The Father Boy
ALA68'S CHAT. Self study
"The household, the father said, is the next phase of life. You can't make home an escape from your misery, home is not a way out to find happiness. Instead, we are ready to face all the trials, love the suffering of life with our loved ones. For example, gini, suppose you are from an underprivileged family. You assume that marriage is the savior of your economy, that your life and economy are getting harder. You have to remember, marriage is not the way out." Key fused the former shells into the bag of crackles he had prepared.
Izza mangosteen, his eyes are increasingly wide open with new facts of life.
"If I think my husband doesn't love me, what is it?" Izza asked carefully.
"Honor your husband. Husbands who feel appreciated for their efforts, will give their affection because of the respect that his wife gave. For example, the husband came to help put the luggage. If my habit, the husband entered it immediately love warm water if night, white water room temperature if day. Keep saying, towels and clothes in exchange are ready. Udah, let him take a break and clean first. Later he will surely find us, greet the child with a smile. Must have asked us to prepare a meal and ready to drink water, sometimes I don't have to be asked anyway. That's it, and he eats when we eat. If we have not eaten, we eat together. After eating do not ask how it works, do not ask what problems at work and do not need first how on the trip. Focus on eating first. My cooking tasted good, I never did. I'm not thirsty for praise, because there's still a father who always praises my cooking every time I send it. So if he is praised, thank God. Unpraised yes, it's his business and his reward. Let alone a small praise from him for me, the husband looked at his wife lovingly it has already counted the reward. Eat well, don't ask anything about cooking. He's hungry again, don't make him angry. I know all this way from the father, biyung tend to be taught to about the pillars of marriage religiously. Biyung also contributed, but the role of the father to love the understanding of a husband's point of view to us is clear. So from the father's description, we can tell how our husband feels from what he's been through." Key continued eating again, after he finished speaking.
"I don't have any parents, brother." Izza was instantly moody. He felt disinherited by his parents, so he was so lay facing this marriage.
"I'm not hostile to you, Za. I told you too, right? You don't have parents, it doesn't mean you've lost your role. Biyung is good, Za. Humane, pounding it in the back. If you know Grandma's mouth, her in-laws are great. I'm sure you asked to go home to the parents. Dad is good, but the delivery way is not good. Bang Fa'ad was talking about dad, when there was a family event and I wasn't involved. Bang Fa'ad to cry, Za. Yes I advise bang Fa'ad, sorry father, my mouth is already so long ago, again brother is wrong too. Bang Fa'ad give me a reason, he doesn't involve me, because he doesn't want me to eat there. But I don't know if I don't get along with my brother-in-law, I don't want the good name of the family bang Fa'ad ugly in my eyes. So I'm the same bang Fa'ad agreed to cover up. That's her husband and wife, Za. Let my family and bang Fa'ad's family still look good. If I talk to dad, about how my brother-in-law is there, I automatically do not accept and father. Worried, I'm the same bang Fa'ad separated. Worried, I don't respect his iron family anymore. It was just a bad thing that the chances were small, but since my heart and bang Fa'ad really didn't want to be separated by any matter, so had that fear. You see, if the problem between the families, that's the gamble is marriage." Key told me about his household problems, not to expose his family's disgrace. But, he wanted Izza to understand everything that was happening within the household.
"But it must be different if the parents themselves are, Brother." Izza understands divorce as a household has many causes now.
"Biyung is closer to grandma, than to mother. Loves the pain of the cake there are no limits, ngadu to all things, even the bed. Because if the parents themselves, it's dear to the child. So we want our children to be united and given all the best. Yes, even the in-laws, must think that his son is not wrong. Grandma is different. The grandmother not only heard complaints, but also asked her son. He continues to understand from his own point of view, continues to be discussed. You just need to complain to the biyung, if indeed Chandra has a bad attitude. Later this biyung must be ngadu to dad, keep me thinking. Fathers are grandmother's children, their thinking is similar. So there's no way the father thinks his son is right and the son-in-law is wrong. Later the child must be advised first, if the child is angry and love explanation, then the father can know if there is a misunderstanding or what. Later both will be advised. I just got married, my father also directly chatted to bang Fa'ad. Bang Fa'ad explained, keep dad calling me. So, we both know." Key looked into the next room, to see his son.
"But tuh, Brother. I'm awkward, I'm afraid to say what it is because it's a little bit awkward." Izza noticed Key's movements. He was worried not to be listened to by Key.
"Zp…. Deck, Izza…. Brother Key…." Chandra called out his wife and brother from outside the door.
"Eh, yes. Key, Keyla." Fa'ad woke up, he immediately called his wife, as well as fix the position of his son who was already slumbering with a cell phone on.
"Yes, Bang." Key immediately got up, he immediately saw Chandra standing in the doorway.
"Eh, Za. That's Chandra nyariin." Key points to Chandra's whereabouts.
"Oh, yes." Izza immediately pulled out a dry tissue and he got up from his seat.
"Yes, Bang." When she approached her husband, she thought she was being asked to go home.
"I want to take rice first, right? This was told by the ashes to go between camps………
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