The charm of Ayra Khairunnisa
208 Regret Bram

Bram who has Ayra is very grateful because the wife is good at choosing time. When can she give advice to her husband without the husband feeling humiliated even though he has a higher knowledge of the husband for religious affairs. As at this time, his wife did not immediately patronize her Husband when Bram yelled at Lady Lukis. But she waited for the right time or timing to talk to her husband.

The love of his son makes Bram forget that he still has to respect his parents. If there is one paradigm that parents do not interfere in household affairs it seems less appropriate. For God commands men to serve both parents in all things.

Ayra who hopes to have children who are Sholeh and Sholehah and understand if it will be difficult to achieve, will be as good as morals he and Bram in educating their children. Without being accompanied by birul walidain or filial attitude to both parents.

Ayra confirmed her sitting position until now she sat facing her husband.

"The Messenger of Allah said 'Do you good to your mother and father, and your children will do good to you'. Even Umi and Abi once reminded if one way that we have children whose hearts are good through doing good to both our parents."

Bram covered his mouth with one hand and his mind went back to the incident earlier this afternoon. He also remembers how he used to be when he was a child. Life is still lacking. A mother and wife who are far from her husband. Because Mr. Erlangga still often out of town and only come home once a month.

Bram's childhood as the firstborn gave up on his two younger siblings. But his mother's love was not diminished. His mother is still always trying to be a good mother even though her husband often left behind. Never feel tired Mistress Paints vent on her three children. Never did Madame Lukis hit her children. Or when her husband came home did not bring money because he was cheated by his business partners. Lady Paints is still a good mother. A wife who is patient and accepts all conditions of deprivation as a test without being faced with emotions, disappointment and regret.

One principle of the life of mistress Paints that life must be spinning. Sometimes below sometimes above until he is always eager to live life in times of difficulty, when tired of the conditions that eat the mind, energy and emotions.

Ayra held her husband's hand. He scratched the back of the husband's hand.

"Mas knows. Ayra was very grateful to Mama. Because Mama from pregnant to taking care of mas. Until you can have a perfect body, dashing, handsome and successful. All these blessings are God gave us. But if Mama does not keep her care for the mas from the womb to adulthood, is now Ayra able to enjoy the handsome husband of Ayra? Mas success? and all that you get today, success, property until your children and wife can enjoy, It does not escape from your prayers not only because of your ability. God also wills everything that happens to us."

Bram held Ayra's hand. The calm he got from his wife. Because of his concern for his son he considers if his mother is guilty.

Success, a faithful wife accompanied and complete baby makes Bram feel if he is a great and happy person but he forgets if there is a female figure who gave birth to him, contains nine more or less. Especially women who may keep their tears while raising him. Women who do not ask for payment or compensation. Only the happiness and success of his son can make him happy. A mother who never complains despite the weight of raising a child.

Even when his son is married he is only happy when the child and daughter-in-law live in peace and peace without any quarrel in front of them who are old.

Bram looked at his wife.

"Thank you Ay. Thank you for reminding me. That was really khilaf. I also just found out what it feels like to be an old man. It hurts so much when we see our child sick."

"Mama was also so when taking care of mas."

"Mas just knew that nights should stay up even less sleep when they are not healthy. And the day the body feels not fit."

Bram shed his tears of regret. Although without sobs, Bram's voice showed remorse for his attitude this afternoon to Mrs Lukis.

"Mas does not want if we are old later, mas see the wife of this mas in the snaps, in a trivial by our children. Because I see how you struggle to take care of them Ay. It's only been a month since I felt tired when I was sick. Then mas will try to be a child of Sholeh so that our children will become children of Sholeh."

Ayra wiped away the tears on Bram's cheek.

"Aamiinu. Ayra is happy because she is now a better person. I have so far been doing my duty as a husband. But Ayra hopes you don't become Alqamah."

Bram stroked Ayra's long hair.

"A man who at the end of his life has difficulty pronouncing shahadah. He never neglected to pray. Fadhu or sunnah. Fasting and almsgiving practice he was never missed."

"Yes mas. Really a story can be used as a lesson to be better. Ayra does not want to love Ayra and our children to make us ignore the right of Mama as the mother who has given birth to us."

Bram had heard the story of the Qurqamah from Furqon. A story of a child who has difficulty pronouncing shahadah. And when his mother was called, it was discovered that Alqamah during his diligent life of worship was more concerned with his wife than his elderly mother. Heart of the mother who was hurt. Makes it difficult to face his death saccharat.

Until Rasullullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam sent a message to Alqamah's mother and asked about Alqamah. It turned out that the mother Alqamah felt scratched in his wound. The child behaves badly with his mother. But the tenderness of a mother forgives the Alqamah when the prophet will burn the body of the Alqamah. Really a ridho parents really facilitate the affairs of their children. Then after that Alqamah can easily pronounce the sentence of shahadah.

It takes sincerity and patience for a mother when pregnant, a mother divides her heart, holds weight in her stomach, keeps her eating and is careful in behaving. Sometimes he can have to eat something he does not like for the healthy fetus in the womb. Like Ayra, she who does not like milk during her pregnancy must force herself to drink milk for pregnant women. With the hope that the child he carries will be healthy always and born in good health.

through a process of conceiving for nine months, it is enough to be a reason to devote to a figure named Mother. Not to mention the other reasons that if written will spend dozens of pages.

And for us as for the mother, God has blessed a mother for her love for her children. This is good news for mothers, because we unwittingly get the grace of God whenever we show or feel affection for our children, even if only a small smile from a distance.

It would be nice if you understand the reward you get when caring for your baby sincerely. And the child understands the enormity of an attitude of filial piety to both parents. For it is not only a fast-flowing sustenance but also a long-lived blessing that God has given.

Bram who felt uneasy after being reminded Ayra quickly called Madam Lukis vya video. He couldn't stand it if he had to wait for tomorrow morning. And that night a mother was happy when the proud child called crying to apologize. Moreover, the daughter-in-law who also sat beside her son who also joined in crying and apologizing for the khilaf of the husband.

One of the happiness of parents in their twilight days besides seeing the happiness and success of their son-in-law is when the child and daughter-in-law can be devoted to them without putting aside their obligations to their child, wife or husband.