
"Okay, Biyung. I already understand. So, how do you get dressed. You see, some of my pants are stuck too. Is it holy, even though I've been scrubbing with soap?" jasmine asked, when they had just come out of the bathroom to exemplify how to wash the sanitary napkin before it was thrown away.
Canda believes, if the pads that have not been washed will invite jinn and other astral creatures.
"Biyung got this kind of science, Dek. Come to the room first, Biyung tell me." Canda invited Jasmine to sit in her room back. They sat together on a long sofa, which was near the window.
Givan's excuse me for coming out, since Canda pointed out how to install the pads. Now, Jasmine was already wearing a sanitary pad. Givan arrives his friend, who is in charge of guarding the warehouse of a large material store that he owns.
"A woman came to the Prophet Shallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, she said, one of us about our clothes with menstrual blood, how we use this shirt again. Then the Prophet replied, Rub your clothes, then brush with your fingers and nails with water and then flush with water and pray with that shirt. Hadith Muslim history. There's more like this, Dek. Sheikh Mohamed Mutawally Al-Sh’aarawi 1911-1998, he is a contemporary scholar in his book Fiqh al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah explained the meaning of tahuttuhu has the meaning of tahukkuhu which means rubbing, brushing and scratching. While tuqrishuhu has the meaning of tadullukuhu bi al-ashoobi’ wa al-izhfaar ma’a shobb al-maa’ ‘alaihi hattaa yadzhaba atsaruhu, brushing with fingers and nails and watered with water until lost its mark. While tandhuuhu has the meaning taghtasiluhu is watering it with running water. Well, obviously right? So the clothes affected by menstruation, can be used to pray if it has been purified in the way that Biyung explained earlier," said Canda slowly.
"I want to be smart to Biyung's cake." Jasmine clasped the back of her foster mother's hand.
"Why don't you want to go to the pesantren? Biyung entered the boarding school from SD." Canda remembered the traces of his education that only prioritized religion rather than academics.
"Wait to High School, Biyung? I haven't dared to be away from Biyung, away from dad." The reason Jasmine was similar to Key.
"Think if according to Biyung anyway, Dek." Canda latah mentions all her daughters 'deck', if there is no one else.
"No responsibility is okay, Biyung. I should stay in school too."
Canda has confusion here. Because from SMK, then enter college only, they have to pursue materials that are not taught in school. Because of the basic SMK children, yes the world of work. Canda heard this story, from his former college friend.
Plus, he has the college entrance experience of an MA graduate. He was the same as a child graduate SMK, he pursued material that was not deepened in his school. Because Canda also felt, the MA where he went to school and went first, learned more about the science of religion.
"Later the problem Biyung chat with father, will later brother Key first enter High School. Let's make it good, let's get you one more school." Educational affairs, Adi Riyana's son-in-law sent their children to the same school. In fact, his grandfather had a building grant at the school his grandchildren studied.
They just want their children to be able to look after and protect each other. They also want, their children go to each other and go home together although sometimes there are children who come home ngaret like Chandra.
"Yes, Biyung. Let it be good, one angkot is all brothers." Jasmine chuckled small.
"Yes so." Canda pinched his son's chin. "Gih rest, if menstruation is not too tired, right? Do not do a lot of strenuous activity, do not let his stomach hit, push, let alone hit. Because Adek's womb is growing again." Canda was confused to explain medically, because he did not understand his knowledge. But he believes, women who are menstruating, the uterus is very sensitive.
"Yes, Biyung. This black one, I wear it at night. This green one, I wear it during the day huh? And every two to three hours, I have to change and wash the dirty pads, keep dumping them in the trash, okay?" Jasmine repeats the rules of wear, which Canda explained when modeling how to install and wash pads.
"Yes, that's right. If stomach cramps, abdominal pain, back pain. Tell dad, will you? I'll buy her menstrual plaster." Canda did not stoke this, because he also bought when his period felt uncomfortable.
"Wa'alaikum salutations." Canda glanced towards the wall clock.
By late afternoon, where else is her husband? Canda. He reflected for a while, then stepped outside the room with his cellphone.
Her husband was in the living room, he was chatting. Canda also knows decency, she does not want to disturb her husband who is seriously discussing.
He's covering the back of Givan's couch. Then, he whispered something to Givan from his place.
"I'm out, right? Either to mom, or to mom," she whispered softly in her husband's ear.
Givan looked back. "Any mother, huh? Don't go to mama." Givan gave a look into his deep eyes. He wanted Canda to hear his message, so as not to come to his mother's house. Because Givan knows, if at home his mother has a guest from Ai's side.
Canda felt a split second. She blushed, with a look in her husband that she rarely got. She misinterpreted the prohibitive look of her husband's eyes.
"Why you?" Givan pulls his wife's nose, feeling odd with a red bias on his wife's face.
Canda chuckled embarrassedly and shook his head. "Current, to mom. I'll take you there, take the bike, will I? We went out to the night market together" whispered Givan in front of his wife's face.
Canda nodded. "I'm going to mom first, Mom." Canda dared to look at her husband's face. Then, she politely covered after getting permission from her husband.
Canda frowned, he was quite confused by some cars parked in front of his in-laws' house. The door is wide open, with several pairs of shoes indicating the presence of guests in the house.
Her husband forbade her to come to his house. Apparently, there was an undisclosed guest from him.
Right, Canda thinks the guest is kept a secret from him. Most likely, Canda predicted the guest had something to do with her husband. However, her husband did not want her to know.
In this way, his curiosity was fifty percent. Now, it grows instantly by a hundred percent. She either wanted to go into her in-laws' house directly, or go back to her house and ask her husband. Canda dilemma, because of his growing curiosity.
His feet moved closer to the fence. He was eager to open the gate, return to his home, or continue his steps toward his mother's house.
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