The Father Boy
ALA16'S CHAT. Custodianship
"No, Dad." Chandra glanced at her lover, she was sure she heard her father's loud voice.
"You're weird!" Givan could not narrow his perception with his suspicions on his son.
It wasn't Ceysa who was suspicious, but Chandra made her father so suspicious of her. He knew his son was not smoking, let alone messing around at the nightclub. But, he felt that there was something his son was covering up. About failing graduation, enough to make Givan amazed. Ranked one to three, always get their children from primary school education. It seemed impossible, if his son even got a failure outside of the facts he knew about his son's abilities.
"Sorry, Dad." Chandra hugged Cali who was still on his lap.
He felt guilty, because it covered up much of the truth. He felt like a liar, even though he was just trying to follow his sister. If he wanted to, Chandra wouldn't take this.
"Let me talk, Bang. Big boy, you're still mad at me." Ghifar approached his mother's older brother, Givan.
Givan still has the truth in his son's eyes. The highlight is sharp, his anger is reflected there. Not many know, because they are sitting in the living room. While the family who was gathering, was in the living room.
Ghifar pulled his nephew whom he had once taken care of, to follow him into the backyard. Ghifar did not want the ruckus between father and son to happen, the day they celebrated their victory by gathering together.
Izza was immediately gloomy, he thought of the words of his future father-in-law. He went to find his lover, he wanted to demand an explanation from his lover. He was worried that his father-in-law's prejudices were true. He could not calm down, if he did not explain directly.
Just now that Ghifar wanted to open his voice, it was already startled by the presence of Izza near those sitting in the backyard. Chandra realized, he glanced at her lover.
"Dad you want you here. Dad you want his kids to get together, he traumatized his past away from his parents." Ghifar advised slowly, close to Chandra's ear.
"I'm definitely here, Pa. I must have been reckless. I went straight home again." Chandra felt like he couldn't say it at the moment.
"You can tell Papa, help Papa tell him later." Ghifar tries not to be distracted by the presence of Izza who is already sitting next to Chandra.
He knew Izza was already so close to the family here. It's just that he still feels uncomfortable if he wants to give advice. But Izza was around.
"After I go home again, I'll explain everything." Chandra is confused to explain, if Dayyan is not in his arms.
"You have a big secret?" Ghifar did not feel like interfering, but he needed a description to explain it to his brother. He wants his brother to understand Chandra's problem, he wants his brother to give flexibility for Chandra to be able to solve the problem.
"No man is straight. It's not nothing, but Papa never found." Ghifar does not believe in Chandra's confession, only he feels that young people must be curious about the wider world.
"There really is." Chandra sighed.
"No way it feels." Ghifar even felt how he was when he was young.
"Don't call me holy!" Ghifar rubbed Chandra's back. "Not naughty in the night world, even by dating for a long time you kind of nyari b*bi talk halal," he continued later.
"Pa…. That woman doesn't want to understand if we have any other business. Papa also fancied, how to live with Papa's three marriages."
This is what Ghifar of Chandra dislikes. Because the young man immediately makes his interlocutor an example, to correct himself.
"One day, you'll understand commitment. It's not just about you being restrained by your wife and wife. If you have a wife, but still want midnight at the coffee shop. Yeah mending don't get married." Ghifar is provoked by emotion. He felt his soft voice was useless, if he had a dialogue with his brother's descendants.
"That's why I don't want to risk getting married first. It's not about the coffee shop, but because of love I'm definitely divided. Divided for whom? Yes to my sisters, I am their guardian, my dependents are great to them. I can't let them go that way, until finally my responsibility changes hands." Chandra's tone rose by an octave, making Ghifar shake his head and want to shake his nephew's head.
He was at home not used to the sound of his children rising. Even Ra, who was a descendant of Givan who was his foster child, could speak in a gentle tone to him. In his opinion, it would be really impolite if his children raised their voices to him.
Izza silently watched. Finally, he learns the reason behind Chandra's pretext of always stalling their marriage. He thought, too, what Chandra thinks is that she is unworthy to be Chandra's wife who has many younger siblings. Because Izza thought that Chandra did not have the confidence that he could and understood to be his wife.
"God! Basic, Ipan boy! Dad, you've never been angry with you, have you spoken so loud?!" Ghifar patted his nephew's thigh.
Chandra glanced at his uncle, aware that he was being disrespectful. "Sorry, Pa." He bowed later.
"All you know, Bang! Your responsibilities will never end. Giska, your aunt, Hadi's mother. Hurt her husband, Giska did not accept, Papa did not accept, Papa can ask Giska back from Zuhdi. The responsibility of the guardian, not just until marriage. But, to death! You're not good at religion, so you don't know. So, you want to postpone your marriage until your guardianship is over. You'll still be your sister's guardian. So marry now or later, you will still be bothered by your sisters. This is not the time Izza told you to wait for you to settle down, but you have to tell izza to understand your position. The response of women must be different, from mama Kin, aunt Novi to mama Aca. Mama Kin released material for Papa's sisters, but mama Kin nguasain Papa's time for Papa's sisters. Aunt Novi, handheld matter, time is in question. Mama Aca, just open up and tell me what Papa's sisters need. Time is allowed, understanding and knowing time. Papa can't cake dad you give money to Giska for example a million, say it afterwards. If Papa has to say first, then give me money. Because mama Aca wants to be appreciated, want not to be overstepped. He said, not he was stingy, but just wanted to be appreciated and asked for an opinion. Izza, tell me how you're doing. It's torturing all there is, you won't have any harmony. There must be openness, understanding and understanding."
Chandra and Izza looked closely at Ghifar.
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