Being late in love
preparation

Alhamdulillah after 2 months ago I participated in the wedding of Lidya and Rudi, this month I also still have to deg-deg ser because I am waiting for the birth of my baby.. The baby I love the most and miss his presence. Children who always fill my days with kicks and elbows in my stomach that make my stomach become bumpy..

Sometimes Eko and I chuckle to see this rare event, sometimes it feels like they are fighting in there, and,,

Pregnancy is the happiest time, from the time of pregnancy the inner bond between the child and the mother is created, what the mother eats, the child also eats, the child also eats, what a mother's heart feels, a child feels.

Oh how I will miss every second that I am pregnant with my two children, my feelings at this time are very nervous waiting for the day of labor that can be counted with fingers..

The closer the day, the more nervous I got, to get rid of that nervousness, I deliberately started packing things up for my preparation ahead of the birth of my first child. As a prospective mother, there must be confusion about what to do and be prepared to welcome the baby. I also shared with sister Hana who had been born..

Kak Hana said there are several things that must be prepared..

Prepare the hospital and doctor

Both of these things are important to prepare long before the day of birth, because the choice of a doctor will affect our choice of hospital because we generally can only choose the hospital where the doctor practices. Therefore, I need to find a lot of information, such as whether my doctor has a practice schedule at another hospital, whether the rules and the atmosphere of the hospital are suitable for me, he said, then what also needs to be considered is the distance from my home to the hospital. Another consideration if we have a risky pregnancy is the availability of a newborn intensive care unit or NICU and medical personnel who are ready to perform medical measures such as cesarean section.

Items to carry

Oil for massaging, so I can relax more by getting a massage. Comfortable clothes for labor, such as a very comfortable and simple nightgown. Tie or hairpin, need to be prepared so that my hair will not interfere at the time of delivery.

Books or magazines, or anything that can make me feel calm before labor. Bath equipment, Although some hospitals prepare toiletries, sometimes it is more convenient if we use the toiletries ourselves.

Underwear, which of course needs to be prepared because I'll be in the hospital for a few days.

As for my husband, the things that need to be brought include dressing clothes and sandals, because my husband will definitely accompany me while in the hospital. Before delivery until delivery. Snacks and drinks, to accompany my husband while in the hospital.

The things that need to be prepared for me and my baby after giving birth are special breastfeeding Bra. To help smooth breastfeeding, this particular bra is not too tight and is more comfortable to wear by nursing mothers.

Special dressing for mothers giving birth, it is necessary to prepare at least 2 or 3 packs (about 36 pieces of pads). This dressing is not like a regular sanitary pad, because it needs to absorb a lot of blood coming out. Says Brother Hana, I need to change this sanitary pad at least once every 1-2 hours after giving birth, in order to stay comfortable and clean **** awake.

Baby clothes. Baby clothes, diapers, blankets, gloves, and socks need to be prepared. Some hospitals may prepare baby clothes, but there is no harm in bringing some clothes for my baby later.

For the method of giving birth there are various, we can adjust it to the condition of personal health and the method of giving birth as we want.

Most women feel like a full mother when they can give birth to their child normally. Learn to regulate breathing by attending childbirth classes in order to help the normal delivery process run smoothly.

If things don't allow normal, I'm forced to have a caesarean. Thank God my husband is the type of husband standby right.. What is the Importance of a Standby Husband?

Husbands certainly need to know some things about our pregnancy, such as when the estimated date of birth, so that when I experience contractions and need help, my husband is ready. I'm telling my husband what to do when I start to feel the pain of childbirth. For example, by massaging or rubbing my back, or using a warm water bottle coated with a towel to compress