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#14 ukudullijain

"We're starting the test!" kang Hatim.

"Yes kang!" answer Hana.

"In the book of ukudullijain, how many rights is the husband of a wife?" ask kang Hatim

Want to take the job test, do you want the test to be a wife?

"Java!"

"First, a wife must obey and obey her husband!"

"Is there God's word?"

"In the letter of An-Nisa verse thirty-four!"

"Random!"

"بسم الله الرحمن الحيم

وَالّٰتِيْ تَخَافُوْنَ نُشُوْزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوْهُنَّ وَاهْجُرُوْهُنَّ فِى الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوْهُنَّۚ فَاِنْ اَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوْا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيْلًاۗ اِنَّ اللّٰهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيْرًا

The women whom you fear are nusyuz, so counsel them and beat them. Then if they obey you, then do not look for a way to trouble them. Verily Allah is Most High, Most Great!"

"Hadist?"

"قَالَ مُعَاذٌ : قَدِمْتُ الشَّامَ فَرَأَيْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِأَسَاقِفَتِهِمْ وَعُلَمَائِهِمْ، فَأَنْتَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَحَقُّ أَنْ يُسْجَدَ لَكَ، فَقَالَ: "لَا لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا بَشَرًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِبَشَرٍ لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا مِنْ عِظَمِ حَقِّهِ عَلَيْهَا" 41-98.

From Mu'adz ibn Jabal, he said, I went to Sham. Then I saw them bow down to their priests and clergymen. Then you, O Messenger of Allah, are more worthy of our bowing down to you. She said, If I command a man to bow down to someone, I shall command a woman to bow down to her husband because of the great right of the husband to her. Shahih: Al Albani (Shahih Al Jami’: 5294)!"

"Yes second?"

"Serving husband!"

"Qur'an?"

"بسم الله الرحمن الحيم

نِسَاۤؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَّكُمْۖ فَأْتُوْا حَرْثَكُمْ اَنّٰى شِئْتُمْۖ وَقَدِّمُوْا لِاَنْفُسِكُمْۗ وَاتَّقُوا اللّٰهَ وَاعْلَمُوْٓا اَنَّكُمْ مُّلٰقُوْهُۗ وَبَشِّرِ الْمُؤْمِنِيْنَ

Your wives are (as) the land where you grow crops, so come the land where you grow crops how you will. Do (good deeds) for yourself, and fear Allah and know that you will meet Him. Give glad tidings to those who believe. (QS. Al Baqarah: 223)!"

"Hadist?"

"In a hadith bukhari means

"Third?"

"Go with husband's permission!"

"Hadist?"

"The Prophet said: "It is not lawful (prohibition) for women who believe in Allah and the last day (apocalypse) to travel within a day and night except together with their mahram. (HR Bukhari and Muslim).!"

"Four?"

"Keep the good name of the husband!"

"Qur'an?"

"بسم الله الرحمن الحيم

وَمَنْ يَّعْمَلْ مِنَ الصّٰلِحٰتِ مِنْ ذَكَرٍ اَوْ اُنْثٰى وَهُوَ مُؤْمِنٌ فَاُولٰۤىِٕكَ يَدْخُلُوْنَ الْجَنَّةَ وَلَا يُظْلَمُوْنَ نَقِيْرًا

That is to say: Whoever does good deeds, both men and women, while he is a believer, they enter into heaven and are not persecuted in the least. (QS. An Nisa: 124)!"

"Fifth?"

"Part yourself and trust in the husband's treasure!"

"بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

وَاعْلَمُوْٓا اَنَّمَآ اَمْوَالُكُمْ وَاَوْلَادُكُمْ فِتْنَةٌ ۙوَّاَنَّ اللّٰهَ عِنْدَهٗٓ اَجْرٌ عَظِيْمٌ

Meaning: And know that your wealth and your children are only a trial, and that with Allah is a great reward. (QS. Al Anfal verse 28)!"

"There again?"

"Not putting anyone in the house if there is no husband and no permission!"

"Hadist?"

"Rasulullah SAW said:

فَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ فِي النِّسَاءِ فَإِنَّكُمْ أَخَذْتُمُوهُنَّ بِأَمَانِ اللَّهِ وَاسْتَحْلَلْتُمْ فُرُوجَهُنَّ بِكَلِمَةِ اللَّهِ وَلَكُمْ عَلَيْهِنَّ أَنْ لَا يُوطِئْنَ فُرُشَكُمْ أَحَدًا تَكْرَهُونَهُ فَإِنْ فَعَلْنَ ذَلِكَ فَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ وَلَهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ رِزْقُهُنَّ وَكِسْوَتُهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ

Then take care of yourself against women. You may take them as the trust of Allah, and they are lawful to you by obeying the rules of Allah. After that, you have a right to them, that they may not allow others to occupy your mat. If they break, beat them in a way that does no harm. Instead they have a right over you. That is a living and proper clothing. (CHR. Muslim) [No. 1218 Sharh Shahh Muslim] Shahih!"