MARRIED FOR INDIGENOUS DEBT
The Lanjuttan Customary Session.

Without feeling the day is already late in the afternoon, and the sewing stall is ready for use. Pak Rado's bones give him the key.

Mamak cook in the kitchen, while I wash and then Bathe. finished all that we both had dinner at the dining table which was a simple gift from the Butcher Mr. Saor.

Finished eating and washing dishes, with Mamak in the living room while watching television, and Mamak sat his kebaya on the sidelines of advertisements from soap operas we watched.

tok .. tok... tok. ' the sound of the door being knocked on by someone from the outside.

"Eda Mak Tiur ... Eda Mak Tiur.

"why did the devil come?" ask Mamak with a soft voice.

Without answering Mamak's question, I just peeked through the small hole in the big window.

"Sir.jabir's mouth brought the company."

Momentarily Mamak immediately cleaned up the Kebaya he wore with his equipment and took the sarong and gave it to Me.

Tradition in our village, if there is a customary group come. all women residents of the house must use a sarong to honor the traditional Stakeholder and his entourage.

"Horas (greetings) Host Mak Tiur....."

"Horas amang king of Huta (Pemilu adat) "mamak answered the greetings of the traditional Stakeholder.

Bang Andri whose head was wrapped in bandages was present with both his parents and also Gabe, the traditional regent, Natua-tua (elder or parent who is considered wise) from the surname of the Father, and also the family of the husband.

Pak Saor's bones came with the group, namely Natua-tua clan, along with several neighbors as a companion and this time, the village head and the head of the environment (pak RT) were present.

Soar with Indah and Rani who were present directly to the kitchen accompanied by Nantulang Mak Saor, to make a drink in the form of coffee.

"Inang Mak Tiur, Mr. Tiur. moreover ho pak tu ho pak Tiur. Sian na uju i nungga hupasingot ho amang, Unang baen tading-tading ni borum dohot your son. Alana Gabe Bagas nabarnit do tu gelleng mu haduan.

(Mak Tiur and Pak Tiur, especially for MU Pak Tiur. from the beginning I have warned you, do not make customary agreements regarding the betrothal of your children. because it will backfire on you and especially on your children).

Said Oppung Doli Sanggang, (His first grandson named bengal, oppung Doli\=kakek). oppung Doli Sanggap is the younger brother of our Doli oppung.

"Alai dang adong utok-utok Mu, las boi ho pak Tiur in rajai ibotom. alani Hepeng 20 million Sian ibotom Laho mangelek si Tiur gabe parmean ni ibotom na su mamboto tumbuna.

(but no brain you Mr. Tiur, can you be used by your own brother just for 20 million money to make Tiur become the son-in-law of your crazy older sister).

In Dok ho pak Tiur Hepeng Sian Anggim par Kalimantan, tung clearly do taboto anggimi marikkor do bolo Sian parhepengon, Alana hamu Pe jolma nasaoda do alai si ginjang roha dohot pamangus.

(you said Mr. Tiur, 20 million from your brother who lives in Borneo, but we know clearly that your brother is also a poor man of treasure, too, you Tiur sir also come from a poor family but are high-hearted, arrogant and rich-associated.)

tung aha pe annon Alus ni host Mak Tiur, ba taon pak Tiur. jala Rade do au manjalo si pangalean ni parsinonduk mu. start Sian najolo nahusundati do Mak Tiurasa Unang in abayhon ho pak Tiur.

(whatever the answer from Mak Tiur, yes just accept whatever given by Mak Tiur I accept, as long as you know Mr. Tiur. I'm the one who persuaded your wife not to get divorced from you because of what you and your mom did, it was all for your son's sake)"

"amang oppung Doli Sanggap, now we turn first to the problem of Tiur. for the problem of Pak Tiur and Mak Tiur later we discuss.

Andri.... as Husband, what will you tell your wife?"

But my Husband turned to look at his Mama who was sitting next to him and that made the Indigenous Stakeholder look upset.

"Andri.. fun Mamak you who you look, here you sit fast.when you can get away from your Mamak.

Good thing you're not my son, if you're my son I've dumped you into Lake Toba there to die and become a goldfish.

here you............."

Said the traditional Stakeholder with a high tone of voice because of the emotion of seeing the Andri bang which can only depend on His Mamak.

"Andri... would you like to finish not this thing of yours? because of your problems and Mu's family, King Huta (People customarily) died in my son's wedding ceremony.

Hurry up you sit next to King Huta (My custom), if you still want this event we continue."

This time the village head who was emotional because of the Andri bang did not move from beside his Mama, but the funny thing is that his mama did not budge.

At least have her son move positions or what? Mamak and son are just as jerky.

Finally bang Andri sat next to the king of Huta (Students custom), and could not turn his head towards his Mama.

"by the way Andri, don't stay silent.do not make the problem grow runyam and protracted." said the Village Chief to urge Bang Andri.

"uhmmm... I do not want to separate from Tiur.he must remain my wife." said bang Andri who finally opened his mouth.

"Tiur... pahoppu Ku (Cucuku) what is Mu pahoppu's response?"

"I want to divorce oppung, because if bang Andri is still in the armpits of his Mama, Tiur ngak sure that bang Andri can be a reliable husband.

Do you remember the time deal at our house?

At that time bang Andri had made a deal, if bang Andri would give all his salary I hold and would live independently.

But it was only the promise of Oppung, the salary of Andri bang still given to his Mamak, and the money given by Amang Simatua in his ungkit, when clearly it was for venture capital. thank goodness I can still give it back.

Bang Andri should have given a living to Tiur as his wife, but instead he mint money from Ku for his allowance, said bang Andri was a direct order from his Mama.

I have cooked, washed and fed the cattle. After that I just woke up bang Andri for work, bang Andri was used to eating in bed before bathing.

And bang Andri wanted me to do it like her Mama did to her. Oppung Raja Huta, this is very extraordinary.

no longer giving a living to his wife, instead demanding to be served like a king. If I refuse His request then bang Andri will complain to his Mama. and say other than the actual circumstances.

Oath by whatever Oppung king of Huta, I never make Andri bang clean up the house or pay attention to my cattle behind.

But his complaint to his Mama is so. is it appropriate for a husband to complain to his Mama?

if the wife is wrong, yes nasihati.is not even ngadu to mamak by making things up. And this is the first I see, a husband complains to his Mama.where it is, yes, usually a wife complains to her parents"

I said all my grunts, my father-in-law looks so depressed and from then on just looked down and silent.