Being late in love
want pregnant

Eko:" Honey, you still want an assistant?"

Lida:" Where are you going?"

Eko:" Mas there is work also the problem, must go back and forth between indonesia-japan.."

Lida:" Yes, later Lida auxiliary mas, mas anyway why so much to take his work?"

Eko:" Mas just take the opportunity that is in front of the eyes of dear..."

Lida:" Oh that's it..."

Eko:" Yes, you if there is an opportunity that comes to take while you can, do not be in vain.mumpung not yet pregnant..."

deg...

I touted with what he said Mas Eko, yes? Why did I forget this? ah, so busy I forgot, why am I not pregnant?? I was pensive next to Eko who was struggling with her laptop on her workroom couch.

Mas Eko who realized my silence then reprimanded me..

Eko:" Hey baby.. Why daydream?"

Lida:" I don't think there's anything lacking between us?"

Eko:" What do you mean, dear?"

Lida:" We're already 1 year married, why is Lida belom pregnant too?"

Eko:" Patience, only 1 year, not in love, as long as we always pray and do not forget also the effort every night.hehe"

Lida:" Lida is serious mas. don't be joking donk, even Mada was already 7 months pregnant she was, bertar again lahiran, and Fajri's child was also already in the street mas..

Eko:" Well, that's Mada's fortune and fajri's fortune, meaning Allah already believes their same child's nitipin.."

Lida:" Why don't you want to have children?"

Eko:" who doesn't want to have a baby? everyone would want to be parents, but if not in the love of trust we can what? we can only keep praying and trying.. Believe me, what God has ordained today is best for us.."

Lida:" But Lida also wants to get pregnant..."

I shed my tears, remembering that my best friend was already pregnant who married me first..

Mas Eko, immediately closed his laptop and switched to hug me,

Eko:" Why are you crying?"

Lida:" Lida only wants the love of the descendants..."

Eko:" Did you ask me to be able to have children?"

Lida:" No..."

Eko:" so yes you have relaxed, later if it's time for us to have offspring, surely you are pregnant darling..."

Eko:" baby... Indeed Allah SWT gives a test to humans to see how much human ability in undergoing and passing the test.

It was like a test at school, where the teacher gives a test question sheet that aims to enable students to solve the problem and the results will be assessed by the teacher until at the end of the semester the test scores will be displayed with rankings between students are different from each other each other, of course, depends on the ability of students to fill the exam.

It is the same as the test of life, Allah SWT gives a test to humans to know every ability of His servants in solving the problems of life, whether the problem of property, children, family, workplace, etc, or any other problem.

Allah SWT said,” And verily, We do test you with a little bit of fear, hunger, monetary crisis, soul crisis and fruit crisis. Those who, when doomed, say, ‘Innalilahi wa ina ilaihi rajiun (We belong to Allah and only to Him will we return)’. They are the ones who get the blessing and the affection of their Lord and they are the ones who get the guidance,” (QS. Al Baqara:155-157).

Even the Prophet SAW said: “Really, the magnitude of the reward along with the magnitude of the ordeal. When God loves a people, He will test them. Whoever is willing, then for him His pleasure, and whosoever hates, then he will get His hatred,” (HR. Tirmidhi AT).

Based on the explanation above, there are some wisdom that we can take lessons when we are hit by a disaster or a test of life:

Based on the above hadith of the Prophet SAW which reads, “..If Allah loves a people, He will test them. ..”.

So this indicates that every test man receives is as a form of the love of Allah SWT to His servants. Logically, a person who loves others will often pay attention to his loved ones, even with God to His servant, with the coming of the test means that God is paying attention to ourselves and this form of attention is one of the characteristics that God loves and loves His servant who was struck by disaster.

The test of life makes us more patient. As in the word of Allah SWT : “Do you want to be patient?”,(QS. Al Furqon :20).

It means that God gives the test wants to train our habits to learn patience. Logically, with frequent exams even though initially difficult but because it is used then as time goes by the difficulty will be sirnah even we will be accustomed to completing the exams that come to us. So surely Allah makes the test of life merely wanting to raise the degree of His servant in order to achieve a degree of patience.

Training us to learn gratitude. This is as explained in the words of Allah SWT: “Verily if you are grateful, surely We will add (merciful) to you, and if you deny (my mercy), then indeed My punishment is very painful.” (QS. Abraham [14]: 7). Wallahu’alam

Now you know, don't you, baby?"

Lida:" Yes, Lida will continue to be patient,,"

Since the discussion about pregnancy, when watching tivi, and showing ads for baby soap that does not hurt in the eyes, which shows a baby that is still red, I always stroke my flat stomach and cry because of it..

What's wrong huh? am I the less grateful? ah, but it has not been windfall times, even a lot of people who have been married long ago also do not have a baby, their rope is patient.I am only a year ago why too paranoid right?

Later when the time comes maybe I'll be better prepared..

And when that time comes I'm sure I'm ready to be a parent.

And since then I often take little Naira home, she who can speak 2 3 words makes me very anxious, he said, I also often invite her to stay here if Kak Hana and mas Rizal out of town to review their branch cafe.

⁇ ️ his spirit donk brother..😢😢