MARRIED FOR INDIGENOUS DEBT
Life Lessons.

"Segap, know your candidate dong to Mamak. secret play time with Mamak." said Mamak to Sanggang.

Respond immediately stand while looking at the phone and then smile when turning towards Mamak.

"Wait a moment, Mom."

Samson answered and then left the house, not long out of the house. Samson came in with a Cantika girl.

"Star...."

Said Mamak and then smiled widely after seeing the Star, the beautiful girl brought by Samson.

Mamak immediately stood up and then hugged the Star, after which the Star shook hands with all of us.

Bintang is Mamak's nephew, the first daughter of Mamak's younger brother's cousin and that means Bintang is still His pariban Samson.

Bintang is a village midwife with the status of a civil servant in the opposite village, not far from our village which is still a subdistrict.

"Oppung Doli, Old Father, Old Mak, Bones and Lions, bou Mak Rada, brother Mak Elazer, bang Rifan, Simon, Nadira and Markus My brother.

(Grandfather, the Old Father calls to the older brother of the father and the older male cousin of the father.The Old Father's spouse is the Old Man.

In this case also applies the call to the Cousin of the male of the Father whose Marga level is higher.this is seen from the surname difference).* in the Toba Batak tradition**.

Recognize, this is Bintang. my future wife. we plan to get married next year, maybe around March. because this year her sister Star will Graduation, namely Sasa and Baris.

We chose March for the Star to see first."

As soon as the introductory word from Sanggap, in fact we know very well the person of His Bintang, which is why mamak was so happy when Sanggang took Him here.

"leleng mai, right anggini the Star Graduation month 10 taon non, buasa ikkon taon ahead hamu marhalsohotan? dang boi huroha 12 months on taon on? *tobak Batak Dialog*

(for a long time, his sister the Star did graduation in October this year, why do you guys get married next year in March, why not December this year? )

Unang pattern mabiar ho Oppung, nga Godang husimpan hepeng results ni pinahan ta. anggo Sinamot dahon maradat nga sukkkup boi, museng ngak tapature your jamu." *dialog Batak Toba*

(no need to worry my granddaughter, I have a lot of money saved from selling our livestock. Sinamot and Indigenous party money is more than enough of that.)"

yes, Oppung Doli Responded to protest because they waited too long for marriage, if possible next month.

Considered a civil servant, as well as a Star. His Livestock Sanggap a lot, and coffee gardens and rice fields, let alone try?

The star immediately approached Oppung Doli Sanggap, and held both of his hands.

"Oppung Doli, right bang Sanggap just passed the graduation of S2 program, so bang Sanggap this is again the process to become the Headmaster.

It may take a year this is the oppung, besides the Star wants to collect money first to buy oppung jewelry. Oppung know that the star that sent the adek-adek.

So be patient first Oppung, next year we are Oppung, not for long anyway."

Oppung Doli Considered silent, but took out a small purse from his small bag, usually a small bag where his cigarettes and money.

It turned out to be a ring and a gold necklace of jewelry, complete with his worn letter.

"Bintang pahoppu Ku, on ma tepipan ni Inong ni si Sanggap tu candidate inatta na. pos do rohakku mamereng ho pahoppu Ku. *dialogue Batak Toba

(Bintang Cucuku, this is the care of the late Mamakya Sanggap. specifically for his future wife.

I am happy and I am sure that you are the best candidate for Response, accept this gift with joy.)

said Oppung Doli Sanggap Sembari gave the ring and necklace, Oppung who immediately put the ring to his ring finger Bintang and draped it to his neck.

If in the assessment, the two jewels may be 30 grams. The star looks happy when it receives the golden gift.

Rifan and Samson immediately approached Oppung Doli Sanggap, their faces both looking curious.

"oppung Doli, buasa marobam mas oppung? bereng ma bag mon, dang mabiar Oppung Peut mas i ? *toba Batak Dialog

adong do nian Hepeng ni oppung, hu tongos pe sogot ni oppung bag da. asa gatti bag mon ate." *Dialogue Batak Toba

(oppung Doli, why would the oppung take his mas for a walk? not afraid of a falling officer? look at this oppung bag, aren't you afraid from here?

Oppung money is there, yes, tomorrow I send a new bag for Oppung ya).

rifan said to Oppung Doli Sanggang, and the Oppung just smiled in response to the words of Rifan.

It turns out that the jewelry mas is the lateumah Inang Uda Mak Sanggap deliberately placed in it, there is a special bag in the bag, the goal is that Oppung Doli Sanggap do not forget to put it.

(inang Uda is a call to the wife of the younger brother of the Father or the younger brother of the Father, and the couple Host Uda call father Uda, in the tradition of Batak Toba).

Understandably old, so sometimes forget the location of an object.

The bag was made of thick cloth, special hand stitching lateumah Host Uda Mamak his Sanggap.

Mamak said, Almarhumah Inang Uda Sanggap is the favorite son-in-law of Doli Sanggang's oppung, because the late considered Oppung Doli as His Father.

In the past the place of the complaint of the late Oppung Doli, not a little bit of the late Uda father considered angry with his wife. because there was Oppung Doli Sanggap who always defended the late house.

When telling that, Oppung Doli Responded to her tears.

"oppung, aha do sipanganon ni Oppung? buasa boi Oppung healthy Hian constellation saunnari? aha do ni Oppung's secret?" *tobak Batak Dialog*

(what does the Oppung eat? why can an oppung be healthy this time? what's the secret of his Oppung?)

Samson asked Oppung Doli Sanggap.

Oppung Doli Sanggap said, in the past His Oppung Doli and his wife consumed food without preservatives and artificial flavoring.all all natural, eating is not excessive, keep on the move and do not forget to be grateful.

Do not like to grumble, be sincere and continue to work.teach good things to children and try to be the best.

If children deviate from our estimates, let it not be thought of.

Live only once, and do not let the gossip of others corner our minds.

We who know what really happened, if you do not like to stay away and do not be enemies.do not take revenge but must be remembered so as not to fall into the same trap.

So great is the life lesson we have learned from Oppung Doli Sanggap, and it is time to put it into practice.