Retaliation of the Sick Wife
Preparing the Aksara to Become a Brother
Having more children is not just Kanaya and Bhishma who have to prepare themselves. However, the two of them also had to prepare Aksara to become a Big Brother. Some psychologists say that the ideal distance between the first child to the second child is between two and five years. The distance is not too far away, making the relationship of Brother and Sister will become closer. Meanwhile, if the distance is too far, there will be a large gap.
By the time he was older and he felt mature, had his own toys, his sister had just been born. It could be that the Eldest considers that his sister is no doubt just as a bully and a noisy handyman at home. Do not want to find a distant relationship between Aksara with his sister later who was adrift at the age of almost 8 years. Kanaya and Bhishma actually prepared her son to be an older brother.
In her spare time, Aksara and Kanaya will invite Aksara to chat and involve her son in every phase of Kanaya's pregnancy.
“Mas New character what?” look at Kanaya this time to the Aksara room.
Seen when the door opened, apparently Aksara was reading a book. The boy looked so serious about reading the Encyclopedia book on his study table. Aksara's back with a book on the table and Aksara so seriously read books that store a variety of information and knowledge.
“New reading, Mother ... what's up?” ask Aksara. The boy turned to the door, where his mother was now walking towards him.
Slowly Kanaya went into the room of Aksara, and sat down on the edge of the bed that belonged to her son.
“Mother kangen you,” said Kanaya this time.
Maybe for parents will feel hesitant to say affectionate words to children, especially when the child is a man who is old enough. However, none of this happened in the Bhishma family. Kanaya and Bhishma always say affectionate words to Aksara. Language is one way to express love and feelings.
Aksara who heard the words of his mother also slowly smiled, “Aksara also misses Mother,” he admitted. The child looked timid, but in fact also replied to the words of kangen from his mother.
“In the beginning of the month, Mommy will check up to Doctor Indri again. Mas Aksara temenin Bunda yah?” take Kanaya this time to her mother.
“Iya Mommy .. afternoon right Mommy? During the day the school script,” reply Aksara this time.
“Iya afternoon kok Darling .. same as it used to check baby sister time,” Kanaya said.
The purpose of Kanaya invites Aksara was one way so that Aksara more close and dear to his sister later. Approaching the firstborn with his sister can begin when his sister is still in the womb. That's what Kanaya's working on right now.
“Siap Mommy .. later Aksara temenin. In the past when pregnant Aksara, meaning Mother only check with Dad yah?” ask Aksara now to his mother.
“True, Nak .. when you were pregnant, Mother check it just the same Father,” reply.
Kanaya then stood up, walking towards one of the storage cabinets that were inside the Aksara room. Then take a pregnancy examination notebook complete with the results of his USG photos and submit it to Aksara.
The memory of how he used to contain the Aksara seemed to return to spin. 7 Years was a long time, but now God again entrusts happiness and trust to him and Bhishma. Of course for this time, Kanaya will be even more careful.
Aksara looks smiling staring at every photo given by the Mother. Even Aksara also read every note written by Dr. Indri in the pregnancy checkbook.
“Then characters as small as this are Mother,” said Aksara suddenly.
Kanaya nodded her head, “Iya Nak. However, as time increases you continue to grow in the womb of Mother. Until delivery time, finally Mother and Father can welcome your birth with gratitude and joy,” Kanaya story again this time.
“Thank you very much, Mother,” said Aksara this time. “Thank you for giving birth and caring for Aksara,” Aksara said again.
Canaya's tears were not felt as she was teary-eyed at the thanks from her son. The words of thanks are so simple, but they contain a million meanings for Kanaya.
“Mother can't hug Mas Aksara?” ask Mother Kanaya this time.
The character nodded his head. The boy immediately hugged his mother. Letting the Mother embrace him affectionately. Aksara knows very well that from the embrace given by her Mother at this time, she can feel that her Mother loves her very much.
“Mother, do not be sad well .. yesterday Dad said, if a woman is pregnant do not cry and grieve,” said Aksara this time.
There is a weirdness accompanied by a sobbing when Kanaya hugged her son, “Dad already told you a lot of things huh Mas Aksara?” ask Kanaya now.
There was a faint nod from Aksara, “Iya .. Dad said, if Dad is working, Aksara should keep Mommy at home,” reply again.
Yes, Lord .. Kanaya's heart was just as good as hearing the words of her son. Aksara is really a good and understanding child. Aksara's attitude this time made Kanaya feel relieved. Even at the age of just 7 years, Aksara actually looks so mature. Kanaya is grateful because there are good characters in the Aksara. Kanaya hopes that until her son grows up, Aksara will still be a good child and proud of him in the future.
“Thanks a lot Mas Aksara .. so, Mas Aksara is ready to be a big brother right?” ask Kanaya this time.
“Iya, ready .. only later if his sister is born, the situation will be different and change Mother. So, teach Aksara also well to be a good Brother,” pinta Aksara this time.
Yes, when the child is still in the stomach of the Mother, still does not look adapted will be easy. However, when his sister was born and was already in front of his eyes the situation would be much different. For this reason, Aksara asked her Mother to teach her to be a good sister. The good word itself is broad in meaning, but Kanaya will also translate the broad word into simple actions that can be directly understood by the Scriptures.
Kanaya is so relieved, Aksara is ready to become a Big Brother. Fully true Aksara speech that he still needs to learn and adapt. For this reason, Kanaya and Bhishma will teach Aksara slowly. Preparing Aksara to become a Brother early on.