Retaliation of the Sick Wife
Silent Treatment
Moments before returning to the apartment, Bisma was actually hesitant. Should he say bluntly say to Kanaya that he already knows everything. Even in the detention house, Bisma knows everything. Maybe his attitude is not right because he has behaved like a stalker. However, Bhishma had her own reasons why she did all that.
Feeling that Kanaya has not been able to be honest and open with him, the man chooses to be quiet. In this case, Bisma also has her own reasons why she is silent at least she gives herself time and at the same time she gives Kanaya time to be honest with her. Therefore, Bisma chose to enter the apartment coldly and quietly, even the man pretended to close his eyes on his bed. Without him knowing, just a few moments he was cold and silent his wife, it turned out his wife had sobbed.
His heart was relieved, as Kanaya held back her hand, the man who had already stood up finally sat back down on the side of his bed, with his wrist still held by Kanaya.
“I'm sorry, Mas .. I was wrong.” said Kanaya with trembling lips.
Surely even Bhishma could not see his wife crying and sobbing, the man still chose silence. Nevertheless, Bisma still responds to Kanaya's words, “Why is it wrong?” tanyanya brief.
The question was like a stimulation only for the sake of his wife can tell him the truth.
“I lied to you, Mas ..” Kanaya said again.
Apparently Kanaya realized his mistake, Bhishma's heart was calm, because his wife was still telling the truth even though his honesty hurt.
“I told you everything .. The other day when I received a call from Mama Sasmita it was true. However, at that time Mama Sasmita called because she asked me to accompany her to visit Darren at the detention house. I was the brother of a prisoner accompanying Mama Sasmita to visit him.” Kanaya's story with sobbing.
“I know ...” replied Bhishma in the end.
Kanaya's heart was so crowded and as if squeezed inside there when her husband found out everything. What makes her sobbing and increasingly crowded is that her husband knows everything, but instead chooses silence. It made him very sick.
“Why if you know everything, just shut up. You have done silent treatment, Mas.” said Kanaya with sobbing.
When in conflict with a partner or other person and we choose silence, that is the form of silent treatment. Silent treatment is the attitude when someone prefers to be quiet and ignore people who are in conflict with him. Usually people do silent treatment to reduce emotions, when in fact doing silent treatment also has a negative impact that is precisely the dispute with a partner will never end because each person chooses silence.
His heart throbbed with pain as his wife revealed about Silent Treatment. Yes, as a Doctor, he knows very well what silent treatment is and also its impact. Bisma let out a long sigh, “Sorry .. It's all because you weren't honest with me.”
With a hiccup Kanaya also spoke, “I'm honest, even late.” he said. Her hand that was originally holding her husband's wrist had already been broken. On the one hand she was guilty, but on the one hand she did not like the way her husband chose to silence her. Which Kanaya wants, if she is guilty it is better to be reprimanded at that time, do not be left alone.
Even though he sat back to Bhishma, Kanaya seemed to nod. Yeah, she was scared actually if her husband didn't give her permission.
Bisma then smiled bitterly, “Trust me .. I can't possibly accept you with half-middle, all the consequences I've calculated. If you ask me carefully, I will allow it. I said, I can accept everything about you, including your past.” said Bisma in the end. He was so relieved, because his uneg-uneg in his heart could be uttered.
As if there was no answer from Kanaya, Bisma thought the distance, the man returned to his habit of hugging Kanaya from behind. He held her so tightly and warmly. The man also put the peak of his chin on Kanaya's shoulder, “ Promise me, next time at least tell me this. I'm not an authoritarian husband who supports his wife. You better speak honestly, the pain immediately felt. Instead of you acting secretly, it hurts me even more.” said Bisma with increasingly tightening her grip.
Kanaya slowly nodded, and rested her hands on her husband's arms, which wrapped around her chest to her stomach. “I'm sorry Mas .. I am guilty of this, but you are also wrong because you silenced me. Rebuke me directly if I'm wrong. Don't silence me. You are my husband, you have the right to reprimand me.” he said as he hiccupped.
Bisma nodded, the man then shuffled and now sitting in front of his wife, his hand moved to wipe the tears that were still broken on his wife's face. Rubbing her gently, the man looked at Kanaya so closely, “I also know that she hugged you.” said Bisma as his hand continued to move wiping his tears that were still flowing from his wife's eyes.
Both balls of Kanaya swerved perfectly, not expecting that her husband would know that much. “Sorry ...,” is just an apology that Kanaya can say.
Bisma finally nodded, “Iya .. I'm sorry. Don't repeat it again. Believe me, if you spoke well to me, honestly from the start, there was no way I wouldn't give you permission. I am not an authoritarian husband and dictator who imposes his will.” said Bisma.
Kanaya also nodded, “Do not also silence me like this. Rebuke me if I'm wrong. Don't do silent treatment like this. Silence will not resolve disputes. Silence the couple includes the type of domestic violence loh Mas .. you do not appreciate the existence of your partner as a personal figure that must be appreciated.” said Kanaya.
Bhishma felt guilty by his choice of silence and waited for his wife to tell the truth. The man finally lowered his head for a moment, “Sorry .. I was just waiting for you to be honest with you. I'm sorry yes.” Bisma apologized sincerely.
“Promise yes .. as angry as anything, don't call me by my name. Call unfortunately cook lost anyway.” said Kanaya by pursing her lips.
Bisma also raised her little finger in front of Kanaya, “I promise ..” he said in earnest.
Kanaya smiled and raised her little finger and linked it to her husband's little finger, “Promise ..”
It felt relieved, that the dispute between the two of them could be bypassed. Because there is no perfect home. Moreover, the relationship between Bhishma and Kanaya is still new, it is undeniable that both still need to know each other and get more compact facing every ordeal that might always color the household life of both.