The charm of Ayra Khairunnisa
243. Question The twins
That morning a couple looked very happy because they saw the results of USG. Ayra will have a son again. At the age of the womb that has entered 6 months, the new baby wants to show his gender.
Ammar and Qiya who joined Obgyn were delighted to see on the glass screen, a four-dimensional image. A baby that looks curled up. Ammar and Qiya glimmered at the portrait given by the doctor who once welcomed them during the birthing process.
"Well tomorrow Ammar Sam Qiya will have a younger brother." The doctor said to the Twins.
"Thank you Doctor. Healthy sister, right, ma'am?" Qiya asked curiously.
"It's healthy." The doctor replied briefly.
The curious Ammar also asked the doctor
"When did our sister come out, ma'am?"
"Well, it's still quite a while. Maybe 3 months. You guys take good care of Mama so your sister and mama are healthy?"
The twins also answered compactly.
"Ready Doctor!"
"Smart kid."
The doctor recorded Ayra's pregnancy checkbook and prescribed the vitamin. Bram helps Ayra to get up. While receiving a prescription from the doctor, Bram quickly makes up for it at the pharmacy in front of the private hospital.
While in the car, Ammar again asked Ayra.
"Where will his sister come out?"
Bram immediately glanced at the rearview mirror and his wife who was on his left side. Bram already wants to answer Ammar's question with the mainstay sentence. 'wait for you to grow up later if you will know'. Ayra quickly rubbed Bram's arm. He blinked both his eyes. He half looked towards Ammar who was sitting at the back.
"Ammar know not for women can be pregnant what should first?"
Bram glanced at Ayra's question. He who is an adult man thinks that to get pregnant clearly must have sex. The mouth that was almost open was closed. Because of Qiya's quick answer.
"Must get married first!" Answer Qiya quickly.
"Smart. Know where?"
Qiya tidied up her bangs.
"And Mama used to say the same to me and my sister. If it is already puberty should not hold that is not mahram. But if you are a big and like the same friends who are not mahram. Marrying. Everyone who is married must have children."
"Who said? Aunt Liona and Om Beni haven't had any children." Ammar Protests.
Bram turned back to his wife. While controlling his vehicle, Bram resigned with his son's curiosity about many things.
"Send it to you Ay."
Ayra smiled seeing Bram raise both his hands in surrender.
"Not everyone who is married has children quickly Qiya. Because we are in this world, life has its destiny. So too have children. Some are given quickly. Some are given a little longer. But I have to keep trying."
Bram again held back a laugh when Ammar asked again.
"How are you doing, Ma?"
Ayra smiled too. But his stock often read, watching parenting tips. Makes Ayra understand if the way adults think will be different from children. Example if parents are told before having children what the process is. So what Bram was thinking happened. The mindset of the child is different.
"So, Son is sustenance. Now that sustenance must be picked up also in prayer that Allah may give. Prayer is one of them. Also, if you are married, you must love your husband or wife. So that's why parents should be different rooms with children. For example, Ammar does not like to see mama wearing open clothes, because Ammar is still a child. But Papa, papa's an adult. Papa likes to see his wife in open clothes. Then his efforts please our husband or wife."
Ammar and Qiya nodded their heads. Those who think if married should please the couple and love the couple. Bram held his breath from earlier. He who is a grown man actually traveling imagine his wife wearing 'dress of love'. One code for them if Ayra is after the holy of menstruation. The wife will send a message to her husband while still in the office until night.
..."What time is home? Ayra is ready with the 'hash of Love'"...
So Bram understood the meaning of his wife if she had been holy from menstruation.
Bram shook his head and smiled because his wife was so easy to answer his son's questions. So Ammar asked where the baby came out from. Now the question stops at Ayra's explanation that trying is with love for the couple.
Ayra who understands if now is the time to want to know her son so high that she should not lie to her son about many things from their curiosity. Qiya who tidied up her skirt again asked.
"Mom why every woman who has given birth will be sick for several days? Yesterday we took a look at our teacher who was sick from having just given birth. Did you also have pain when you gave birth to us?"
Ayra turned her head towards Qiya and answered her son's question.
"Sick little. Kayak in the ant bite. But.... The pain is not felt. Because you heard you crying so hard. Seeing you all born safe. Mom and Dad were crying happily. And it doesn't hurt. Examples like Ammar who really want to be able to ride a bike, learn to fall. Hurt right? but the pain goes away when you can cycle with speeding."
"Yes. Right. Thank you Mama."
Ammar extended his hand. Qiya put her hand forward. Ayra gave her hand so that her two children held her hand from behind.
Bram.
"Ehm... Um... Papa not thank you?"
Qiya laughed too.
"Haihi.... Didn't you give birth to us?"
"Eits.... Papa did not give birth to you. Tapii.. Without Papa. You will not be in this world."
"Are you Ma?"
Ammar frowned.
"Yes dong. Who's looking for money?"
"Papa." Ammar replied.
"Well, look while you're pregnant. Papa buyin mama milk, check mama doctor. Continues every morning papa must hold the mother because lemes vomit continues. Then you will not be healthy like this without being fulfilled with vitamins, without papa who already loves Mama so mama is always happy."
Ammar saw how Bram was concerned about Ayra during their pregnancy. Even Bram often goes to the office more during the day.
Finally, Ammar's question ended with a sense of satisfaction in his heart because he was able to absorb as a child. But it actually imparts a memory to Ayra's son. If big later have a wife should be loved, if pregnant wife should be considered. While Qiya actually thought if she became a wife she would get pregnant and love her child and her husband.
It was fortunate that Ammar and Qiya had a smart mother. So that questions that are sometimes considered taboo or saru for adults can Ayra explain to her child without having to scold her child. Or even asking the child can not ask. Attitudes that bind the child's brain so do not develop because his curiosity is limited.
Ayra made her son the holder of the discussion. If there are any questions that are difficult to explain. Ayra will first ask her son's opinion. From his son's answer, he will seek his answer. It is the answer that children will receive.
Like Ammar and Qiya who think that a woman should only dress sexy in front of her husband. Because Ayra's children only once saw Ayra wearing sleeveless clothes. It was because Ayra was vomiting and the door was not closed. While the position was still early in the morning, Bram was taking a shower.
But if for adults, they will understand when a wife wears sexy clothes in her room with her husband, of course to increase one sense that arises from the eyes of her husband until it ends up into an action. It turns out that the way children and adults think is going to be different.