
I saw him a little surprised by the view around my room, because on the walls of my room there were pictures of our wedding. He looked at me, I thought I'd ask about the photo, apparently not.
"Who was that guy?" tanyanya.
"Don't you know? She's Temen Hana"
"But why do you look so close?"
"We're just friends, nothing more. Lagian Hana knows the limits that Hana must guard. Wh why? You jealous?" tudepoin.
"Don't dream, I just don't want you to defame our family."
"Since when have we had a family?" ask me with watery eyes.
"You're fighting me?"
"No, Hannah just told me."
"I don't like and don't want you to be close to any man anymore" she told me
"Why? We're just friends, nothing more" I said a little louder. "Then you can be close to who and know-tau go home bring that young wife?"
I saw him a little upset by my answer
"I'm a man, I can be polygamous, even up to four" he explained to me.
I scratched my non-itchy head, then I explained to her about polygamy.
"In his book ahkamun married vaz zafaf, he requires 4 things to do polygamy:
Able to do justice
A polygamous person must have a just attitude among his wives. He should not lean on one of his wives. This would result in his other wives' iniquity. Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda (which means), “Whoever has two wives and then more inclined to one of them, on the day of the apocalypse he will come in a state partially tilted.” (CHR. Abu Dawud, An-Nasa-i, At-Tirmidhi)
Not neglectful to worship Allah
One who practices polygamy must increase his fear of Allah and be diligent in his worship. But when after he carried out the Shari'a, but even neglected to worship, then polygamy became slander for him. And he is not a person who deserves polygamy.
Allah Ta’ala said (which means), “Hi the believers, verily among your wives and your children there are enemies to you, so beware of them.” (QS. Tagged: 14)
Hana see in point 2 this mas a little negligent..
Able to take care of the wives
It is an obligation for the husband to take care of his wife. So that his wife awake religion and honor. When a person is polygamous, automatically the woman he takes care of is not only one, but more than one. He must be able to keep his wives from falling into disrepair and corruption.
Able to give birth
This is very clear, because a polygamous person, must meet the needs of a living born to his wife.
Allah Ta’ala says (which means), “And those who are unable to marry, should keep chastity (himself), until Allah grants the ability to them with His gift.” (QS. An-Nur: 33)
Yang Hana tau mas only excelled at the fourth point. At the first point mas is not fair with Hana, mas only give birth to a living for Hana, but do not give an inner living. Mas is also often negligent in carrying out worship now, cool with his young wife mas. And for the third point it looks like mas also only protects the second wife, but not for Hana..."
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yo.mom mother whose fathers intentions polygamy hayuk in the talk of his father to be aware..😁
hopefully Surya is aware of y right??
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