MARRIED FOR INDIGENOUS DEBT

MARRIED FOR INDIGENOUS DEBT
Mediation Part II


"there's nothing I want to say to your Highness Judge, please proceed again" replied Andri's lawyer and then lowered his gaze.


"well.... for the plaintiff and the defendant Is there still something to convey?"


"his Highness the Judge, according to our Customs, if you are divorced then the child must come with the husband and that is an absolute provision" said Mama Andri confidently.


"that is not true, the Honorable Judge, the Batak adheres to the decision of the Indigenous deliberation.


The custom exists to ensure the tranquility of His Indigenous people, everything remains a pilgrimage led by Indigenous Peoples and elders of the Marga, as well as other residents and accompanied by His village and devices.


In our hometown there was once an incident like this, and based on the results of Indigenous deliberation. The child is handed over to his mother who is considered competent in terms of taking care of children, there are several considerations of Indigenous Stakeholders.


In the daily life of the Batak tribe, especially in our hometown, men who have just been divorced or lived dead by his wife, it is very easy to remarry.


From some cases in the village, stepmothers rarely love their stepchildren, in contrast to women who still use feelings.


That is one of the considerations of Indigenous Stakeholders, and the greatest influence is on the economic and mental readiness of the child if fostered by his father.


Not a secret anymore, if a father is less painstaking to take care of the child, especially if the father of the child is angry and spoiled children who do not make decisions based on what they think is right.


His Excellency Hakim, Indigenous stakeholders, Marga elders, to the village and his devices and other residents in the village have decided that Grandchild Ku in Foster and raised by this Daughter.


At that meeting, Andri and his family were not present because they had denied his son.


I can't imagine how broken my Granddaughter's heart and mind would be if she lived with her Highly Honoured Father.


His spoiled father, the angry and his Grandmother who became the subject of the mockery of the citizens because they had several times paid the traditional fines for slandering others, and His Father who denied it.


Your Highness Judge, the Customary Stakeholder in the village is not an educated person like the noble Judge.


He only decides based on the life experiences of his citizens and his life experiences.


The policy is always considered Fair by His citizens so it is always in the hearts of its citizens.


With the high education woven by his Highness the Judge as well as his life experience and experience in work, I firmly believe that his Highness the Judge will make a wise decision."


Said Mamak so calmly when refuting the words of his Mama Andri.


"well mother, I understand the intent conveyed by the mother. for the plaintiff is there a rebuttal?"


"Your Honor Judge, the decision of Indigenous Stakeholder is not Legal Syah. Let alone my Client is not present at his Indigenous hearing." a rebuttal from Andri's lawyer.


"honor Hakim, the Customary Law in Admitted in our country.here is also I attach the decision of the Judge regarding child custody, and taken based on the information and decision of the Customary deliberation or Indigenous hearing.


According to the statement of my Client and witnesses, Plaintiff has been invited by Indigenous stakeholders to attend the Indigenous hearing and Plaintiff is absent from the invitation of his Customary Stakeholder.


From this we clearly know that the plaintiff is not the true Father, the Plaintiff should be present at the Customary hearing.


The Indigenous Court is very important because in the area of their residence Adat regulates everything that the Honorable Judge.


I think there's another motive...


"the defendant's legal counsel, please do not make a presumption without evidence" said the judge who cut Mr. Erik's conversation.


"but your Honor, what my legal counsel said is true. Plaintiff and Mama sued the custody of children because they wanted a property they did not know.


This can be proven by the conversation of those who have been recorded by their own biological father through my father's mobile phone.


If child custody falls to the plaintiff then they will ask me for money for the care and living expenses of our child.


After the custody of this child, they will file a lawsuit against the property gono-gini. Here, the Honorable Judge, they already have other intentions and are not pure because of the struggle for custody of children.


Our hometown is not too broad, even I know all of its citizens.


When I was about to give birth, neither the plaintiff nor his family came to see me. I waited three more hours for our child to be born in the delivery room at the health center but the plaintiff did not come to see my condition.


Even after birth the plaintiff never saw the face of our son, the Plaintiff knew the gender of our son from my former father-in-law.


Your Honor Judge, with all our obedience always defendant. according to your honor Judge what right does the plaintiff get child custody?"


"well sister of the defendant, later will be considered. Now I want to ask the brother of the plaintiff. In addition to the Indigenous view, what motivates the plaintiff to file a Child custody lawsuit?"


"my gut feeling as a father should be taking care of my own son and...


"have a feeling you said? but you deny your own child, not just once but many times.


if you still have a premonition as His Father, you should have come to the puskesmas to see the face of your own newborn son.


If you had been really busy back then, you should have come straight home to see your son's face.


I've been waiting for you some at home and also waiting for you at Bones pak Saor's house.


At that time I wish you could see your own child's face and know your child's gender, directly with your big eyes.


Butwhat? you're just hiding behind your Mom's armpits, is it worth talking about a hunch? do you deserve to be called a father?


even after our son was born into this world, there was never any shipment from you. as a Batak, if any of the neighbors close to him gave birth, he said, he will give or send a glove or sling to the newborn baby.


you as his father, let alone a sling. A pair of socks Your Son no you send right.


If you're really a father, you should have come with something to your son.or at least you sent something to your son.


Our neighbors in the village just sent a scabbard to your son, what are you? oh.... Your mother hasn't given orders, but everything has to be approved by your mother."


It feels satisfied to humiliate Andri in front of the officials of this country.