The Struggle of the Sick Wife
Mama's divorce
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It does not feel like the time has now passed, three years have mama Ayu lived her household life with her husband. Ayu is currently twelve years old, and currently Ayu is in the 6th grade of Elementary School.
In this world there will be no woman who wants her domestic life destroyed, what else until it has to be many times.so does mama Ayu, who is, he also really wants a whole family, but what is the power if indeed the decision to divorce was now again taken by the mother.
Mama Ayu has indeed failed twice in building a household, and this time the mother will again fail in her household.before mama Ayu married to Ayu's biological father, Ayu, she is a widow with two children, while Ayu's biological father is also a widower with two children. His second marriage and then, was born Ayu from the fruits of his second marriage.
In one afternoon, when Ayu was busy nangkring on a guava tree.
" Yu .. go down yu, quickly finish all the clothes - Ayu clothes, we go from here now ... ! " said the mother gave orders to Ayu with a tone that did not want to be denied.
" you .. ma, where do we go?" said Ayu who was busy at that time nangkring on a guava tree beside the house.
" Do not ask, if you want to come quickly finish all your clothes." mama Ayu again voiced, and passed away and went back into the house after saying that to Ayu.
Hearing that, Ayu rushed down from the top of the tree, and went straight into the house to her room. in a hurry - gesa Ayu cleaned all the clothes and goods - goods in his possession. because at that time Ayu did not have a bag to pack his goods, his goods, so the sarong cloth is where Ayu packed all his belongings.
There was no talk or debate that Ayu heard at that time, there was only silence between Ayu's mother and father. Ayu actually understands the situation, that at this time the situation is not good - but, he just does not know what is really going on between the two.
After finishing cleaning all the goods and clothes belonging to mama and Ayu both went straight from home. there was no word of farewell from the mother to Ayu's father who was sitting in the kitchen at the time. Ayu who was confused at that time, just followed the mother behind, herself did not have time to say goodbye to the father continued.
Currently his second goal is to the house of the niece of the mother which means is Ayu's cousin, but more precisely his second towards the residence of the grandmother, which means, which is side by side with the house of my mother's niece and Ayu's grandmother's granddaughter.
a cottage or saung that is deliberately built on land belonging to the grandson at the same time side by side with the house of the grandson.
A cottage that only measures two meters and a half square, it is what is currently the residence of Ayu threesome with mother and grandmother Ayu. it's just that the state of the hut that is currently the residence of Ayu is no longer of bamboo as before it was made of wood board.
" Aunty is there a problem what is the husband of aunty?" said the niece of the mother asked, after seeing her second luggage.
" How else do you tick, so far the aunt has to slam the bones of work, during this time also the aunt never distinguish children.but why, when the first new child aunty came, the first time aunty came, even just overnight stay at home.with so easy his aunt's husband said when your son came home ?. heartache aunt heard him, even though for three years to know married, when she was married, the first child aunty has just visited. and not to mention, when Ayu once asked for a snack. easily her self also said, your son jajan continues, Ayu only snacks once a week tick. "mama's curse on Ayu's cousin.
And here is Ayu understand, it turns out that mama is back divorced with the father so on because of the problem of children.This is the reality of married life, this is the reality of married life, what if married in the second or third marriage with the status of a single mom or single dad. the child is the first factor that will trigger what problems if there is no mutual understanding and understanding between the two.
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Time after time Ayu lived, and it does not feel that Ayu is now fifteen years old, and now Ayu has graduated from Junior High School.four years have been after the divorce of the third mother, and now Ayu has graduated from high school, and this time my mother really decided not to marry again.
Mama once said, the husband will be an ex when we divorce.but children, until the world of doomsday even children will never be ex. because mama will choose children rather than husbands. never defend something that is not worth fighting for and defending.
When graduating from Junior High School, here Ayu back in the test.when Ayu intends to continue vocational school in the district, it is precisely the cost that becomes an obstacle. because all this time Ayu's biological father almost never gave money to Ayu as a form of responsibility to Ayu. if Ayu did not come to the father's house to ask, if Ayu, so do not expect the father will give pocket money to Ayu. what else now the father has married back and has had children.
" Yeah ... Ayu wants to continue the school at the vocational school in the district." said Ayu to the father after graduation in general.
" Why do you have to go far from school to the district, there is a school here too.You can stay with your father here." said the father to Ayu.
" But yeah ... Ayu wants her vocational school, and the school is only there in the district.ayu wants vocational school, in order to have the skills well. it's good if you want to find a job." Ayu explained to the father what her desire was all this time.His self only wanted to work after graduating from school, in order to help her mama's economy.
" You need to be stubborn Yu . If you want to go to school, you go to school here, you stay with your father, but if you're still stubborn, you'll lose your hand." said Ayu's father firmly at that time.
Hearing that, Ayu was only able to sigh heavily.since she was six years old until she was fifteen years old, the father never gave any fees to Ayu, his special school equipment cost Ayu.
During this time all the cost of living Ayu the mama who always struggled to bone, by working as a farm worker in the garden owned by people. for almost nine years the mother bear the cost of living Ayu, Ayu, that should be the duty of the father, but, what is the power when the person who should be in charge it just never cares.
During the marriage with the mama of course there is a treasure gono - gini in the second result during his life together, but that is only the story, but it remains, because my mother died all of her without asking for her rights to Ayu's father.
Many of his second possessions are deliberately sold by the father without the knowledge of mama and Ayu. So, do not expect if Ayu and her mama will get a share of the sale. actually, the result was asked by Ayu to the father, because the portion of the proceeds from the sale that Ayu will use for himself to continue school.
But all of it is only Ayu's desire, if the father alone never cares about Ayu. Sometimes Ayu feels, if the father does not care, what is the child that the father does not want ? and somehow, the father's treatment is always different to Ayu, unlike Ayu's two older sisters because it seems - if Ayu's father really loves both of them rather than himself. this is destiny and life that must be lived with full patience.
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