MARRIED FOR INDIGENOUS DEBT
Paribans.
I woke up at 7 am, because the sound of BBM came in (BlackBerry messenger) from Ningsih who told me that livestock and work would be handled by Him and other friends.
Take a shower and change clothes, because in this house there is still my clothes that live. (tradition in this village, my clothes and my belongings are still left behind. I can take it with my Husband, while having dinner with my family. That's why I still have a lot of stuff in my Mama's house).
At this dinner table we gathered for breakfast without Father, actually this kind of atmosphere that I expected. eat with my three brothers, father and Mamak.but what power, the father has turned away from us.
After breakfast we sat in the living room, looking at the faces of my sisters it felt very happy.usually we could get together during the new year, but this time we gathered because of problems in this family.
"sister... How is the husband of the sister? still at her Mama's house?" ask Rifan.
I just nodded and Rifan's disappointed look made me hold back tears.
"sister.. SK Rifan we mortgaged yes, said Senior brother can get 100 million that big brother."
"difficult loh bang, because the bank is afraid that Abang todong will be a gun if Brother is charged." refuted Fernando My Little Brother.
"no need to deck, because we have signed a covenant. let brother live first, brother believes God will give the best way for brother."
"sister..surely big brother was forced to do this right? customary Debt that does not enter a. k..al? k.a.a..k..a..k is afraid that we cannot carry out customary marriage."
"Lisa.. I am your sister, you know that big sister is strong.If later sister gives up, it must be your help.
We are a family and must help and protect each other, my dear brother all of you. I do not want to be hurt by others."
The sisters immediately hugged me, and it felt moved and happy to be able to gather with all of them.
"sister Tiur... oh brother Tiur.
"uhmmm.
Fernando and Saor fought every time they met, and from the door. Saor who came with his parents, who looked at Fernando with his sinister gaze.
"bull times bang Rifan..jeez... already kyak Roger Danuarta aja" said Saor who approached Rifan after seeing it.
"the funny bang Rifan who was greeted, Soar forgot the same sister yes" said Lisa who felt in the same cakekin Saor.
"when Saor forgets the same beautiful sister Lisa, it's impossible." replied Saor with a smile.
"jeez.. ugly you're the deck of Saor.." said Fernando mocking his pariban.
"Abang uglier, black, closer again. uh. amit-amit deh has a girlfriend kyak Abang." refuted Saor, by taunting him.
"even though the Saor deck is ugly, but you like the loh ma mu deck" said Fernando with a wink to Saor.
"father... Saor in the same godain om-om army."
hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha
We all laughed because of the words of Saor who told Fernando Om-om soldiers, understandably, Fernando entered through the path of catam (the director of the High School graduation).
After all Fernando had just been placed in South Nias, before the placement there was a series of tests and training that Fernando underwent.
Fernando called me once, he said My brother almost gave up on training, but because he remembered Mamak and I as his Brother. Fernando is back.
"Don't you like Om-om that soldier?" ask Lisa who is kepo.
"the time anyway... yes already, later Brother to the salon yes let kinclong." said Fernando.
"no, there will be many girls who like it."
"you want what the hell is Saor? earlier adek said that this army om-om is black and dirty, but Soar did not want if Fernando to the salon let kinclong." refuted Lisa jokingly.
"yes.... funny sister Lisa, kinclong army time? what does the world say?" saor answered with ease.
"the time yes? ......
"iya loh Lisa, if the man is kinclong there is only a possibility. firstly..the kinclong man, the model, the film player but not all the hell.
The second, the kinclong man is yes bencong kak aka sissy.
The man was quite clean and neat, there was no need for a kinclong. According to the Novel work that Saor read, the man who liked to groom it because he worked in the service field. in fact, the man does not like to dress up, but because of the demands of work that requires her neat and kinclong.
To bang Nando (nickname Fernando special from Saor).not need kinclong, which is important strong and healthy."
"your hearts are Boru, your Nando or Rifan whatever Saor chooses."
(this is called pariban, a cousin who can be married. The lineage of the younger brother of the Mamak party.
The custom in this village is very unique and very amazing, one of which is the most abstinence from rejecting paribans.
that is why Bones Pak Saor left the choice to his daughter to choose Rifan or Fernando.
unique but unreasonable, but it's already a provision from our ancestors*.)
"obviously bang Nando, Father......"
We immediately fell silent and glanced at each other, but Fernando's face was immediately red and misbehaved.
"Dek .. like Saor?" Rifan finally asked Fernando seriously.
"yes bang." answered Fernando quickly without thinking.
"Bere... if this Bone, yes agree-agree.but wait for Saor to finish school first, and request Bones, if you can, a year or two enjoying your free time." Said Mr. Saor's bones so seriously.
"Yes Bones, Maybe next year and hopefully there is a windfall, Fernando plans to go to college and bones.
After all, Lisa's sister and Rifan's bang are also unmarried.I don't want to step over Lisa's sister and Rifan bang. Karen Dek Saor is also still young, if not college yes at least add to the work experience.
dek Saor... agrees with you, right?"
"agree bang Nando.......
Mak's.... Mr.... make again his dong adek Saor, if later Saor married the father and Mamak who guard?"
"Nando... You see this pariban, so wait to grow up."
hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha
Again we all laughed, lost as soon as the problems we faced disappeared and disappeared. Mamak-made coffee and banana fritters add to our Susana enjoyment.