Ask Me Before You Lose Me
COURTESY,MNJGA RHSIA, CAREFUL ETC
COURTESY AND APOLOGY
If you are not a polite person, then make yourself like a polite person. For whosoever resembles a people is almost one of them.
The most important person sorry is the one who has the most power to reply.
Forgive the man who wronged you
Verily, Allah loves when the error of the generous one is forgiven.
Forgive the faults of men, and do not complain about the faults of anyone whom you dislike.
Sorry is given to those who admit mistakes, not to those who make mistakes.
Do not embarrass the face of an apologist by reproaching him.
An apology is broken in the hands of a despicable person, just as well as in the hands of a noble person.
Get used to tolerance.
Accept the apology of the person who apologized to you.
If you want to be friends with someone, make them angry. So if he remains just to you in his anger, make him your friend; but if not, leave him.
If you hear the words that bother you, bow your head, for they can lead you into sin.
The (means) tool of leadership is chest spaciality.
KEEPING SECRETS AND DELIVERING TRUST
Among the messages is to repay kindness because it is like a deposit to you.
Delivering the mandate is the key to sustenance.
Not all secrets are open to you (to others), and not everything you know can be told to others.
Do not betray anyone who commands you, even if he has betrayed you.
Your secret is your blood (trust it) except on your neck veins (the ones closest to you)
Trust your secret to only one person, and your deliberation to a thousand (many people).
A trusted sibling is one who can hold (keep ) secrets.
The right of every secret is to be guarded, and the secret most deserving of guard is your secret with your Lord, and its secret with you. Know that whoever defiles another will be scorned; and whosoever divulges a secret, he hath allowed his own blood to be shed (to be killed).
The cure of all diseases is to hide them.
Each time more and more secret storage places, there will be more and more loss (disclosure of the secret ).
Almost certainly something that can not be trusted if he interfered in a secret affair, he would leak it.
You may have many friends, but you must entrust your secrets to one of them.
Don't put your secrets to someone you don't think you can trust to keep them a secret.
Do not spread the secrets of those who spread your secrets.
Whosoever hides his secret, good will always be in his hands.
CAREFUL
With softness the need will be obtained, and with heart it will be easy everything you want.
Choose your water source.
Proof is a determination.
Hastiness in all matters will produce distress, the main cause of regret, delusional evils, reproach for reason, and evidence of the weakness of belief (belief ).
People who think (before doing something) successfully achieve the goal or almost, while people who rush to meet failure or almost.
Whoever in his affairs is in a position not to think about the consequences, then he has presented himself to a great calamity.
Moving a silent person is easier than silencing a moving one.
Keep yourself out of the way if you worry about getting lost in it. Because, holding back when in doubt will get lost is better than riding something scary.
Among the taufik is to stop when in doubt.
KEEP PROMISES AND DO GOOD
Verily, among the virtues is to abide by the covenant.
The most worthy of the person who breaks the promise is not to keep the promise to him.
O people, indeed keeping promises is the twin brother of honesty. I didn't know there was a fort more awake than him. And will not break the promise of the one who knows how to return the one who broke the promise.
Keep the deal strong.
Kindness (others) is a bondage that cannot be released except by thanking or replying to it.
Consider the one who glorifies you.
Be the first, be the first, and speak with men with good words.
Pray for the one who gives you.
If your hands are not able to repay kindness, multiply your tongue by thanking you (to those who do good to you).
Do good (to others), as you like others to do good to you.
It is good of you to be with all the pleasures because they will be lost, and he testifies to the one who gets them for what he does with them.
Do good to those who do bad to you, and repay those who do good to you.
Goodness is breaking the tongue.
Thank the one who gave you, and give the one who thanked you.
Reject what is harmful with the reward of alms.
The bad of a good man is to give you, while the good of a bad man is to keep his gangs away from you.
If a king increases his hospitality to you, then you must increase in glorifying him.
Befriend the one who always remembers your kindness towards him and forgets the help he once gave you.
Do good to whomever you will, and you will be its leader; do not need to whomsoever you will, and you will be worthy ; and help whomever you will, and you will be his captive.
Know the truth for anyone who introduces him to you, whether he is a noble person or a lowly person.
The person you love the most is the one who helps you a lot.
Your kindness to the free person encourages him to return the good to you, while your kindness to the despised one encourages him to repeat the request to you.
Woe to your brother by doing good to him, and reject his ignorance by giving him.
Replies to those who make happy are not annoying.
HUMBLE
Humility (tawadhu ) is a pleasure that is not understood by a spiteful person.
Arrogant towards sombing people is the tawadhu itself.
Humility is one way to get glory.
Humility leads to security.
There is no such thing as a sublime (nobler ).
Biah from humble is (getting ) love.
The humility of a person when he has a position becomes a protection for him when he has a position to be a protection for him when he has a fall.
Meet people when they need you with cheerfulness and humility. So, if you are exposed to a calamity and a bad situation befall you, and then you meet them, then you are safe and in spite of the danger of humiliation because of your humility.