MARRIED FOR INDIGENOUS DEBT
A Deal Without Certainty.

"sir Tiur..the house, the rice fields and the garden belong to my family.I let go of all that.I love the longest time this month." Pinta Bones pak Saor to the father.

"Mak Tiur... Do you have the same heart as me? where do I live?" ask Mamak while crying.

"you are much more hearted Mr. Tiur, enough I suffered all this time. After the death of your Mother, I thought it was the end of my suffering, it turned out to be much more painful because you were defending your brother too much.

What trouble do you want to live in? ask your sister's question.it's up to you to stay where.if you need to live in the grave Mamak you're the beautiful one." explained Mamak to father.

"enough.... Now we go to the problems of Andri and Tiur, are there any other solutions?" ask the customary bench.

"oppung Raja Huta, because the father has spent his Mahar which means I can not ask for divorce from bang Andri.

Oppung Raja Huta, Natua-tua (elder) the village chief and the environmental chief's father. Please give me some leeway and a little justice, if bang Andri does not divorce Tiur, let me ask one request.

I want bang Andri to make a statement and promise in writing, if bang Andri can not give all his salary to his Mama and also I want bang Andri is willing not to be a snacker to his Mama.

I also want to bang Andri to learn to be a responsible husband and no longer a spoiled child.

His affidavit and promise were signed by all present in this house, and if bang Andri denied it then I could get divorced without the customary fines and dowry fines.

Seeing the behavior of my In-laws and bang Andri, who likes to bring up property, I want to add a personal income agreement as a husband wife.even though bang Andri signed this agreement later, later, Tiur ngak sure that the salary bang Andri will be handed to me his wife.

I don't want my income and if any property will be inherited to me, disturbed by bang Andri and his family. I don't bother any gift from my in-laws."

"Abang wants to deck, and Brother is willing to do it." replied bang Andri suddenly.

All attention was on him, but his Mama's face was emotional and seemed to want to beat me up.

"agreed.......

Everyone said they agreed, except my mother-in-law and my father, I didn't know what was on their minds.

"thank you for His concern and His participation so that this problem has found a solution.

Here also I bring documents in the form of agreements, just in case.just need to add other points. and I have brought the village stamp and also the stamp to legally legalize the statements and agreements that will be made.

This Tiur host is a document that has been made by the village employee, please add the points of his agreement and show it to your husband."

The draft Statement and the agreement are good enough, I added the points I wanted.

Not to forget also with points of income and cause and effect, after completion I submit to bang Andri.

Bang Andri immediately signed the document and then the guests attended alternately and lastly my mother-in-law without reading it. And finally the village head gave his stamp and affixed his signature.

"as King of Huta (the customary regent) by stating that the matter is already settled, with the agreement that has been agreed.

I hope each side keeps its promise, for the common good.

At the end of the day I say thank you to all of them.

To the Village Chief I give time as the official closing of this customary session."

"well, thank you gentlemen who in the end we have achieved our goals, to Mr. Tiur and Mak Tiur, you have officially divorced traditionally.

You are divorced and Mr. Tiur please leave what is not the right of Mr. Tiur. for Andri please keep the promise as a true man.

May your marriage be happy Always, and here also for the last one. I give the opportunity to all who are here if there are any objections.the time and place I allow to speak."

Speak to give the head space and time to complain or refute the results of the deal tonight.

Susana was silent and no one said or said anything, and finally the Village Chief stood up as well as the Indigenous Peg.

"well... because no one complains or speaks, with this my customary congregation is closed. Horace.... Horace.... Horace....."

One by one the guests went home, as well as bang Andri who came home with his family.

But you're still sitting in his place, I don't see any regrets on his face that there's just anger.

"sir Tiur, please come home.we want to rest.marsapata tu ho sude nabarnit na di taon ni si Tiur. (you are the one who bore the karma of Tiur's suffering).

Mamaak said to the father, and finally the father came home without saying a word to me, very disappointed with the Father.

As Uli said in his letter, who envied seeing Saor who got affection from his Father, as well as me.

Since childhood I have never had the affection of my father nor did my brothers.

Father's concern and affection are always to his parents and also to my mother-in-law as his brother.

I used to see Mamak crying and always wiping his tears when he saw Me or my sisters.

I just graduated SMK Tata fashion in the district capital and all the Mamak who financed Him.

Finally I went to Java and worked in a convection factory and finally I was able to help Mamak to attend school for my brothers.

"Bere...we go home first yes." said Bones pak Saor.

After delivering them to the front of the house, with Mamak we returned to the house and I saw in the living room.

"Inang (call Mamak to his Daughter) ... m.a.a.a.f kan Mamak ya, mamak ngak can no longer live with your father.and only this Mamak can do for You." mamak said while hugging me.

"Tiur already understands enough Mak, Tiur also knows everything. Tiur knew that Mamak often cried because of his father and family. My mom is the best for me."

After a bit of calm I let go of Mamak's embrace and I looked at his face filled with suffering.

"Sir, thank you for standing up for Tiur and I promise to always be with Mamak."

After successfully calming Mamak, the woman I love can finally sleep in the living room.

I could only shed tears by holding back the sound of my crying, I was not sure of the promise we had agreed to be carried out by bang Andri.

I once promised to be a good husband to Mamak, but my parents were able to make him turn again and renege on his promise.

If bang Andri is still always with his Mama, then bang Andri will never be able to change.