Retaliation of the Sick Wife
Stimulation Efforts 2
Late in the afternoon, Bisma came home from the Hospital to see his wife playing Container Play with Aksara. The man commented with a smile, apparently Kanaya really took half a day of work to prioritize Aksara this time. The man then chose to enter the room first to clean himself and change his clothes, because it has become a habit since Aksara was a baby, Kanaya will not allow Bisma to touch Aksara if the man has not cleaned himself. Moreover, bisma comes in contact with sick children, so it is better to clean yourself first before holding and touching the Scriptures.
Until about 15 minutes passed, Bisma then joined with Kanaya and Aksara.
“Halo Aksara,” her sweep while holding me as well as her son.
“Yeah, play Well,” say Aksara.
Kanaya then smiled, “Aksara is a toy Dad,” he said who tried to improve the arrangement of the sentence pronounced Aksara.
Bisma also nodded, “Iya, Aksara really exciting anyway playing with Mother. Happy characters no?” ask her son that.
“Ya, ceneng,” reply Aksara quickly.
Bisma then kissed her son's cheeks, “Grow well yes Nak... Father and Mother will try their best to grow and develop you,” said Bisma as she rubbed the top of her son's head.
Kanaya then looked at her husband's face, “You made a drink?” tanyakanya.
“White water only, Honey,” answers.
Kanaya then nodded and stood up, fetching a glass of water for her husband. However, when Kanaya returned to the playroom apparently her husband and Aksara did not exist. So Kanaya searched the other room while shouting her husband's name and Aksara.
“Dad ... Aksara .. where are you?” shouting Kanaya.
Trying to search inside the room is not there, going down to the living room is also not there. Finally, Kanaya heard the screams and laughter from her husband and son from a place not far from the living room. Apparently the Father of Bhishma and Aksara were crawling together in the garden on the porch of the house.
“Yeah, you guys this makes Mother's heart dislodged deh. Mother nyariin you everywhere,” she said as she approached her husband and brought a glass of water.
Indeed, after a while looking into various rooms and no figure of husband and child makes Kanaya so confused. The woman looked breathless as she descended the stairs in a hurry. However, when she saw her husband and son playing together made Kanaya so relieved.
Bhishma came to Kanaya and received drinking water from his wife's hand, but in fact the man did not drink it first, but put the lips of the glass to his wife's lips.
“It looks like you who need more drinking water this deh Darling,” he said.
Kanaya also refuted her two eyes, “Habis, you know that Aksara moved places. I look everywhere, make me panic. If something happens that is not-no, I will definitely panic and maybe I will go crazy,” Kanaya said suddenly.
Looking at his wife's face, Bisma then brought her index finger right in front of Kanaya's lips. He hinted to his wife not to say anything.
“Ssstts, do not talk that is not dear .. The three of us will always be together,” said Bisma.
Kanaya nodded, “Amin .. I hope so too,” he replied.
After that, Bisma then sipped the remaining water in a glass that had been drunk Kanaya. The man then again invites Aksara crawling, indeed the therapist yesterday also recommends to invite Aksara crawling so that the bridge between the right brain and the left brain is increasingly well honed. Bisma does not mind sweating anymore when she has a bath, as long as it can stimulate the character.
“Nak, crawl yuk .. get Dad the green ball dong,” Bhishma's instructions to his son.
This time the crawling is not only the Aksara, but also the Bhishma. Yes, the man also accompanied Aksara to crawl, at least Aksara is in the imitative stage that is mimicking the people around him. In order for Aksara to crawl, Bisma also crawled.
Aksara crawled, took a green ball and then threw it to his father, “Yayah, ola .. ola,” he said.
“Iya Nak, Ball. The ball is rolling, right, son? Yuk, crawl again we chase the ball. Come on, Aksara crawls the same Dad,” said Bisma who again as if crawling behind Aksara.
The atmosphere of the garden in the porch of the house sounded boisterous with words and laughter from the Bisma and Aksara. Kanaya smiled, not thinking that her husband was really a good father figure and would stimulate Aksara to the fullest.
By evening, the three of them rested and Kanaya began to feed the Aksara dinner.
“Where did Mas Aksara like playing with Dad?” tanyakanya.
“Ya, ceneng,” reply Aksara briefly.
“Tomorrow to play again with Daddy and Mommy want?” ask Kanaya again.
Aksara then nodded, “Yaa, playfully,” he replied.
Bisma then rubbed the top of the head of Aksara, “Ayah and Bunda were also happy to play with Aksa. Now Aksa eats a lot to be healthy, yuk .. while Dad reads a book to Aksa ya,” said the man who seemed to take a Board Book for children and began reading it to Aksara.
The quality time continues to wake up until the time Aksara fell asleep, both of them also put Aksara to sleep. When Aksara has fallen asleep, Kanaya then looked at the face of her son who had fallen asleep, “I hope all our efforts to stimulate this Aksara will produce maximum results huh Mas. I love very much Aksara,” he said.
Bisma then nodded her head, “Iya Darling .. I am the same as you. I love the Aksara. Hopefully the delay can be overcome soon, the vocabulary increases, and he can find the language. Our job is to accompany him, facilitate his needs, and become a parent who is always for him, I really hope that everything will pay off,” said Bisma in earnest.
Kanaya then seemed to sigh slowly, “Process does hurt, Mas. How once I was very fat can change my body shape to this day. I take up jogging to burn fat, consume calories that are always weighed every day, not infrequently I sleep with a stomach that hurts from hunger, he said, but it all paid off when it was able to find the shape of the body as it is today. I hope Aksara too, from a lot of stimulation even he exhausted from having to crawl here and there, hopefully he can finally talk and communicate well later,” hope this time.
“Really Dear .. All that process takes effort. You used to process, and now we're both with Aksara to process. As long as there is effort, there is a strong desire, rest assured that the door will be opened for us,” said Bisma.
Kanaya also nodded, “Iya, we passed this together. No matter how unique the characters remain, we continue to push him only. I'm sure slowly until finally he can communicate well and smoothly to us,” said Kanaya.
Just as hope is a anchor, so canaya and Bhishma share their hope. It does not matter if you have to experience pain during the process as long as you reach the final result as expected.