Young Ustadz
#160
"So who else wants the nanya?" said Aang Kafi.
A santriawati raised her hand.
"Sok!" said aang Kafi.
"assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, introduce my name Risma, I want to ask what are the requirements of Ustadz's husband! thank you!" Said the questioner and immediately boisterous cheers of the students when they heard the question from Risma.
"Okey, in the book of as-silah fii bayan nikah, by al-'alim al-'alama shaykh Muhammad Kholil bin Abdul Latif Bangkalan, that the condition of the husband is five! anything yet? the first condition of the husband, we must be sure that our husband is male, so it should not be legal or illegal for us to marry same-sex! why is it illegal if we like the same sex? one of the statements in the book nasho ihul ibad by Sheikh Shihabuddin Ahmad there said that the Prophet Muhammad SAW said there are seven groups that will not get the mercy of Allah,the first who will not get the grace of God is a person who likes same-sex, or gay or lesbian or lgbt the second group who likes to masturbate, the third is a group who likes to rape animals, the third is a group who likes to rape animals,the fourth we censor first yes, the fifth is the group who married mothers and children.The six groups who commit adultery with neighbors and the seventh are the group of people who hurt the hearts of neighbors.Lanjutya yes, the six groups who commit adultery with neighbors and the seventh are the group of people who hurt the hearts of neighbors,so the condition of the husband must be a man, the second day is determined which man we will make a husband! the third, our husband should not be the Ihrom or Hajj or umrah, it means fitting the agreement, so should not be married when our husband or our candidate is on Hajj! the fourth cannot be the muhrim, like a brother or kaka, father, paman, it cannot be! the last must still stop by, if you already have one wife how kang? can his first wife give permission, if his wife is already two how kang? please do! if his wife has three how kang? please do! four kang already? we're the fifth, so it can't be! because a man's batesan can only marry four women!" kang Hatim's..
"understand?" ask Aang Kafi.
"God understands kang!" answer the santri.
"There's already, a suitable husband?" ask Aang Kafi.
"Not yet!" answer the santriawati.
"Agreed!" boisterous santriwan.
"Lat's wife also there are five, the first must be a woman dong of course, the second is also the same as the condition of the husband, which must be determined which woman we will marry! the third is still the same as the husband's terms! it cannot be Ihrom, hajj or umrah! the fourth is also the same can not be the muhrim! fifth, we must not marry a woman who is still in the period of iddah or the woman we want to marry still has a husband.Kang why can not marry a married woman? well it says in the passage of the letter an-nisa which sounds and is forbidden also you marry a married woman, except the slaves you have (God has set the law) as His decree over you!" kang Hatim.
"Well, it has been answered yes, may you all get a match according to the requirements of the previous Ustadz Hatim yes, as a bonus may we get a beautiful wife, handsome husband, as well,rich wife established husband! but remember, property and good looks are not included mandatory requirements!" said Aang Kafi and aminkan by santri santrinya.
"Maybe enough for today yes, Ustadz Hatim seems to be tired yes, read sholawat before disbanding!" the santri read sholawat.Santriawati immediately went politely and orderly, while the santriawan shook hands and kissed the hands of the kang Hatim and Aang Kafi first before leaving.
**book of As-Silah fii bayan....
See again episode 159*...