Retaliation of the Sick Wife
Bonding Time
Being a new parent is truly a wonderful experience for Kanaya and Bhishma. The two seemed to work hand in hand to care for and nurture her son. Although sometimes still clumsy and there is fear, but slowly can take care of Aksara with his own hands it becomes an activity that is so pleasant for Kanaya and Bhishma.
In the morning, when the sun is about to turn, Kanaya will hang baby Aksara for a while in front of the main glass window in front of the living room. Morning is the time for the baby to take a sun bath with the Bhishma Father. Baby Aksara will be undressed, and only wear diapers. Kanaya to add a pair of glasses that will protect the eyes of baby Aksara from direct sunlight. While Bisma will calmly hold Aksara for approximately 15 minutes.
“Sun first, let you be healthy and strong, son,” said Bisma while occasionally landing her soup on her forehead the baby.
Kanaya who saw her husband and Aksara was smiling happily. She hopes that her husband and children will be able to love each other. Kanaya slowly approached her husband and son.
“You two if you just sunbathe gini looks very compact anyway?” kanaya asked while embracing her husband's shoulder and also stared anxiously at the current Aksara with her husband carrying.
“We will be compact continuously, Mother ..” replied Bisma with a smile looking at his wife.
Slowly Kanaya confirmed the position of Aksara diapers, then gently rubbed his son's head, “You just bonded with Dad, yes Darling?” ask Kanaya gently.
Bisma then nodded, “Iya .. bonding time, dear. Let the emotional bond between parent and child grow stronger. Actually there are many ways for us to make bonding.” Bisma replied by putting the script on the baby stroller.
“Oh, yes ... how to bond Mas?” kanaya asks who seems interested in Bonding Time.
“Bonding it must be started when the baby is in the womb by inviting him to chat, psychologically anyway if the baby is often invited to chat, the bond between the child and the parent is strong. Continue if it is born gini right we can cradle while singing songs for him, hug him, kiss him, later if the bigger the bonding way is also different again Darling. If it gets bigger, talk, listen to the story, play at least 15 minutes without criticizing it.” Again, Bhishma explained in great detail to his wife.
Kanaya nodded and listened intently to the explanation from her husband. Around the child and the growth and development of her child later, it seems that Kanaya is quite calm because she has her husband as a resource person who can be asked at any time.
“O, so bonding is ways to follow the age and stages of child development huh Mas?” ask Kanaya again.
“Truly. The way we care for babies and different from the way we care for toddler children aged 2-3 years. Also later if Aksara is a teenager, different again will be how to establish closeness with him,” replied Bisma again.
Again Kanaya nodded, she agreed to the explanation from her husband. Yes, it is true that the way we care for babies will certainly try to care for toddler or toddler children. As children grow, the way we treat them also changes.
“Continue, the bonding benefit is what Mas?” ask Kanaya again to her husband.
“Many Dear ... children can be more adapted to their environment, more courageous, more confident, dare to solve problems, and of course the bond of parents with children is also getting stronger,” replied Bhishma.
It is true that said by Mas Doctor that when we care for babies not just we bathe them, change diapers, give ASI, MPASI, and so on. More than that, there is an attachment that we are building with our child. Attachment to heart and emotion. That is the benefit of bonding.
After that, Bisma smiled to see his wife who was seen nodding several times, “Yeah ...you have got the lecture material how many SKS? Here pay first.” Bisma seduced his wife who so much in the morning asked him.
“Honey Jokes ..” Sahut Bisma. “Ya already, it's been 15 minutes, now Aksara drink ASI first, I prepare warm water for Aksara bath ya.” Bisma resumed her speech and then passed to the bathroom to prepare warm water for the Aksara bath.
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An hour later …
Aksara's baby was already bathed and now Kanaya is dressing up for her daughter. Patently, Kanaya made use of applying a little telon oil on the body of Aksara, so as to give a warm feeling to the baby. Afterwards Kanaya prepared to wear adhesive diapers for her baby. However, before Kanaya was about to finish installing the diapers apparently Aksara urinate and the water was destroyed high enough to hit Kanaya. Almost the urine of the baby about the face of the Mother.
Kanaya's shock was mixed with laughter, seeing how her little baby was urinating like a fountain. The woman chuckled, even shedding her tears.
“Yeah, Mas ... this Father's son.” Kanaya spoke with a chuckle in laughter.
“Why Dear?” bisma asked his wife.
“See his son Father, urine until it was like a fountain wet Mother,” he said by showing the front of his clothes were wet because of urine from Aksara.
Apparently, even Bhishma laughed, not expecting the incident that morning. “You peed it like a fountain huh Nak?” bisma asked her son.
Kanaya was still laughing, until her tears came out. “Yeah, I really don't think that the baby peed until like a fountain,” Kanaya said again.
“If the baby boy is so dear .. if the baby boy is like a fountain, while if the baby girl is urine seeps. It looks from the diapers baby girl it will be full from front to back. While diapers baby boy is full only the front of it.” Bhishma explained this to Kanaya.
“Ya, the fountain can anyway Mas .. just do not get about the face of the mother dong,” said Kanaya.
Slowly Kanaya immediately cleaned again Aksara legs that had been exposed to urine, then the woman gave one diapers adhesive to her husband. “Daddy, the makein diapers yes .. I want to change clothes first. Wet all got pissing Aksara.”
Bisma nodded, then the man immediately put on adhesive type diapers with the size of the newborn for the Aksara. The man also laughed watching his son, “You are funny, Son .. You can throw urine until you almost hit your Mother's face. This father's son is funny.”
Until finally, Bisma not only wore diapers for her son, but she also at the same time wore a newborn baby dress with matching patterned pop pants to her baby. Afterwards he straightened his son's hair black and thick.
“Well, now that his son Dad is cute,” muttered the man while holding his son with a smile on his face.