Ask Me Before You Lose Me
Aib" self, ethics, heart, wit, and tongue

Aib disgrace and his Etician

Educate yourself with what you dislike other than yourself.

A man's reproach of himself is a silent praise of him.

It is not your cock that you will fornicate if you bow your gaze.

The devil of every man is himself.

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HEARTED

The most amazing thing in man is his heart, even though he is the source of wisdom as well as his opponent. If there is hope, greed will subdue it. If greed has flared up, it will be destroyed by stinginess. If he had been overcome by despair, regret would have killed him. If in anger, be angry. If he is satisfied, he forgets to guard, if he is afraid, he is busy with prudence. If he is in spaciousness (rich), his pride rises. If you get property, wealth makes it arbitrarily. If he is in trouble, he is drowning in trouble. If his hunger strengthens, weakness makes him unable to stand upright. And if too full, his stomach will interfere with his comfort. Verily every deficiency will be harmful, and every thing that transgresses will be destructive and destructive.

There are four deadly things, namely: the sins that are piled up, (listening to ) the guyunon of the scout, being rude to women, and sitting with the dead.

People ask, "who are the dead, O Amirul mu'minin ?"

Imam Ali answered, "that is, every servant who lives in luxury."

Know ! Indeed, among the disasters there is fear, which is heavier than fear is the disease of the body, and which is heavier than the disease of the body is the disease of the liver. Know it! Indeed, among the pleasures are many treasures, the most important of which is the health of the body, and the most important of the health of the body is the piety of the heart.

Ask your heart about all things, for it is a witness who will not take bribes.

The best of hearts is the one who remembers the most.

Light your heart with adab, as fire with firewood.

The most beneficial treasure is the love of the heart.

Verily the heart has desire, care, and unwillingness, so it comes from the direction of its pleasure and care, for, if it is forced, it will be blind.

Verily, the heart experiences happiness, just as the flesh of the body.And give it anecdote of wisdom.

If you doubt someone's love, ask your heart about it.

WITS

The greatest wealth is reason.

Intellect (intelligence) is seen through association, while evil is known when he is in power.

Intellect is king, character is his people. If the mind is weak to regulate that habit, then there will be a defect in it.

Intellect is more important than lust enslaves you to the age.

The basic food of the body is food, while the basic food of reason is wisdom. So whenever one of the two is lost, he perishes and disappears.

Sit with the wise, be they enemies or friends. Because reason meets reason.

There is no treasure more precious than reason.

The most valuable relation is reason paired with luck.

Adab is a picture of reason.

If the mind is allowed to be in control, not captivity by lust, or transcend religion, or fanatical towards the ancestors, it will inevitably lead to its treatment of salvation.

If you want to close a book, then you must re-examine it. Because what you're covering up is your wits

If Allah were to deprive a servant of the favor, then the first thing that is changed from him is his mind.

Intellect is instinct, whereas nurturing it is experience.

Intellect is the fruit of thought and knowledge previously unknown.

The soul is the life of the body, while the mind is the life of the soul.

Intellect is a recording of experiences.

Your apostle is your interpreter of reason.

A reasonable person competes with a Godly person in order to catch up with them, and he is eager to be able to associate with them because of his love for them even though his charity is not able to match them.

Oranf reasoned, if speaking with a sentence, then join with him wisdom and advice.

The wisest and the most perfect of his virtues is the one who fills his day with peace, his brother with reconciliation, and looks upon it with kindness.

It is not proper for a reasonable person except to be in one of these two conditions, which is to be in the highest mind in search of the world, or be in the highest mind to leave it.

It is not proper for a reasonable person to demand the obedience of others (to him), while his obedience to himself is rejected.

A reasonable person is one who suspects his own opinion and does not believe what he sees well.

A reasonable person is the one who makes the experience (life ) as advice for him.

Verily the word of the wise man, if it be true, is medicine; but if it be wrong, it is disease.

The enmity of the wise is the most severe and most dangerous enmity, for it comes only after being preempted by arguments and arguments, and after all there is no longer any chance of peace between them.

Indeed, something that is not liked (fortune ) has a limit that will end. Therefore, a reasonable person should be calm until the misfortune is gone (passed by his solitude.) because, avoiding it before the end of time will only add to his misfortune.

The one who is most favored by the intelligent is his enemy also intelligent. For if his enemy is wise, he will feel safe from his evil.

The reproach of a reasonable man is more severe than the punishment of a ruler.

The beginning of the opinion of a reasonable person is the end of the opinion of a fool.

For a reasonable person, living in distress with a sensible person is more enjoyable than living in spaciousness with a fool.

TONGUE

The believer's tongue is at the back of his heart, while the hypocritical's heart is at the back of his tongue.

It is not the straight faith of a servant that is straight in heart, nor will it be straight in heart until his tongue is straight.

By Allah, I do not see a servant with a fear that benefits him so that he keeps his tongue.

Verily, this tongue does not obey its owner.

Speak, you will be known because people are hidden under their tongues.

The calmness of a person is in his understanding of his tongue.

Your tongue demands you what you have accustomed it.

The tongue of the beast laksanq, which if released, will surely bite

If the tongue is a tool to express what comes to mind, then you should not use it in what is not in the mind.

Words remain in your grasp as long as you have spoken them, if you have spoken them, then you are the one who is bound by them. Therefore, keep your tongue, as you keep your gold and your silver. Sometimes the word contains pleasure, but it leads to disaster.

Very few tongues are fair to you, both in spreading evil and good.

Weigh your words by your deeds, and scant them in speaking except in goodness.

Sometimes silence is stronger than an answer.

If the mind has reached perfection, it will diminish its speech.

What is missed from you because of your silence is easier for you to get than what is missed from you because of your words

The best word a man says is what his actions prove.

If summation (in word ) is sufficient, then multiplication (word ) indicates the inability to express something. And if the brief is in the sense of lacking, then multiplying (word ) must be done.

Whosoever has much to say, then many are his faults; whosoever has much to do with, then little shame; whosoever is a little shame, then little Wara' (Death in religion); whosoever is little, then his heart dies; and whosoever dies his heart, he shall go to hell.