The Struggle of the Sick Wife
Early marriage
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Studies mention that early marriage has a higher risk, especially on the mental, be it anxiety disorders, stress, can even cause depression. Because this condition occurs, because this condition occurs, the general factor is unpreparedness in living the burden and responsibility as a husband or wife.
And this is the beginning of marriage as well as the beginning of Ayu's life, a marriage at an early age that currently bears a burden and responsibility as a wife. although bang lutfi said that his self did not force Ayu to change, however, it was precisely the circumstances that had changed Ayu by force.
If someone says that the self does not have to change just because the status changes, then it's just nonsense.it is precisely the status that changes you, status can change someone for good and bad, then it's just nonsense, status can also turn you into arrogant, and it can happen by compulsion or by relational liking.
After finishing doing the entire series of wedding receptions, Ayu now has to go back to parting with her mother and family because at this time Ayu has to follow the Lutfi bang, which is why she has to go back to her family, he currently works at a mining company outside the city.
Ayu who incidentally his current as a wife would have to follow the husband to wherever bang Lutfi brought her, as the Javanese saying 'surgo nut neroko katututut '.
" Yu .. now Ayu has the responsibility of Ayu's husband, what Ayu's husband said, as long as it is still in a good context in religion. then Ayu must follow her, Ayu must follow her, and do not at all Ayu denied what Ayu's husband said.the husband is a priest for the wife, then we are obliged to follow her.not like mama yu .. enough mama who felt had to fail many times in the household, and it did not happen to Ayu. " said mama advised Ayu, just before the departure of the two newlyweds.
" God willing ma .. Ayu will remember the words of mama. Ayu prayer, so that Ayu can live all her." Ayu said to mama.
This is what makes Ayu still not feel confident with himself, able to be himself with the burden and responsibility as a wife.Hear the advice of mama alone Ayu has been made dizzy to think of her.
But one belief Ayu for now, Ayu enough to swim with the flow.whether the current will bring Ayu, then Ayu only berbasjah with the end result.
" Mama don't worry, God willing I will take care of Ayu ma . prayer is just the two of us." said bang Lutfi who is currently saying goodbye to mama Ayu.
" Yes, mama will always pray the best for you both.mama tipped Ayu nak." by hugging bang Lutfi mama crying on the shoulder of her daughter-in-law.
" And please .. don't hurt Ayu, please take care of Ayu, protect Ayu and educate Ayu." said mama Ayu continued her words.
" God willing ma .." bang Lutfi also returned the words and hugs mama.
After saying goodbye, the two go to a new city for Ayu, a new home, and a new life for Ayu. after traveling several hours, the two have now arrived in the city of T, and right now Ayu is standing in one of the rented houses in the city of T.
A house that is deliberately bang Lutfi contract for his second residence. actually where the Lutfi bang works is indeed in the mining forest area, bang Lutfi does live in a mes that is provided by a company that is in the mining area in the forest, her self is unlikely to bring Ayu to follow herself into the forest.
" Allhamdulilah .. the end is also." said bang Lutfi by entering the rented house.
" On the deck, why is it still outside." when he saw the wife who was still standing in front of the rented house.
" Ehh .. iiiya bang." because surprised, ayu was even laid out.
Ayu also directly entered following the steps of her husband who first entered the house. When entering the house that Ayu will occupy at this time, the situation is indeed quite spacious, with two bedrooms, and the house is quite spacious, the kitchen and bathroom are very spacious, when compared to where he lived.
And here it is possible that Ayu will enjoy the facilities that are specifically only for herself and her husband.if you look back, maybe Ayu's current state is much better, long before his self was married, for sure his current financial state of Ayu is very stable.
" What is it, how come from earlier daydreaming continuously, while kesambet you know.." bang Lutfi surprised Ayu daydreams by hugging Ayu and wrapping both his hands in Ayu's stomach.
" Asstagfirullah bang .. really like to make Ayu shocked." said Ayu.self surprised when he felt the hand that coiled freely on his stomach.
" Yes .. his abis from earlier Ayu daydreamed continuously, what's up ? why ? the same story brother, let brother know. because brother is not a psychic who knows the contents of Ayu's mind." bang Lutfi asked the wife. prihal the wife who since her second arrival was in the house, more daydreaming.
" Ayu just still think aja bang, this soon kah Ayu felt a change in Ayu.not only status Ayu who became the wife of brother, but also, but Ayu's financial status was changed after becoming brother's wife.if Ayu asked thankfully, yes Ayu is very grateful.but, can Ayu be a wife in accordance with the wishes of the brother ?." said Ayu revealed all her heartbreak at this time.
" Seeettt ... don't think too much, now we just follow the flow of it. In marriage, everything is different. only we have to try to unite the differences. do not try to be a wife that you want to be. but try to be a wife that you need right. "by chewing the cheeks of his little wife who is like a bakpao.
" Ajari Ayu, so that Ayu can be the brother who needs to embrace and guide Ayu, so that Ayu is always beside her brother.and Ayu's protege, as well as, so that Ayu can be a wife who understands brother. "by turning his body, and hugging tightly the body of the husband.
" God willing .. we will both learn the same, and remind each other." said bang Lutfi. by reciprocating tightly hugging the body of his little wife.
This is the sweetness at the beginning of Ayu's marriage, who feels lucky to get a mature husband figure and much more understanding and understanding of himself at this time. the figure of the husband who is not demanding much of himself must change, the figure of a husband who patiently faces his childish behavior.
It's just that, will the beginning of this sweet marriage will survive in the following years.Anyway, Ayu has understood what failure in marriage. because he has learned a lot from both parents because the greatest teacher in life, not the person who learns about life, however, it is life experiences that teach us more about life.
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