The charm of Ayra Khairunnisa
131 Pak Bagas and Obsession Love Disorder
Nuaima woke up from the position that his head was in the lap of Umi Laila.
"Right-natured brother. Maybe my intention has been to work to look successful with my intelligence all this time. I should involve God while still working with the intention to help my husband in meeting our needs. I sometimes feel that my husband's results are normal when mas Munir gives his salary every month.
Maybe because my results are greater than my husband's income. And now maybe my intention to stop working must also be with the intention that my household is happy really mawadah warahmah huh Kak? and happy husband, brother?"
Nod the head of Umi Laila with an advice.
"Involve God in all our actions, our decisions. God willing, Satan will find it difficult to enter into the chambers of our hearts that are vulnerable to the temptations of Satan who is very good at playing with a taste, a prejudice in the household especially. Because it is very happy to tempt us who have married this with his shot.
Especially if we are separated. One more Ai. do not forget the science. Because in the home is not enough just love. But a science is needed in navigating the household ark. So do not get tired of continuing to learn even though we are married."
Nuaima smiled sweetly. He was happy because sentence after sentence given by Umi Laila to him was able to make himself a little calm and correct himself. Nuaima has received all of Munir's paychecks. But a large need can not be fulfilled just rely on Munir's salary. Then maybe the devil was playing in Nuaima's heart.
Whisper that if it wasn't for his work or his glorious career maybe their lives would still be in short supply. Lucky advice Umi Laila able to make Nuaima realized.
That the hatred of her husband, the desire to separate from her husband is a whisper of the devil who may be hiding behind the soft heart that still has faith if divorce is something that God does not like.
Nuaima spent the night there without Nuaima realizing that his departure after the company led by Pak Bagas he had followed someone who was none other than Mr. Bagas. The man who had three children followed Nuaima all the way to Kali Bening.
He was obsessed with Nuaima. Until he was still curious about the reasons that make women who are soft-hearted, and always be kind and polite to anyone that is to resign from his company.
The man parked his car quite far from Kyai Rohim's house. But he could see Ayra was in the room with some small children.
"Ah, if only I had asked you first. Maybe that kid is our baby Aima. Why did you resign? I can't see you for a day. Didn't hear your voice. Oh, Aima..., "
Mr. Bagas who actually he realized that he experienced a psychological disorder commonly called obsessive love disorder is a condition when a person has an excessive obsession with the person he loves. He used to experience the same thing with his wife.
Obsession Love Disorder makes it difficult for a person to let go of his love. Despite having to separate, the person will reject the fact that their relationship has ended.
Until something similar happened when he was married to his wife and had children. He again felt very loving, very eager to protect the person he loved. If he used to do everything he did to his wife with his status still dating. She loves a woman who has a husband and children.
Somehow Nuaima was so attractive so beautiful, so perfect compared to his own wife. He did not try to return to a psychiatrist when he felt such a deep love for Nuaima. He chose to love Nuaima in silence. In the current position, although not as aggressive as when he was still a bachelor by establishing a love relationship with his wife first.
A psychological condition that eventually disturbs the person who becomes the object of Mr. Bagas' love. Nuaima becomes the victim of two men who both have a taste for her. I want to love, to protect. And don't want anyone else to have him.
Obsession Love Disorder can be a sign of a serious mental condition. OLD is not a psychiatric disorder and is not included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). But OLD has the potential to make someone stressed to depression.
Pak Bagas should have contacted his psychologist back when he was married to his wife so he could get early treatment before the disorder became more severe but over time without realizing it was actually getting worse and worse making it now reckless stalking and meeting Nuaima up to Kali Bening.
Like this afternoon when this morning Munir said that he could not pick up Nuaima made Nuaima leave for the terminal to take the bus to return to Surabaya. But without Nuaima knowing Mr. Bagas has been behind him. The bag he was holding was quickly pulled by Mr. Bagas.
The shocked Nuaima turned around. How surprised Nuaima when he saw Mr. Bagas there and pulled his hand with the bag he was tenting towards a black car.
Nuaima's heart was racing. He was worried that someone would look up to be slander. Quickly he patis Bagas hand. Until Mr. Bagas steps stopped.
"Stop Sir! What are you doing here? You will make me even more difficult because of your actions!"
Mr. Bagas turned towards Nuaima. He saw a figure not far behind Nuaima who he knew. Until she desperately hugged Nuaima in front of a man who was none other than her husband Nuaima.
Munir who turns out to be able to pick up Nuaima late tells if he is on his way to Kali Bening. When he arrived at the residence of Kyai Rohim. He was late because Nuaima had left for the Terminal. Finally he who had just reached the terminal saw Nuaima was with a man who he hated so much. Even Nuaima who was in Mr. Bagas' arms made Munir's jaw harden.
His gaze and Mr. Bagas clashed. Mr. Bagas felt this was an opportunity to separate Nuaima from her husband. While Munir felt hurt when his wife was even in the arms of the man he had suspected.
"Good! This is what you say take care of yourself! Ai. Nuaima Al-Fiyah!!!"