The charm of Ayra Khairunnisa
190 Meaningful Chat from Ayra and Bram

Ayra has prepared with her danger that batik couple with bram. Ayra wearing a navy blue kebaya with sequin accents that add luxury equipped with a rectangular hijab worn by Bramantyo's wife looks very beautiful even though her stomach is slightly bulged.

Bram also wore matching colored batik with his wife with Garuda bird motif. That morning he asked Rafi to take him and his wife to the building where the wife would be doing. Although actually he was an invited guest at the event because Bram was the leader of the company that had given a scholarship to the campus where Ayra completed her S2 education.

When leaving, Rafi must receive a phone call that is none other than Bu Lina. He told me that Lilis and her siblings should immediately be taken care of by her school transfer letter. Lina's mother hopes her three younger siblings Aisha can come with Rafi. But Rafi asked her mother to be patient because she had to discuss the matter with Aisha. After the show Wisudah Ayra.

"Who's calling?"

"Mothers. We'll go home from this show to the parlors."

Aisha nodded slowly. Bram who was waiting for Rafi received a call quickly called his assistant from the car.

"Rafi, you can just chat inside. Ayra and I are going to wear headsets. Because I don't want my wife to be late for an important event just because you're both busy."

"Mas."

Ayra pulled her husband. Rafi and Aisha who made red face quickly get into the car. On the way Aisha and Rafi look very tense. Bram saw the couple as though they were unfamiliar. Until he spoke to his wife but his intention to break the silence of the assistant duo.

"Aye. What is sakinah mawadah warahmah?"

The eyebrows that Bram dropped raised his eyebrows and he pointed towards the pair of newlyweds in front of them who looked tense and stiff. Makes the wife understand when she arrives at the red light. Ayra understood her husband's intentions.

"Sakinah it is the calmness of the mas. The calm that the husband gets when he goes home to meet his wife. Until he feels home is the place that can give him the most peace. And that can start from the obedience of the husband and wife to God. For the truth is that tranquility is the result of the obedience of a husband and wife to God."

Rafi whose eyes are fixed on the road ahead but focus on listening to every sentence Ayra said.

"That means if you want to be happy living with Aisha I must be diligent in worship like prayer huh. One more problem Fi. You who are lazy to pray this must be how diligent. Pity also Aisha if every time prayer must use a long debate first let me want to pray."

Rafi, who rarely prayed five times, inevitably after marrying Aisha, had to adjust to the activities of the Aisha family. Although Aisha is not a graduate of the cottage but her mother's upbringing was able to make her four daughters accustomed to praying. Although a little lazy like himself is the bontot. Karen is under 15 years old.

Rafi remembered that every magrib and prayer isya prefer to go to the mosque rather than pray at home because he was ashamed if he had to be an imam when praying. But it will be different when Shubuh. He who is difficult to wake up to pray will pray in their room. While reading his prayer alone he only repeated a short letter that he memorized.

He learned a lot from his wife. Although the way the wife gives the science of the holy chapter and prayer is not as sweet and gentle as the way Ayra on Bram but Rafi is able to obey every will of his wife. So far Aisha will indeed nag for the chapter when praying. For other things Rafi's wife can still be a little sweet.

Bram and Ayra saw the couple lyrics each other. Bram's wife smiled and clasped her husband's hand

"Then Mawadah means what Ay?"

"If according to Ayra yes mas. That mawadah is Missing. A longing can result from an interaction of the husband and wife. Examples of time in one day or for twenty-four hours are for both. In the sense of speaking, or chatting. Mas know sometimes there is a cause Mawadah taste is lost from the heart of one partner over time?"

"What's the cause?"

"If there is a sense of love lost or diminished from our hearts for our partner, it is not our partner who is no longer attractive, not our partner who is no longer handsome, no longer interesting but because we often look at what is not ours. So that the couple that is ours becomes unattractive in our eyes."

"That means even if the wife of this mas turned out to be like it used to be, the sense of love will not disappear if you do not look at other beautiful and sexy women?"

"Rubber. Take care, keep your eyes from looking at something that even makes us turn away from what we have."

"Then Rahma?"

"The crown is compassion or sympathy. Example if the husband is coming home from work. Then there must be a sense of fatigue in which he takes home, the coming of the wife with a smile and bring her bag or massage it will make mawadah present. Likewise, the husband may be the wife has been busy all day at home or again busy in the kitchen. Because pity helps the wife just maybe arrange a plate that the wife washes in her place can make the wife feel happy."

"But are women different?"

Bram had actually studied the Sakinah chapter of the warahmah in a routine assembly every Sunday filled by Furqon but he wanted his two assistants to be able to study together and become a family what people often call Sakina mawadah warahmah.

"Mas is right because the woman has several types. Among them there are three types. The first woman who likes to be noticed. For example, she would be happy if almost one day her husband likes to call or send news sekedsr send a message again what. Or like a surprise. The second is happy with togetherness, these people prefer to spend time together but when the husband is working or outside the home then they are not too dizzy. And the third woman who delighted the gift. Then the husband must know which type of wife is included?"

"If you already know which type. But maybe Rafi knows what type of Fi Aisha is?"

"Three of them sir."

Bram laughed suddenly.

A marriage if not happy then it can be ascertained if one of the couple does not carry out his obligations. Something that is actually very clear and we can see in real-world life phenomena.

When he arrived at the building where Ayra wisudah. Bram asks Aisha and Ayra to come in first. He wants to go to the bath followed by Rafi. Rafi also wants to go to the toilet. When we arrived at the toilet, there were many people in line. Bram was also in line. Bram whispers something to Rafi.

"Do you like to pee standing up?"

Rafi glared, Bram is indeed a little whisper but he was shocked by the question of his boss.

"My advice from now on is that you urinate. Try squatting, squat position the right leg is slightly in front. The reason is that urination can be completed and the body avoids feces. The way the left hand holds onto ma luan, after finishing the last droplet throats 3 times. And sort to ma luan from base to tip 3 times. In order to get out all the dirt from the remaining body at the end to ma luan. Just cleaned up."

"Wear what sir?

"Using objects such as stone, wood, paper or tissue that essentially can absorb dirty liquids. You can use water too."

"Why should you squat, sir? It's better to stand up. Don't have to open the belt."

Bram patted his assistant's head.

"Anything practical. Climbing if directly without heating is not good?"

"Ga know haven't tried." So-"

Not finished yet Rafi finished his sentence he got one hit.

"Plaaaac."

One hit landed on Rafi's back. Bram did not think that his assistant was still too innocent.

"You're this. Don't talk to anyone about your activities with your wife. Enough of you and your wife that year unless you want to seek treatment related to complaints."

"Why should squat be useful sir?"

"What I learned yesterday was the law of the Sunnah but the great silver lining of which is that by urinating squat position can prevent the splash of urine regarding the eyes, clothes, and feet, or parts in the bathroom.

Second, maximizing the emphasis of the abdominal muscles on the intestine and bladder. Throwing water with squat can be a solution of difficult bowel disease.

Third, the aurat is more closed and in accordance with adab and politeness. And in the completion of the rest of the pee is quite done with simple movements and does not take a long time. After the last drop of pee, the completion of the rest of the pee is enough to do a mild emphasis on to our ma lu an three times, then doused with water."

"Wad. I've never flush it even a weapon. Sir. I've read it he said it's nothing."

Bram this time patted his forehead.

"Well you mean Bawak unclean Bro if not washed. That weapon sometimes at the end of it there is still a remnant especially if we do not finish. It is important to beat. It turns out that Ayra said, if it is a matter of religious science must learn through one container, teacher or assembly that is clearly sanadnya. if it is the chapter Religion can not be based on google. Because it'll be confusing."

Bram who knows the habits of the assistant who always rely on Mbah Google. Until finally Bram invited Rafi to join the taklim assembly filled by Furqon once a week in one of the lectures. So Rafi agreed, she realized at this time she was married. It is also very minimal in religious science. It was never too late, eager to keep learning he saw in his wife. Aisha sometimes while sitting or cooking she listened to the lecture or delivered ustad-ustad or kyai-kyai that she had asked Ayra whether it was clear her sanad that could only be followed by streaming that's.

Rafi who while walking opened the screen of her phone scratched her head.

"Boss. This is Ahlussunah wal Jama'ah so many and different meaning."

"Raffirmation... I told you not to Google. Oh you are this."

Bram stroked his hair that had been neatly combed. Then he tried to explain to his assistant which Ahlussunah wal Jama'ah. Because there are indeed many now who claim Ahlussunnah wal Jama'ah.

"This According to Hadratusy Shaykh KH. Muhammad Hashim Assy’ari, Ahlussunnah wal Jama’ah is a group of exegetes, hadith experts, and jurists. It is they who follow and cling to the sunnah of the Prophet and the sunnah of the Khulafaurrasyidin after him. And the group is gathered in four madzhab namely Hanafi madzhab, Syafi’i, Maliki, and Hambali. So point two of that. That's why I'll come with me tomorrow. Later, if you have already paid, you can understand. Oh this is the same as my understanding. You don't know, pity your wife if you rely on Mbah Google. You think there's a sanad Mbah Google."

Such was the atmosphere of the morning at the beginning of the important event Ayra became a quite interesting speaker and without Rafi realizing that morning he had gained some knowledge from his boss who had been learning to teach at this time his sister-in-law.

Like Bram who is able to make his assistant comfortable with him. So without his assistant realizing he was learning one thing he never got. With the end of the assistant wants to go to school next week. Then it is true that if there is one expression bring your religion in you then people will see what your religion is like without having to read your scriptures.