
Every baby usually grows, not just physically growing with weight and height. However, there are other aspects of development that make a baby continue to grow. Just like the character that also continues to grow every day.
However, this time Kanaya seemed to notice something different about the development of her child. A one-year-old child usually has started to imitate many voices, and will also turn his head when his name is called. However, the script is not. Therefore, Kanaya quickly chatted with her husband first.
“Mas, busy not?” asked Kanaya who approached Bisma who was in her study by holding a tablet in her hand.
Bisma quickly shook her head and put the tablet on the table, “Why Honey? Which way?” ask the Bisma to Kanaya.
“Aksara has collapsed, Mas .. want something I screwed up,” Kanaya said again and told him the reason she followed her husband to his office was to discuss something with her husband.
Bisma nodded, “Come, we're out. What do you want to talk about? I became curious,” sahutnya while standing and holding his wife's hand to follow him. Get out of the study and now the two are sitting face to face at the dinner table.
Looks Kanaya sighed for a moment, then the two netraya looked at the face of her husband, “Mas, you feel there is something strange with Aksara?”
That one question finally slid from Kanaya's lips. Before she said what was the anxiety of her heart, Kanaya first asked and made it possible to hear the opinion of her husband.
“Aksara? Weirdo? What's so weird?” ask the Bisma to Kanaya.
Then, the man seemed to think. Both of his eyes also moved to look at Kanaya's face that looked so serious. However, so far he thinks there is nothing strange with the Aksara. Note from Card Towards Healthy, Character development is also good, there is nothing to be concerned about.
Kanaya nodded, “Iya, Our characters,” said quickly.
“No, he's growing up so good. Kan in Card Towards Healthy charts the progression of him up. So what's weird?” ask Bisma then.
“Not a problem of the curve of his weight gain and height. Mas Bisma, do not feel it if the response Aksara including slow?” ask Kanaya at the end.
Slow response? Mean how?
The question swirled in Bhishma's mind. What does his wife mean. Therefore, Bhishma asked Kanaya to tell him everything clearly not a piece, so that he could better digest his wife's intentions.
“Try you tell me first,” said Bisma in the end who asked Kanaya to tell her first story.
Kanaya nodded, “I actually noticed Aksara related to her growth and development. I even downloaded one of the apps to monitor its growth and development. Lately I feel, if there is anything different from the Aksara. He was active, agile moving around. However, try Mas Bisma observe, for children aged trying more than one year only, Aksara will not look when we call his name. His ability to follow the voice he heard was also very slight. Following simple instructions also can not.” story Kanaya in the end to her husband.
“Simple example like this, a few days ago, I called his name, ‘Aksara, here Son, follow Mother yuk ..’ but he did not turn his head. I called many times, only Aksara turned her head,” the story of Kanaya again to her husband.
Bisma also listened to every story from Kanaya and tried to remember his interaction with Aksara, whether it was true that the response of Aksara was slow.
“Keep how Dear?” ask the Bisma to Kanaya.
Kanaya sighed before she started to open her voice, “Wish she had to be aware with Aksara sih Mas, maybe it was some kind of red flag.”
Based on the information that Kanaya gets 1-year-old child will at least be able to turn his head when his name is called, can say 2 to 3 simple words, can follow simple instructions such as ‘Dek, get a bottle of milk, and,’ usually the baby will be able to walk and take that bottle of milk and hand it to the person giving the instructions. Not so with the script. As if a red flag was being raised, Kanaya and Bhishma had to be vigilant.
“Try we focus more on Aksara first Darling, now let it be finished from the Clinic, I'm the one who nurtures Aksara. Or I'll just take you to the clinic. The night practice hours at the Clinic I also removed first, focus on Aksara first. Try us more painstakingly first, at least until the Aksara is 1.5 years old. If it turns out that until then, Aksara is still responding slowly, we take it to therapist.” Bhishma speaks with great consideration.
His profession is Pediatrician, but not as if therapist. In the case of characters, a therapist is required. However, before going there, as parents there is no harm, Bisma and Kanaya try to improve the Aksara response.
Kanaya nodded, “Iya, right Mas .. should I just resign, Mas?”
The question came from Kanaya's lips. Even now, he loves his job. However, there is something more important that is Aksara.
“Do not .. wait for the development of Aksara first. While at home, it is better that we get closer to the Scriptures. Do bonding, read books, sing, give simple instructions first, later if we can see the development again,” said Bisma.
Kanaya listened to what her husband said, Yes, for her Aksara is the main thing in her life. It didn't matter that she gave up her career for Aksara, but what her husband said just now was true. Therefore, Kanaya followed the advice of her husband.
“Alright Mas, it's just that I'm ready to give up my career for Aksara,” said Kanaya steadily.
“Iya Darling ... Any more to chat?” ask Bisma again.
However, Kanaya shook her head, “Now. Rather than me being alone, mending directly chatted with you. Kan Aksara our two children, so we better discuss with the growth and development of Aksara. Cognitively, the response script is slow in my opinion,” responded Kanaya by kneading her temples.
Bhishma slowly stood up, and shifted for a moment the chair she was sitting on. The man walked over and headed towards Kanaya, moving his hand to embrace his wife's shoulder and giving a gentle up and down swipe.
“Sabar yes .. we lots of interaction with Aksara first. I am also worried after hearing your story, but we can find a solution together right,” said Bisma by lowering her face to look at Kanaya's face.
“Iya Mas, may Aksara grow optimal,” Kanaya hope for his son.
Because, as a mother, Kanaya also wants her child not only healthy, but also grow optimally. If, there is an indication that there are different from the child, it is certain that the parents will become worried. Same with Kanaya.