Young Ustadz
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"Also, the Prophet said, When a man has a relationship with another man, then they both have committed adultery and when a woman does so with a fellow woman, too,they were also punished with adultery!" kang Hatim.

"Continue?" ask kang Hatim.

"Lanjuuu!" answer jamaah.

"The number two condition in the search for a wife is to be determined! Which woman will we marry! According to the above hadith we must marry a woman whose religion is good! find something like that! must determine! Don't be genuine! I don't know which woman to marry! ask me another question! Ustadz, does the soul mate have to be alone? not chosen that! Answer not ma'am? Answer not neng?"

"Yahoooo!" jamaa.

"Indeed, choosing a mate must choose for itself! Must see first bebet seedlings weights! Can't marry a woman you just met after you've met! after shah! Like buying a sack in a sack! Not necessarily both are suitable already syah! How about if it doesn't fit, alias the girl agrees with the guy, but if the guy doesn't want to? Or the other way around?Worse not to like! That can't be! Even in the days of the Prophet, there was an anshar! His name is Khansa binta Khidza.Dinikahkan by his father to a young man, even though the Khansa is not in love with the man! Keep the Khansa complaining to Rosul that he is in a match with a man he does not love! What did Rosul say? Rodda fas nikahaha! Then the wedding is off!"

"Three, can't get married during Umrah! Or on a hajj ride! The fourth cannot be the muhrim! What the hell is that muhrim? If it is not wrong there are twenty-one records of the muhrim.First child and mother or father, then brother and sister! keep the son-in-law with the in-laws! Keep uncle or aunt the same as pounding! Grandchildren like grandparents or grandparents! Brothers, and many more! The time of the Prophet Adan Alaihis salam is indeed shah, can sister marry to brother or vice versa! How else, because there's nothing else!"

"Before proceeding! Let's not get bored! I want a poem can't I?"

"Bolteeh!" answer the congregation.

"Love this to you is holy....!" kang hatim sang the Indonesian verse zaujati persi.

"Mother ma'am?" asked Kang Hatim after he finished singing with shahdu while singing his eyes could not be separated from looking at his wife and so did Hana.

"Lanjuu!"

"Aren't you tired?" ask kang Hatim.

"Gaaa!"

"Muhun mango in advanced! Da abdi nu cape mah bu!" kang Hatim.

"Last, fifth! Requirements for a wife who wants to find a husband! No man can have four wives! Ustadz, how many times can a man marry? Abah Asep said, men can marry four women at maximum! Fangkihuu maathoobaa lakum minan nisaaai masnaa wasulastsa waruba'a fainkhiftum alaa ta'diluu fawaa hidah! Marry a woman you like two, three or four, but if you're worried you won't be able to be fair, then marry just one!"

"Ustaaaaadz,naha ari lalaki meunang ngawin opat awewe ari awewe teu meunang lewih ti hiji lalaki?" kang Hatim's.

'Ustaaaadz, why can a man marry four women but a woman cannot marry more than one man?'

"Mother imagine! there's a cobek one! Continued in the same ulekan four can not? Surely can't! But if you have a tear emat his yoke one! Could finish! Understand mom?" ask Hatim and worshipers instead of answering laugh instead.

"Now laugh at all? This is a serious discussion, Mom!" kang Hatim.

"Keep hukumnya if a man marries a woman who is still in the sacred period or the period of iddah! More or less if not just three months and ten days! Or a hundred more days! What if you like a manstruation? That's enough with just one saint!"

"Yesdaaaaadz! Naha make kudu aya iddah sagala? Though euceu yeuh euceu geus teu strong hayang mating deui!" the word kang hatim again made his worshipers laugh.

'Ustaaaadz! why is there iddah everything? euceu nih euceu is not strong enough to want to marry again!'

"the reason! Fear, when women are talak by her husband, she is pregnant! And immediately married again, what if the ex-husband does not want to admit it's his son and instead accuse it's his new husband's son! And then her new husband didn't say it either! It can be a complicated affair!" kang Hatim.

"Last mom, it's night! I'm afraid I won't sleep all night and bad luck doesn't pray at dawn! And mom said gini! keun bae ah kabeurun pray dawn ge da peuting geus tolabul ilmi tilu speaker!" imitating the voice of the mother's chatty to make her worshipers laugh again.

'Biarin ah bad luck of the dawn prayer as well because last night was the science of the three preachers!'

"Basar mom mother fool! Can't do that, ma'am! Tholabul ilmi number two and pray the main tetep!" kang Hatim.

"So gini ma'am, Alhamdulillah, I married for four months, and it just so happened that after the wedding I was trusted for the child care that was still in my wife's birth! Well for that, I ask his prayer to all, may my wife who conceives my first child always be given health by God, and may in the period of delivery later be given smooth! And the child wants it to be a boy or a girl, so that child is sholehah! And also I also ask his prayer so that I can always be istiqomah, healthy always! Special fil jasadi waruhi Farhana Sri Cempaka Indah bint Ayah Bima, alfatihah!" kang Hatim and all worshippers read al-Fatihah's letter.

"That's all I can say, I'm sorry if there's a word mistake or something that could hurt my heart! Wassalaamu 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh!"

Italic writing is translation from sunda😉🙏 language