Competing Love With Ustadz
Do'a First Night

In the evening, after inviting Sakinah to pray the two rakaats, Adnan rubbed Sakinah's head by reading Do'a as follows.

اَللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ خَيْرِهَا وَخَيْرِ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ، وَأَعُوْذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ

Allaahumma innii as’aluka khairahaa wa khaa maa jabaltahaa ‘alaihi, wa a’uudzubika min syarriha wa syarrihaa maa jabaltahaa ‘alaihi.

Which means: “Yes Allah, I ask for his goodness and the goodness of his character which he brings. And I took refuge from his ugliness and the ugliness of the habits he brought.” Then Adnan blew into the sakinah crown while closing his eyes.

Adnan became so awkward when he opened his eyes and saw Sakinah raising her face and looking at him.

Adnan immediately averted his gaze and folded the prayer mat to hide his nervousness.

After a few minutes Adnan turned his head back and no longer saw Sakinah where they had been praying. Then he turned his gaze and saw Sakinah already sitting with her cute on the edge of the bed while raising her eyebrows.

Adnan turned his eyes back and painstakingly swallowed his saliva against the wife who did not have the slightest awkwardness towards him.

Seeing that Sakinah tried to melt the atmosphere by trying to be gentle by grabbing Adnan's hand and asking him to sit next to her.

Even though they sit together and face each other. Adnan still feels nervous and hesitant to touch Sakinah who has now officially become his wife. Because of that too, Again Sakinah must make Adnan comfortable and not feel awkward again to him.

"Didn't Mas Ustadz ever teach me if Allah Azza Wa Jalla said… "

They (wives) are clothes for you (husbands), and you are clothes for them.(QS Al-Baqarah :187)"

Hearing that Adnan smiled faintly and began to feel comfortable with Sakinah. "You remember?"

"Of course, I remember whatever Mas Ustadz taught me."

With a timid smile slowly Adnan brought his lips closer to Sakinah's forehead and kissed her gently. After that Adnan was silent again when the two pairs of their eyes met again.

"Clothes are attached to the body, in direct contact with the skin. Thus nearby. Husband and wife should be like that too. There is physical closeness and inner closeness. A good husband is a happy partner for his wife. The wife did too. Close friends, so that each party easily conveys his ideas and desires.

Al-Hafidz Ibn Kathir rahimahullah stated: ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ⁇ ※ ⁇ There is no union (nearly) between two spirits greater than between husband and wife (Tafsir al-Quranil Adzhim by Ibn Kathir, When interpreting the letter al-A’raaf verse 189)

Sakinah's words make Adnan smile again and happy because what he has taught so far has been well understood by Sakinah.

"Khumaira.." whispered Adnan in Sakinah's ear by slowly lying down.

"Do not let any of you beat his wife like an animal. Let him first give the prelude, i.e., a kiss and a woo."

After a long time of introduction. Adnan read Do'a undressing "Bismillah, allahumma jannibnas-shaithaan wa jannibis-shaithaana maa razaq-tanaa"

Meaning: By reciting the name of Allah, O Allah, keep us from (disturbance) Satan and keep the devil from the sustenance which You have bestowed upon us. After that Adnan replaced it with a blanket.

Under that thick blanket Adnan gave his inner living for the first time to Sakinah with the adab and the corresponding way he learned in Islam. Therefore, Adnan did not leave his wife just like that even though he achieved his desire first.

It was done by one of the narrators who said:

“If someone among you is in contact with his wife, let him do it with all earnestness. If he completes his needs before his wife gets satisfaction, then let him not hastily pluck until his wife gets his satisfaction too.” (CHR. Abdur Razaq and Abu Ya’la, from Anas)

"Now it's my turn" said Sakinah, who turned her back around by not taking off the blankets covering their bodies.

Seriate...

📌 Do'a Air Mani exit :

“Allahummaj’al nuthfatna dzurriyyatan thayyibah”

Meaning: O Allah make our nutfah a good (godly) offspring.

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Do'a After Reading :

“Alhamdulillaahi lladzii khalaqa minal maa i basyaraa”

Means: Praise be to Allah who has made this semen into man (hered)

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May be useful, If there are different understandings of mutual respect only, Because Different Ulama, Beda Mahsab 🙏