Not Struggled (R4)
°BDJ 83: MOMONGAN
°BDJ 83: MOMONGAN
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“Zaujati (my wife).”
The call that is often spoken more than ten times a day has become a familiar call in the ears of Alea since officially married by the eldest son of the Dwiarga family. Every time you open your eyes in the morning, greetings and warm greetings equipped with affectionate calls always welcome the sense of hearing. One small habit that always manages to warm the heart.
“Mas Nathan doing what?”
The woman with a simple model robe who was holding a broomstick and pengki was frowning to see the husband. While the man with a plain white shirt and shorts seemed to smile broadly while lifting a bucket containing clothes.
“I want to help Zaujati (my wife).”
“Save it there, Mas. Let me do the washing,” said the wife as she put down the broom and the pengki.
“I want to help, can't I?”
Alea shook her head. Their new home in the upper dago area was indeed quite large and consisted of two floors, but Alea was still able to clean it herself. After all, later if not live, they have been looking for some people to work as security guards, gardeners, and cleaners. For the time being, Alea was enjoying her new role—taking care of their husband and home with her own hands.
“This is my job, Mas Nathan better just sit down.”
The handsome man who used to work on the flight deck shook his head. “Cleaning the house is not your nature, Zaujati (my wife). Your nature as a woman and wife is menstruation, pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding our future children.”
Alea who did not use a face mask, because she was at home, could feel a red tinge begin to decorate her face. Our kids?
“So let me help with homework, besides I have no work.”
Nathan does not have an important job, considering he was given a total leave of absence to enjoy the days post-marriage. So, he felt bored if he just kept quiet and watched, while the wife was busy doing this and that task. After all, said Nathan, the nature of the woman is menstruation, pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding.
According to the great Indonesian dictionary or KBBI, the word nature can be interpreted as the power of God which man cannot oppose, something that has been inherent since it was created. From the above description, it can be concluded that the nature of women there are four things, namely menstruation, pregnancy, childbirth, and breastfeeding. These four traits also cannot be replaced by men. While doing domestic work is not a nature, but a choice.
Rasulullah Shalallahu ‘alaihi wasallam if you are at home also does not hesitate to help household chores such as sweeping, milking goats, sewing clothes, buying necessities in the market, and so on. As Sayidah Aisyah said when asked, ‘what did Prophet Shallahu ‘alaihi wasallam do while in the middle of his family?” Sayidah Aisyah then replied, “Rasulullah Shallahu ‘alaihi wasallam used to help his family work at home. If the prayer time has arrived, he stands up and immediately goes to salat.’
The Prophet did not hesitate to help with household chores, especially Nathan.
“I can wash clothes,” Nathan said as he approached his wife. “I used to wash my own clothes since I was in high school. So, you do not need to worry about the business of washing-washing.”
Alea smiled faintly as she raised her hand to touch Nathan's sturdy jaw. “Alright, if Mas wants to help.”
“I can also wash dishes, sweep, mop...” Nathan's sentence was not completed because the wife's index finger was suddenly stored in front of her lips.
“I can still do all that, Mas.”
Nathan smiled as he peeked at his wife's index finger. “We gotong-royong to quickly finish.”
Alea could not argue, because she also did not want to refute the words of her husband. After all, Nathan's good intentions wanted to help ease the housework, but Alea was feeling uneasy. After all, he was still able to do the job.
“Tomorrow you want to visit where first?” ask Nathan. One of his hands was busy stroking the wife's slender stomach. “It ....it doesn't hurt anymore, ‘kan?”
Alea who had been feeding the husband kiwi pieces immediately fell silent. It was Saturday, and it had been two days since Alea had given Nathan her chastity.
“Still sick, yes?”
Hearing the worried tone of her husband's voice, Alea shook her head. “E-no kok.”
“Tomorrow so circumference?”
“God willing,” Alea replied. “Where do you want to take me?”
“Tembang?”
“One of them,” replied Nathan. He then received another bite of kiwi fruit. They are both currently relaxing after getting together to do housework. “Just tomorrow we're going all over.”
Alea let out a small laugh while covering her mouth with a palm. Hearing the word “dating” out of the lips of the husband, sounded so funny to Alea.
“What's wrong, hm? We haven't had time to date, so now we're dating after halal. Our mumpung has not been blessed with a baby.”
Alea nodded while unraveling the laughter. She looked at the husband sitting next to her. “Mas.”
“Iya, Zaujati (my wife)?”
“Hmm, about momongan ….Would you like us to have it right away?” asked Alea carefully. Before getting married they had to talk about this topic, but there is no harm in not making sure anymore.
“If I were how you are, Zaujati (my wife). Here you will be pregnant, not me. Besides, I also know that being pregnant requires mental and physical readiness. So all back to you first.”
“….”
“We can delay if you are not ready,” Nathan added. “We can enjoy the time together first, just thinking about momongan if it is both ready.”
“If Mas alone, how?”
“I?” Nathan looked at his wife. “Every time God gives us a provision in the form of a baby. But it all comes back to the decision of both of us. I can't be selfish.”
Alea nodded in understanding. “I ... don't want to use protection, Mas.”
Nathan smiled at it. “OK. If you don't want to use that, because I know it's not easy for women to use protection. There are risks to be borne from any type of pregnancy preventer that can be used.” Nathan stroked his wife's stomach softly. “Then let me use protection.”
Alea fell silent, then shook her head. “That time ….Nathan also doesn't use protection.”
Nathan is small. Yes also. He where there is a safety stock in his new home, because the night circumcision worship jum’at that time was not planned from the beginning. After all, Nathan had never bought safety, as he left the Dwiarga residence in a hurry. Maybe starting in the future Nathan should be ready for safety stock.
“What do you want, Zaujati (my wife)? One time contact can bring up the possibility of fifty-fifty.”
“….”
“Or what if we go to the doctor or.” Nathan stops his sentence when the wife looks at him again. “Why Zaujati (my wife)?”
“Kita ...do it naturally, Sister. If it is time to be given sustenance in the form of momongan, Alea is ready kok.”
Nathan who heard the words of his wife smiled widely. “You sure?”
Alea nodded.
“Then we don't need use protection. Do it naturally?”
Nod the head back Alea gave in response. Nathan who was anxious himself then ducked, then dropped a kiss on the wife's forehead.
“If this is a decision that you agree to, I instead hope that you ...quickly contain our baby.” Nathan's face lowered, then stopped right in front of the wife's slender belly. “I can't wait to immediately say hello to their presence here.”
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Response 27-09-22