Being late in love
Ta'aruf

"Deeekkkk.... wake up deck, you didn't go to college?"

With the typical sound of his mother woke me up, but basically I ndablek ya a series of reps mother like a beautiful song my ear that every day flowed beautifully.

I love my angry mother not being clear if I wake up again. Sometimes I chuckle to myself hearing him fuss. What dayaku who likes to test his patience, sometimes dipper shower nagayang right on top of my head, leaving a very beautiful mark, engraved on my forehead, shakes dipper wake me from a beautiful dream,

Lida:"Yes ma'am, just a moment,,,"

Mother:"Tock.(.Gayung landed beautifully on my midget which is quite wide like this volleyball field). You're a girl, not waking up in the morning."

Lida:"Sick tau ma'am, there's no way to wake up what?" I was washing my lips

Mom:"You want me to take another gaying or wake up on your own?" Mother sat in front of me.

Lida:"Yes, this is Lida getting up."

Mother:"Yes, ready to pray down help mom in the kitchen, do not males girls, later broken soul mate."

Lida:"You suck at a mate, yes at aja Lida nya bu, kayak kak Hana."

Mother:" You are yes, many times your story, already ayok cepet, tar rejoin your Fajr same Dhuha mu."

Id:"Hehehe..."

I rushed to carry out the order of the queen in this house, so I called it. Because in addition to fierce, he was a peerless ruler in this house. Moreover, you must be very afraid of Mom,.hahaha sometimes I am funny if you remember so scared dad pas Mommy angry unclear, apparently the investigator has a survey of mothers again mengambek same father because asked in buyin ornamental fish not in love with father.. Though the mother was old, but sometimes her behavior menggeleparin me if again crave.

Finished carrying out the obligations of the creator, I went straight to the kitchen to help mom make sarapa. I still have 2 hours until the lecture schedule arrives.

Id:"Mom,..."

Ibi:"Yes, why?"

Lida:"Will Lida be in a mate as well as a sister?"

Mommy:"would you like it?"

Lida:"Lida find her own aya ya ma'am..."

Mom:"Come, but I don't let you date. Types of you ni deck, where can I play a soul mate, you are not like your brother, he can be obedient, but if you, mother is not sure to be in a mate, you are not sure, didn't they?"

Lida:"Hehehe, Iya ma'am, later if no one wants to be the same Lida new mom can Gercep to nyariin Lida life partner."

Mom:" You are, it's not as good as that what's a mother's child?"

Lida:" It seems that if Lida in soul mate, Lida soh belom ready mom, if see from sister Han also rich her husband belom can rejoice their marriage."

Mom:"Husss, don't say that, just pray that their relationship lasts deck..."

Lida:"Yes ma'am..."

Mom:"Inget yes pesen mom, don't date, mom don't like. If there is something serious about you immediately invite to the house for your halalin. If suitable okay continue, if not suitable, please Stop before a long step."

Mom:"You're ready for marriage, you're Taaruf on deck,"

Lida:"What is ma'am?

Mother:" Ta’aruf can be interpreted by introducing yourself, knowing well, or getting to know others.

The point is ta’aruf is an interaction conducted between two or more people with a specific purpose or purpose. So, the language of understanding ta’aruf is actually broad because it can involve brotherhood, friendship, marriage, and so forth.

Ta’aruf in romantic relationships can be interpreted as an introductory process whose purpose is to perfect religion, which refers to the level of marriage. Not just want to get acquainted or fad in finding a mate, more than that ta’ruf become so noble because the perpetrator has a holy intention."

Lida:" Is it different, ma'am, Taaruf with dating?"

Mother:"Obviously, baby...

Ta’aruf is an introductory process to get to the marriage level while courtship is generally to get to know each other between the opposite sex which was not initially based on a commitment to get married. In fact, it is not uncommon to be modulated with free sex.

If they have undergone the process of dating for a long time and feel suitable then they hold a marriage.

Ta’aruf in Islam is certainly highly recommended compared to dating because in Islam the law of courtship is haram. Yes, as we all know that courtship is an activity that approaches zina so it is forbidden by Islam.

Lida:"What's the benefit of Taaruf's bu?"

Mother:" Ta’aruf is a means to prevent you from adulterous or dual-age relationships in a quiet place because in the process ta’aruf prohibits men and women to meet secretly without an escort.

When ta’aruf takes place, the two exchange information about the advantages and disadvantages of each without anyone to cover up. The family also knows each other about it. So, there will be no lies and certainly more fair.

During the ta’aruf process, there is an exchange of information between the two parties in a short time so there is no need to walk around like people who are dating. This is what causes ta’aruf to be considered more effective than dating.

It does not take long in the process of ta’aruf, if the two already feel a lot of compatibility, it will continue to the next level of application and then marry. However, if it feels unsuitable then there is no word break up, but stop at the process ta’aruf only and do not cause hostility. Of course this is different from dating which often ends in hostility if it has been broken up.

You know what, son?"

Lida:"InsyaAllah Lida understands kok ma'am, thank you ma'am, has been the best mother for Lida also sister Hana."

Mother:"Let's love, it's her job to give the best to her children."

Mother kissed my forehead dear, I feel proud of the mother who has a broad insight about religion, I can protect myself and also I can control myself not to admit things beyond limits.

Not feel ready for breakfast made, Nasi goreng telor ceplok, a typical breakfast menu that is easily cheap.

Everyone can enjoy it. Moreover, the mother-made fried rice is unmatched, delicious on the tongue and bad at the heart.. Ceee ileee.

The three of us had breakfast as usual, because Kak Hana was married and moved to his own house, so I was the only child in this house who became a favorite...

Hehehehe

⁇ ️Hai dearest author....Green back laagi...

happy no? hopefully more love with her green story....😘😘