MARRIED FOR INDIGENOUS DEBT
Telling Sadness Again.

Nindy came from the kitchen with a lappet (food made from glutinous rice and regular rice, then added palm sugar and also grated coconut).* typical Toba Batak food, which is similar to lupis* cooked by mamak this morning.

Eating lappet with hot coffee can reduce the tension between Pak Iren with both Daughters.

"Mary, Uli. maybe you two don't believe in the mystical.

Your mother is receiving the reward of allying with the Devil.

Alive but like a dead man, Oppung Doli Sanggap said, sorry from your Bone family is not enough to calm him down.

Boru, all of you must forgive your mother so that your mother can calm down."

"receive rewards? you mean like that doom?" said Uli who was so serious listening to the speech from his father.

"yes boru, your mamak agreement with the worshipers of Begu ganjang (mystical creatures among the people of Batak Toba). has ended since there are His family who fight against him.

It is Mak Elazer who is against your mother, mother Elazer does not want to submit to your mother and constantly fights because of his attitude and actions that always oppress others.

Your mother can conquer both your Bones and your father, but the sincere and sincere heart and faith that Mak Elazer is able to make against Satan.

Sincere prayer and loving kindness from Mak Elazer who was able to break the selfish attitude of your mother."

"yes sir, I was also about it. One night after the full moon, mamak came out of the house and sat cross-legged behind our cattle pen.

Like shamans who perform rituals, like in the movie. mamak komat-kamit, my body creeps and I leave mamak with strange activities.

I often hear slanted gossip, if the mother of the devotee Begu is naked."

It is clear Uli who chimed in the words of his Father.

"what if Andri? why divorce from Eda?" asked Mary who was so serious listening to the words of her father.

"Mr Elazer who knows better about it, the host please explain to your two Edas, amangboru knows this is repeating your pain."

"i understand amangboru, this is painful, but we are a family, Eda deserves to know what the reason is.

The first day of being Andri's wife, the next morning the boo shouted calling me to get settled.

Have not finished the first work of the bou has told me to cook and do others.

Bou and Andri compactly said that I am a wife who simultaneously doubles as a servant and slave.

I have to work hard to pay off Sinamot (Mahar)* Toba Batak language.and I have to obey with all the bou and Andri orders that I think do not make sense.

(bou is a call to the sister of the father.

here I call my ex-in-law with a bou call, because it has become an ex and at the same time a call because my former mother-in-law is my father's sister).

Every morning I provide breakfast Andri and brought to the room, providing all her needs as the bou has done so far to Andri.

Honorar Andri salary, received per three months will be submitted to the bou.

Later we will be rationed, to pay Sinamot received by the father and also the cost of daily life I have to talangin by working in the fields and raising livestock without wages.

I invited Andri to be independent, but Andri instead complained to a bou that was beyond reason.

My ruined household life I explained without anything I covered, that was the truth.

I was under no obligation to explain this to either of them, but I was not blamed unilaterally.However Maria and Uli were the gynecological sisters of Andri.

"Eda... as long as I am the wife of Andri, not a penny Andri to support Me. instead ask for an allowance of one million per week, because it is an order from the bou and I must carry out.

Andri complained to the bou, if I had no husband-wife relationship with Andri.

I swear by anything, I never refused Andri's request.

Starting from the first night until we lived independently, the request from Andri was always my own. I've tried to be a good wife to Andri.

but what they did was always wrong in the eyes of Andri and Bou.

Andri always stayed with the bou, Andri met Ku just because of his undercurrent business and also to ask for money from Me.

Of all the most painful was when Andri and Bou denied Elazer, Andri accused me of being pregnant first.

Bou grabbed my hair and dragged me out of the house while pregnant, and screamed in the house by calling me a cheap woman.

During the Indigenous hearing in the Village hall, the doctor who examined my pregnancy testified and explained the condition of my womb.

Andri also said that I was still a girl until the first night with her.

But Andri still continues to accuse me of being pregnant first and deny Elazer who was still in the womb even until birth Elazer still denied.

I divorced Andri because Andri had repeatedly promised to change for the better, but always denied by him.

And the bou always blamed me, Andri never gave me a living, but the bills from the cooperatives and loan sharks always came to me.

Andri has denied Elazer, but Andri and Bou are suing for custody and property.

doesn't make sense, does it? but the purpose of the two of them is the treasure of gono-gini. Elazer was just a tool for them.

Eda.. all my efforts are the support of the Mamak family, not one cent there is money Andri and bou here.

The rest of Sinamot Ku (Mahar), which amounted to 250 million Rupiah, was used to build oppung graves and also bought a motorbike for Eda Gabe.

Eda Uli, Eda Maria. Andri did get my body and me as his wife, but even a little bit of my love for him.

But I had time to believe that love would itself often be the time of marriage, but not the love I get, but instead the opposite."

After My words, Uli and Mary embraced me and wiped away my tears.

"Eda.. Uli used to say goodbye to suffering, and it materialized."

Hearing the words from Me, Maria and Uli let go of her embrace and they both held my hand.

"Eda.... I'm Uli for the second time and on behalf of Mamak and Andri My spoiled sister, I'm sorry mintak."

I could only nod and then the two of them came back to embrace Me.