The Father Boy
ALA203'S CHAT. Advice from mama Aca
"Sleep at home, Ra. Sleep with your brother." I don't want Ra to trouble Aca's mom.
It was hard to hear the alarm that was like a mosque.
"Wild, Bang. Your father gave me permission."
Mama Aca is indeed happy if Ra stay overnight, since childhood Ra nurtured until Ra was ten years old. So like children themselves, they gathered together to be bestie.
"Yes, go up there. Sleep you, don't play HP continue." I glanced at Ra.
"Yes! Aye!" Ra immediately threw away his face, then went upstairs.
I looked at Mama Aca who was washing her hands, until she finally sat back in front of me. Exhaust lit up, of course with dessert smoke pouring out in this kitchen.
"So, fix Nahda want you to get married? Mama's okay with widower's daughter-in-law too." Mama Aca chuckled amusedly, watching her cigarette which was in the middle of her finger.
"Ah, this Mama. You're so glad I was, I don't want to marry anymore." Izza's grave is still wet, so heartless if I get married right away.
"Nahda's safe, Kal's safe. May their fate be safe and continue to be lucky, Mama can only control, do'ain and give understanding. Not bored Mama lakainin, let them not bear the risk in the future."
He can be relaxed and calm, but I can't be like that. I must be afraid, if I find out a new reality about my sisters.
"May they be mentally safe, hopefully immediately given guidance and immediately pray repentance as well. One more thing, hopefully not pregnant out of wedlock. Because of her mischief, Mama did not get pregnant out of wedlock. It is not about proof that we commit a great sin. But more to the pity of the child must be ashamed of the marriage of his son to follow his mother, all witnesses and the family of his husband must know about the disgrace of the past. Mama believes that the direction must come, depending on how we welcome it of course. Some are said to come from dreams, some are said to come from proof, some are from boredom, disappointment and fatigue as well. So the cake was tired of acting this way, began to realize his own brain that it was wrong and he began to look for ways to improve himself. That's loh, Bang. It's not Mama canin them adultery too, Mama must have banned and Mama nasehatin about it too. But like the incident, yeah want how again. It's happened, it can't be prevented anymore. Most of us can also heal the wounds obtained, not about the blisters, but about their mentality. If it is fine, yes start fawning again with advice, embrace, improve yourself, love about the risks of life and all kinds. Angry is useless, the problem is not finished, our child's mental deterioration. Mamah thought to herself how mentally destroyed, in a time when bad things happen in our lives so quickly. Scared, sad, angry, disappointed, sorry, certainly one. Not to mention the broken hope, the memory that can not forget about it, certainly need great support. You imagine yourself a victim of your own stupidity, don't talk about your mistakes. Surely you feel down and mentally you're down right? Well, if not the closest person, if not his parents who embrace him, then who else? If he was looking for support outside, there were only two possibilities. First, he continued his mistakes and folly. The second, he was used by people who gave him support to feel he was indebted. Not all bad people, really. But humans have an evil side to each other's egos and each other's interests, we are selfish for our own happiness." Mama Aca pointed at herself.
"So???" I looked at Mama Aca seriously.
"So…. Yes not so-so, just live your life as relaxed as possible. Do not fight against destiny, the most important thing is to try to give your best. Do not be too thought about later A how, then B how, then C how. It is even we ourselves who are tired, we ourselves who are dizzy, we ourselves who are sick. Mama, Mama never checked the HP of children, especially papa Ghifar. Love attention, understand the movements, ask activities, keep finding out for yourself appropriately, love understanding, love thinking and put if he loses first, then, so the object we advise will be more careful to make decisions quickly. Because you understand Mama, men want to take the crown of the woman asked for good. For example, the boyfriend is, it must be persuaded, love lure, we who have his body depends ngizinin what not. But if the case is rape, yes it is criminal, better take the option for a visa and continue the police. Do not think s***** d***h, because today can be made. But think mentally, "
The problem is his experience, of course from the movements of his children must have understood. Well, I am calm because I am inexperienced let alone observe in silence. What is, even prejudiced bad continues.
"I can't do that." I leaned my back against this dining chair.
"Yes, be a bitch." Mama Aca chuckles amusedly. "Ra has a long story. According to Mama, the option your father took was correct as well. Your father must understand the science that Mama explained earlier, because his life is not as clean as his skin. Dad you're just confused about timing, so lack control. Mama also understand why your father serepot it, yes because his wife is the Canda. Your father couldn't have shared his determination on Ghifar's papa's job report to Mama, because his capacity would have been different. Mama realized, about Mama's religion less, not as good as your life. Thank God, papa Ghifar has a good religious stock and can teach his wife's children. Your father will take care of all parenting, household, kitchen, laundry, household assistants, caregivers and so on. Papa will give money to Mama, take care of this it's all sorts. So she had some free time, had plenty of time to recokin the kids. But so recoknya also, said Mama anyway papa you do not understand the children's body language. Well you're the oldest boy and you don't have responsibilities yet, help control your brothers. There is no need to bother you and every day you dig up the information, but understand the growth and development of the mind and interest. Next, you share with your father let your life go. You can still work, have a partner, or continue to have offspring with your new life partner." Mama Aca has been smiling sweetly ever since.
Whatdoes thatmean?
"With Nahda again is that so?" My bad thoughts are more than positive thoughts.
Mama Aca laughed. "Givan's son, the emotions are the same, the contact is the same." His laughter began to fade. "It does not have to be the same Nahda, Mama again nasehatin aja. Papa continued papa Ghifar model, Mama doubted the children were married sooner. His past made him want his children to be better educated than him, to be better than him and to have more effort from him. If it had to be Nahda, maybe you're fighting your papa lobby." Mama Aca ended up giggling amusedly.
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