Ask Me Before You Lose Me
ANGER, DANDRUFF, UJUB, TAKABUR ETC

ANGER AND CONFUSION

Set aside for your pleasure from your anger; and if you fly, stay near.

The anger of the wise man lies in his deeds, while the anger of the ignorant in his words.

The tongue of the wise man is behind his heart, while the heart of the fool is behind his tongue.

Fakir kefakiran is kedunguan.

Do not be friends with fools because he is good at what he does and he wants you to be like him.

Whoever sees the disgrace of the people and denies it, but he is willing that the disgrace is upon himself, then that is true imitation.

Adab on the side of the imbecile like fresh water in the roots of peria plants, each time the water increases the bitterness.

If a fool speaks, he is muddled; if he tells a story, he is hasty; and if he is told to do a bad deed, he will nail it.

If a fool speaks with one sentence, he will include it with an oath.

Do not make a fool your brother, but he will bring you no benefit. There are times when he wants to benefit you, but he harms you. Thus, the silence of the fool is better than his own, his distance is better than his nearness, and his death is better than his life.

UJUB AND TAKABUR

Ujub is the opposite of truth.

No compliments with vanity.

The most difficult ache to fix is ujub and stubborn.

A man's amazement at himself is one of his wits.

Many people who are amazed at themselves are caused by words of praise to him.

The greatest pride is that you should not be proud.

If lowly people are educated, they are arrogant; and if they become rich, they act arbitrarily.

If a person has been possessed of this world beyond his level, his character becomes alien to man.

If Allah had permitted pride in one of his servants, he would have permitted it to his prophet and his special guardian. However, Allah SWT does not want them to be arrogant, and he is happy if they are tawadhu. So they pressed their cheeks against the ground, buried their faces in the dust, and humbled themselves against the believers. They are the oppressed.

Do not destroy your goodness with pride and pride.

Be meek and be patient, and you will be absorbed; and do not be ujubah, for if you are 'ujub, you will be hated and looked down upon.

There is no solitude more alienating than 'ujub.

Why did Adam's son boast? Verily the beginning is ***** and the hereafter is a carcass. He could not provide sustenance to himself and could not resist his death.

Something that is not well said by a person even if he is right is to praise himself.

 Malevolently

Malice is a defect in religion.

Malice is a sure sorrow, a chaotic mind, and a continuous distress.the enjoyment for the person in spite is a pleasure, while for the person who is spiteful is a disaster.

Healthy body because little spite.

A spiteful person grieves for one who has no sin against him.

The malice of a friend is the disease of love.

The malice in hisaranz as he inherited the property.

A spiteful person sees the loss of pleasure from you as enjoyment for him.

If Allah wills to empower a servant to an enemy who has no mercy on him, then he will empower him to a spiteful man.

Do not grieve each other, for it eats the Faith, just as fire eats firewood.

A spiteful person will never be satisfied with you until one of you both dies.

If you serve a leader, then do not wear the same clothes as him, and do not take such a servant with his servant, then chances are that you will be safe from him.

Ownership causes malice. Malice causes anger. Anger causes strife. Disputes cause divisions. Divisions cause weakness. Weakness causes humiliation. And humiliation leads to the loss of power and the loss of pleasure.

HYPOCRISIES

The hypocrisy of a person is a disgrace.

Whoever praises you for a good that is not there for you when he is happy for you, he will reproach you for a bad that is not there for you when he hates you.

Hypocrites have a recognizable mark: their respect is a curse, their food is an accusation, and their income is corruption, they know the mosque only as a place of escape, pray only at the end of time. They are arrogant, do not want to get along and do not participate in the association. Provocator at night, but frenzied during the day.

Take wisdom whenever it comes to you. For there are times when the wisdom is in the bosom of a hypocrite, then he will wriggle so that he becomes calm after returning to the bosom of his owner (the believer).

Know that he who praises you for what you do not have, verily he also conveys it to others besides you, while his reward and reward have fallen from you.

Be careful of hypocrisy in religion.

I command you, O servant of Allah, with piety to Allah, and I warn you (danger ) hypocrites. Because, they are people who slip up again. They are people who change in various colors (group ), and they talk about many things. They are a group of demons and hellhounds. They are the demons. Know that the Satanists are the losers. (QS 58:19).

DESPAIRINGLY

In despair there is a looming of the limits.

Do not despair if your prayers are slow to be answered, because the giving is in accordance with the level of demand.

Despair is more reprehensible than patience.

Sadness and anger are two leaders who demand an event contrary to what you like. However, something you do not like, if it comes from a person who is "above you" then it will cause sadness; and if it comes from a person who is "under you," it will cause your anger.

Showing confidence including from the weakness of the spirit.

If you grieve over that which has escaped your hand, then you must grieve over that which has not yet come to you.

Impatience when in a disaster is part of the complete ordeal itself.

The person who is the ugliest of his circumstances is the broad of his knowledge, the strong of his ambitions, but the small of his abilities.