations, and so on. Lastly, word of affirmation or word of affirmation, for example offering help, helping spouse work, and so on.
To love and be loved is a beautiful thing. All of that can be realized if both need each other and understand what the needs of each partner are. Well, love language is one of the keys to understanding a partner, namely with the aim of knowing what the couple needs.
Therefore, Nathan as a real man tries to always try to understand the wishes of his partner. His beautiful wife, Alea. Without having to know through words, Nathan always tried to understand through unspoken meaning.
“You want a photo, Zaujati (my wife)?”
The beautiful woman who was wearing syar’I clothes seemed to shake her head bashfully. However, the husband who had prepared himself and armed with a camera, since then continued to instruct the wife to look at the camera.
As Nathan promised, if Alea wanted to go to Lembang, she would take her wife to the Rainbow Garden. The flower garden that presents a line of colorful flowers such as rainbows and arranged very neatly. The majority of the flowers are dominated by lavender. However, there are at least 100 types of flower plants that are self-sufficient from some local flower farmers. In addition to the flowers that line up nicely, in the Rainbow Garden there is also a green house filled with garden plants that are no less beautiful, as well as organic gardens.
...Rainbow Garden at night....
Those who come and visit can also learn through a variety of family choice education, and can buy various types of fruit hands, ranging from ornamental plant seeds, funny knick-knacks in the form of plantantion such as pouch, bag, bag, clothes, and all. If you feel hungry after taking a selfie and learning the choice of education, visitors can fill the stomach with a variety of West Java culinary served there.
“Excuse me, Son. Mother see from earlier his wife embarrassed photos themselves, may want to be accompanied.”
Nathan and Alea who had been a little bit at odds, immediately turned their heads and both smiled thinly—although Alea's smile was blocked by the cover cloth. A middle-aged woman dressed as a sari’I came over, then offered services to help take portraits of Nathan and Alea.
“What is not a hassle mom?” ask Nathan, please.
“No, Son. I even gladly offer myself,” replied the mother. He said he remembered his son and daughter-in-law when he saw Natha and Alea. They seem unable to hide the aura of the newlyweds who are still shy, but actually willing.
“Let's take a good pose, let me take your photos.”
Nathan smiled faintly as he looked at his wife. “From yesterday we have not had a photo together, Zaujati (my wife). Only now do we have the opportunity to photograph both with a very beautiful garden background. Can I show our happiness in one photo print?”
Alea looked at the husband using her shady netra. He then nodded without letting go. Seeing that, Nathan gave a warm smile to his wife.
Without them noticing, one picture had been taken by the mother. Not just one, because the next few seconds, the images continued to increase one by one.
“Masya Allah, may you be a happy couple mawadah warahmah, son,” said the mother while returning Nathan's camera. He can indeed operate the object, because he used to be in the world of photography.
“Amin ya Rabbal Alamin,” response Nathan and Alea together. Who is not happy to try when getting a sincere do’a from someone, even if the person is foreign to them.
Alea just nodded while looking down. Every time he missed with Nathan—sohaminya, always brings a new atmosphere and moments. This is their fifth day in Bandung, and the 1x24 hours they have spent in those 5 days have carved out many moments in a new page of their lives both.
Now according to Nathan's promise, which is to bring the wife to Lembang. One of the popular tourist attractions to visit when in the city of Kembang. Nathan and Alea have also planned to spend 2-3 days in Lembang for a minimalist honeymoon. To realize the plan, Nathan would have been looking for some lodging that was suitable for them. Among the many inns, there are three that are considered to fit their tastes, namely Grafika Cikole, Bukit saung bamboo and The Maribaya Lodge.
Cikole graphics itself is located at an altitude of 1400 meters above sea level, making the atmosphere there cool and refreshing. Surrounded by a row of towering pine trees, making the atmosphere there distinctive with the campground. Not only provides lodging in the middle of pine forest, there is also a camping area in the wild. The facilities offered are also quite complete, ranging from outbound, paintball, strawberry and eastern deer gardens, as well as other facilities. The rates charged are also quite pocket friendly, and comparable to the facilities that the comfort received.
Bukit saung bamboo is also one of the recommended places for honeymoon. With decorations that carry an all-bamboo theme, accentuate a unique and different impression for new couples' honeymoon experiences such as Nathan and Alea. Not to mention coupled with the view of the citylight when night falls, becoming the main attraction and its own plus points. While in the other part of the hotel, presenting a view of the green valley.
In addition to the two lodging, there is also The Maribaya Lodge which is included in the list of recommendations. At The Lodge Maribaya, they can feel the sensation of staying like a camper, but supported by star hotel facilities. There are two types of lodging offered at The Maribaya Lodge, namely camping and joglo village house. The Maribaya Lodge is also located one place with a playground, cafe, and restaurant, which makes its own advantages for The Maribaya Lodge.
However, of the three inns, Nathan and Alea decided to stay in two places. First in Cikole Graphics, because Alea loves the location and atmosphere. Second, Bukit saung bamboo which became Nathan's wish. He felt like spending one night with his wife to enjoy the beauty of the night with the view of the citylight.
“Happy?”
“Alhamdulillah, very happy,” replied the wife while receiving a glass of water offered by the husband. After saying basmalah, he immediately drank. Almost a quarter of the water in the glass he drank, the rest was spent by the husband. The man who works as Captain was even first looking for the location of the former drink of the wife, just started drinking when he found it.
“Tomorrow streets again. Now rest first,” Nathan said after returning the glass to its place. “You should not be soybean, because after returning from Bandung we still have a lot of schedule.”
“Means Nathan?”
“Lupa will be an invitation to visit the house of the Creator?” Nathan said as he touched the wife's hair that felt soft in the hand. Right now they were already in the inn, because the day had changed to night. “We have an invitation to visit the house of the Creator, the final resting place of the Prophet, as well as places that bear witness to the history of the development of Islamic civilization.”
Alea remembered now. Nathan once said he would take her there. To the house of God in the holy land. Visit the house of the Creator, the final resting place of the lover of the Creator, the Prophet Shallahu Alaihi wasallam, as well as other places that bear silent witness to the civilization of Islam in ancient times.
“Sorry, Alea had forgotten that schedule, Mas.”
“It's okay, the most important thing I've reminded,” said Nathan while tucking his wife's temple. “Now rest first, Zaujati (my wife),” added Nathan while wrapping both hands around his wife's waist. “You should always be healthy, and strong. Do not forget to do’a before rest, pray so that the Creator immediately bestows sustenance in the form of the fruit of love to us.”
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Response 29-09-22