The charm of Ayra Khairunnisa
228 Rafi's Admiration for The Twins 3
"Abue.hh....."
"Papa..... Help Me." Help Me."
Bram's just gonna open the door. But when the new door handle wants him to lower it turns out Rafi came out first. His face was wet with water. Even the suit worn by the COO also looks wet.
"You why Fi?"
"In the spray Ammar sir."
"Isn't Ammar yelling?"
"So he wanted to see my father. He wants BAB but his toilet's in lock. After I open. I think he wants to help me clean up. Uh I went in instead in the water spray."
Bram narrowed his eyes. Then he brought his face closer to the COO.
"You're not pe do fil, are you Fi?"
"What?! Yes, sir."
Bram laughed. Then he returned to the work desk holding Qiya. I can guess what happened inside. Rafi is used to taking care of Bilqis with Aisha because Bilqis' caregivers only work early in the afternoon. So that at night he and his wife will take turns caring for their baby. So the habit of Rafi who sometimes accompany or clean Bilqis when after BAB or BAK. He forgets that Ammar is not his daughter. Where a habit applied by parents at home they will apply wherever they are while the parents are consistent and compact.
When Rafi left the room to clean up. Ammar also appeared in neat clothes. Bram, who was sitting on the sofa talking to his daughter, turned to Ammar.
"Sister. Brother should apologize to Rafi. Because my brother doused it. Rafi's clothes get wet."
"But Om Rafi was a surprise. He suddenly entered and was willing to hold the inside of my pants Qiya!"
Ammar sat on the sofa with his hands folded in front of his chest. His face looked pouted. Bram who saw there was already a misunderstanding between the child and his COO. So Bram lowered Qiya and his lap. Then move to the Ammar side.
Before long Rafi also appeared carrying one map and several sheets of paper. He was wearing only a blue shirt and a navy tie.
"It's coincidence. Om Rafi is. Tell me why Papa's son is watering Rafi's om?"
Rafi was standing behind the sofa that contained Qiya looking back.
"Papa knows. Mama always taught me and Qiya. For no one is allowed to see the inside of our pants and clothes. Especially touching. Only touchable at see if we complain of pain it must be accompanied by mama. And we if anyone feels forceful touching it should yell or run."
Bram closed his eyes with one hand and smiled. He had guessed the reason his son sprayed water at Rafi. Ayra taught both of her children to take care of themselves. Given the current times began the rise of sexual violence in children. And several times Ayra attended seminars when she was not married, it became a provision for her after becoming a mother. That education for children to be able to understand which body parts are allowed to be touched in the view by others. And what parts should not be touched or seen by others.
Ammar and Qiya did start to be educated by Ayra from the age they entered two years. As they begin to learn to walk, talk. Ayra used to tell her son when there was their papa when entering the room but the child was still not wearing a single thread on their body.
..."Hayo quickly put on the towel. Shame on papa."...
Even though Bram is a mahram to Qiya. Bram is also a man. He did not want his son to get used to the open clothes in front of his Papa. To form the character of a child who has shame will be difficult to form when the child has become a teenager. So the character education since early has Ayra wake up, and of course it takes collaboration between Ayra and Bram. Including any educational issues.
An education to protect their children wherever the child is. Because sexual crimes sometimes come from those closest to the child. So Ayra always remembers her children to tell Papa or her Mama when there are people who do not make them comfortable.
Once Ayra was a little anxious when Qiya at night said that during the day her mother was not home. And Qiya told me indistinctly about the incident. Get Ayra to investigate what happened. Starting from the child who is from the garden behind the house and then wants to urinate. When he urinates he feels pain in the inside. So Intan is always the baby sitter of the baby. Check the inside. But Qiya did not tell what caused Intan to examine the inside.
So Ayra asked quietly to diamond the next day. It turns out the real story. There were ants in the interior of Qiya and biting her. Until he felt sick. Only Ayra realized it was her son who delivered the news less complete. Luckily Ayra is not a parent who quickly believes in her child without seeing or hearing from others. And the source of the problem.
Since childhood, the children of Ayra were very embarrassed if they did not wear clothes or pants but there were others. Although Ayra sometimes feels the beginning is very difficult. Because Ammar and Qiya who have not been able to rest or mengcebok themselves. Because the twins would not want if not Ayra or Intan who cleans them after defecating or Urinating.
But over time. Ayra's tiredness paid off when her two children could do it themselves and now in pre-school age has had a sense of shame and keeps her body from being seen by others. Even Ayra's children sometimes feel uncomfortable and when swimming in public places. They'll say.
"Why aren't they ashamed mama didn't wear clothes in public?"
Ayra the wise say maybe her parents have not paid about the law so her son did not understand. Mom and Dad learned that chapter. And Ayra also explained that each parent has different knowledge and different experiences. How to educate children is different. Ammar and Qiya were the sons of Ayra and Bram. Follow what his parents taught.
The incident in the toilet was because Ammar who understood that no one should touch his intimate part without being accompanied by his mother was suddenly screaming even though the person was Rafi. Because Ayra once told anyone if not permission or not accompanied by his mother. Go away or scream. And Ammar, who had not yet disbanded, chose to shout rather than run when Rafi was already squatting in front of him. With one hand has led to the intimate part.
Intentions to want to clean the boss's child after a bowel movement. It was even in teriaki.
Rafi smiled.
"Om sorry then. I thought you couldn't be alone."
"Oh No's. Um think I'm Bilqis who still hasn't gone to school?"
"Hehehe...."
"Come Ammar. Apologize for having flush Rafi earlier."
Bram ordered his son without a snapping sound.
Bram's eldest son came down from the sofa obediently and reached out. He kissed the back of Rafi's hand with his nose and mouth attached to the back of her older hand. Not like most kids who kiss with their foreheads.
Rafi was amazed to see her boss's family. A powerful Head of the family in front of his son. One sentence without having to say repeatedly, the child immediately obeyed. And a little boy who is so intelligent is also very Sholeh. Despite having a nosy nature in general children. But the boss' son did not lose his father.
One habit Ayra in her children so that when seeing injustice or stories about others will be slandered if there is no evidence. So Ammar's smart sense, choosing to use a way to change the sticker label salt to sugar so that the Papa sees for himself the behavior of Lusi is not based on reports without evidence.
The expression fruit falling not far from the tree is very suitable for both the children of Ayra and Bram. Truly a knowledgeable mother greatly affects the growth and development of children, the intelligence of children.