MARRIED FOR INDIGENOUS DEBT
Deal

"means bang Andri denies the word of God delivered by the pastor at our wedding in the church and Brother has also denied the promise before the congregation and God, brother is the head of the household.

Is it appropriate for you to be a husband who denies the word of God? that means that you also deny the sacred promise of our marriage before the servant of the Lord and His church, and if My Words are true, I am divorced?" answer me to him

Oppung Boru Tyas, the wife of the traditional Stakeholder, came straight to me and held both hands.

"Tiur, you must if you are a divorce mintak then you and your family must pay a customary fine that is three times the Sinamot (Mahar) that you receive.

Think carefully first, we can talk with here.your sinamot is big Tiur, let alone added three times" said the wife of the customary chairman with a soft voice.

"oppung Boru, what is more valuable sinamot (mahar) than the sacred promise he uttered before the servant of the Lord? is it not customary for Batak to be independent after marriage? Oppung Boru Tyas, all the children of the married Oppung live independently right?

Please Oppung Boru explain Why Oppung children are independent after marriage? please understand my mother-in-law and my husband who lives under her Mamak armpits."

"Tiur.. keep your manners, remember your sinamot (mahar) is very big." said the father with full emotion.

"sir..my father-in-law is the older brother of the Father himself, the older brother of the Father treats this daughter in such a way. and where the attitude of the father's defense against me.

oh yes, the father who received Sinamot (Mahar) aja father who married in Andri replaced Tiur, or the father paid the customary fine and the problem was resolved.

after all, Tiur never wanted this marriage, all at the will of the father.if it had been this father even demanded courtesy from the pride of his own daughter."

"enough..... "

My father-in-law shouted because of My words, all were directed to Him. My mother-in-law looked so furious while Andri was just silent.

"what is quite amang (callation to the father-in-law, in Batak tradition which means father-in-law.)?"

Hearing the statement from me, my father-in-law immediately fell silent.His face was red and the look in his eyes looked so angry.

"once I thought about it, your family won't be able to afford her fine. Tiur.. parmaen (Hostling in the Toba Batak tradition) you and Andri have been betrothed by your Oppung since childhood.

Your father has received a pair of buffalo and ulos si Rara (ulos Batak red, Ulos is a woven cloth that is typical of Batak Toba) as a sign that Inang is the future wife of Andri.

Parmaen, you can not deny all that.remember you are a pariban (cousin from the side of Mama who can be married). In our custom the unyielding pariban refused.

Parmaen wants to break Oppung's vows You two? what about the omens of your Oppungs? and how's the sinamot fine?" said my in-laws in a low tone of voice.

"Amang (call to father-in-law). Tiur will deny Him, just as Andri denies his sacred promise and the word of God.

Regarding the omens of the Oppung it is not my business, and the Sinamot (Mahar) fine is Mr. Ku's business if it is not able to pay it to the Police."

"well, the situation is getting more complicated.and it seems there is no clarity. Now I want to ask the paranak (the Husband) Do you still want Tiur to be Andri's wife?

What's the solution if you still want Tiur to be your son-in-law? I want to hear an explanation from Andri as Tiur's husband and remember you are still a close family. Andri please answer."

Hearing a question from the king of Huta (Peku Adat) Bang Andri immediately turned his Mama.

"Andri... You are a man, why should you see your mama? are you going to go into your mama's stomach again?"

Checkmate questions from the traditional Stakeholder made Andri bow, the whisperings from the mothers of the Pemangku adat group escorts were heard harassing the attitude of the Andri bang.

"I like Tiur Oppung, and I want him to remain my wife, but I don't want to be separated from Mamak." replied bang Andri slowly.

"because he was already married, and Tiur also did not burden the father and Mamak. Tiur wants to be his wife again, but on condition, I and bang Andri live Mandiri and salary bang Andri I hold. and my in-laws can not interfere with all our household affairs."

With an answer my mother-in-law looked even more wrathful, her eyes looking at me as if she wanted to pounce on me and swallow me whole.

"for how do you redeem the Mahar and the cost of your marriage haaaa?" ask my mother-in-law with wrath.

"sorry Host, I never mintak that much. it's based on the agreement. if the host does not want to come out of money for the cost of marriage, do not need your child's marriage."

"stretch ye yes Tiur." my mother-in-law's rebuttal is no less fierce.

"helloo... that again and that again, remember the host Mak iren (the nickname of my mother-in-law because her first child was named Iren). if the host Mak Iren's existence is not now the time but it used to be. So calm yes, we settle it peacefully.

Now I ask Mr. Iren, as the father of Andri, what is wrong with Mr. Iren?

Adatterer so firmly said, and it looks my father-in-law is looking at me with his shade.

"Okay, with me reiterate. Andri and his wife will be independent in the house of Pak Soar, the bone of Tiur, as a father who has 6 Daughters and the head of the family, and I will give living capital for a while.

Parmaen, what are you minting after Mandiri from us? and hopefully we can make it happen."

"but sir, Andri wouldn't want to separate from Mamak?" rebut bang Andri suddenly who cut my father-in-law talk.

"then divorce Tiur and dowry scorched, Because Tiur obviously does not want to be at home with his in-laws.remember Andri, your mamak did not want to live at home with my mama. Andri knows why?

Tiur has answered, Your mother is just like her father-in-law, who oppung Boru mu.

As your Father, asking for clarity from you, still want to be with Tiur and live independently and your salary is not how much it is held by Tiur or you divorce Tiur?

Maybe your mother can find a wife for you as well as a maid and her slave.

Andri answered....."

Bang Andri again saw his mother and my father-in-law look upset, as well as the Stakeholder and his entourage and did not miss his mothers.

"Andri. "my father-in-law shouted to bang Andri for not answering.

"yes, I want to sir." replied bang Andri spontaneously.

"well, now amang want to ask Tiur. host parmean (defend me), what host Mintak? and this is the provision of your life later.

"If amang willing, Tiur want to buy a sewing machine and embroidery machine, Tiur has asked his seller who happens to have a fabric store. with a cost of 15 million Rupiah already can sewing machines and embroidery machines and a package of cloth that is enough as capital, and it is a package with all the sewing equipment.

In the capital of this district, only one who became a tailor and Tiur had asked if he was overwhelmed to serve his customers that meant Tiur still had a chance to sew.

I used to work as a design and sewing in my workplace, and that became my main capital."

"ok, incidentally amang just sold our buffalo and this is the remaining 20 million, amang give now.the effort you and my Son Andri, Amang entrust to Tiur.

Parent parmean, sorry for our treatment.and remember your in-laws are still the amangboru Mu (call to the husband of the Father's sister) that means we are family."

My Father-in-law is so wise, but why is his son different?