My student's my future husband?
(C2) Ep 41. Considerations
It has been a week since Saturday. Arsene completely avoided Zaara even though he had met her while studying in a public course class. Though usually he will greet the girl even though he only said greetings.
Arsene did not want to find out about what happened to Zaara and Raffa, although Ajeng tried to invite him to chat. Even so Arsene who looks is like Arsene who usually. His heart ached, but quickly the young man returned it again to its normal status. He just wants life to run normally, not want to linger with the black hole in his heart. The man entered his notebook into the book and left class with his two close friends, Angga and Adit.
Today there is scheduled to be a peak night of ospek activities at their faculty. The event will take place from 18.30 to 20.30 wib. Forced to follow him to get a certificate that he said would be a condition or ticket to attend an entrepreneurship seminar that will be held next month. Of course, Arsene will not miss a seminar that might add to his knowledge related to the world of entrepreneurship.
The three men went to the campus mosque after the adzan dzuhur reverberated. Today Arsene's schedule is full, so he can't control his store. He will be on campus all day. He took off his shoes and walked towards the ablution. While passing through the hallway, he noticed an assortment of posters attached to the mosque wall magazine. There was one poster of the event that caught his attention. Pre-Married Seminar Review. Young Marriage: The Dilemma between Chant and Love. He remembered that one plan, but realized that the girl of his heart already owned by others, should he come to the study that he actually needed to add knowledge? Immediately disturbed by it, a message from Om Reza. Man will never know his soul mate, but to commit himself to the best mate God has given him is certainly better for him.
“Hoy! Want to marry your young man, Sen?!” ask Angga who surprised him.
“Hmm ...,” Arsene just a small mutter.
“Lu mah must be easy if married, already have a business, tajir, handsome, pinter, beuh the dream of women!”
“Yes, but life after marriage is the same?! Moreover, what I have is still have all parents. I don't want to live on my wealth!” his response was still looking at the poster.
“Prestigious huh?!”
“Not prestige, but marwah (honor) the husband is in his living! Embarrassed if you want marriage but jajan aja still ask the same ortu. Where in front of in-laws?!” he said casually glancing at his friend.
“Aseeek, the language, Mas Bro! Forgive me, not strong I still leak snot. I also mpot-mpotan college, let alone ask for marriage, will be expelled me!” exclaimed Adit raised both his hands, then bowed before him. Arsene chuckled at the sight of his friend.
“Emang if snack, you still ask ortu?” ask Adit again.
“If the snack is not, if the cost of tuition with business capital is still!”
“Buseeet, already fit young marriage anyway lu mah!” timpal Angga's.
“Yuk ah buruan wudhu, want iqomat tuh!” take Arsene who then photographed the poster of the event with his cellphone and walk to the place of the Brotherhood special ablution.
The sun was already right on its throne above the sky, spreading its rays and heat to one side of the world facing towards it. The male and female pilgrims were lined up neatly in rows of prayers to face Him, momentarily bowing their hearts while continuing to worship the Divine.
Arsene sat cross-legged on the terrace of the mosque which felt cold. A gentle breeze blew and caressed her face until drowsiness was felt in her eyes. This atmosphere is his favorite in this mosque. The wind whirling that greeted the leaves, made his eyes feel cool. He refused to budge, his heart was already in love with this place. After college, the young man always stopped by before going to his shop. Islamic studies, tahsin, and the study of Islamic history are always followed.
This afternoon before attending the peak evening activities, he attended the Islamic studies held by the LDK, as a process of cadre and member formation. This is the third study for him after joining LDK DKM Asy-Syifa. Together with three friends from various faculties, he seemed eager to join the science assembly with his senior brother, Kang Ilman.
“Allah swt. gives the potential of reason to humans, so that we can distinguish which is *haq (*right) and bathil (wrong). God also gives potential to humans in other forms, including physical needs, compassion and also self-existence. Everything must go hand in hand with faith. Without faith, it is impossible for man to be subject to the rules of God. Intellect, coupled with faith, will lead to the very nature of God's existence. From there, man will realize that his life is bound to His law, man cannot live carelessly and freely without rules. Then, another thing will follow him because his understanding has changed, which is to live bound by the law of God.”
Ilman then continued his explanation, “When man has realized it, he will automatically meet his physical needs with the standard of Allah's rules, for example, whether what he eats is illegal or halal? Similarly, when the instinct of compassion unfortunately appears, is channeled in accordance with what is recommended by religion or not? For example, if two people of different types then dating is it in accordance with religious teachings or not? Sure didn't. He will choose a halal way to be able to channel his affection, such as marriage. So even with self-existence, a believing man will not plunge himself on bad things that will mendzalimi himself.”
Arsene was so focused on the material presented by Kang Ilman, that many questions arose in his mind.
“Means the courtship can't be Kang?” tanya Firman, a freshman from the Japanese Literature department.
“Betul. In Islam there is never a term of courtship. Even Allah says, ‘Wa laa taqrobuz zina ..’ Do not approach adultery, indeed adultery is a heinous deed and a bad path (QS. Al-Isra: 32), and according to the scholars, everything that leads to adultery becomes haram. For example, dating. What the hell do two opposite-sex people do in one deserted place? At first the handrails, keep on starting to drift everywhere, eh suddenly blasss! Zina can corrupt human reason and reason, because it is against the rule of Allah.” Ilman explained with his expressive face.
“Keep how to get to the wedding if not going out?” ask the Word again.
“The courtship is only a guise and a doang mask, not necessarily their partner to be frank about the nature shown in front of him. If in Islam, there is a name ta’aruf (introduction), khitbah (win), and continue to marriage. Ta’aruf can not be equated with dating. Ta’aruf means two people are met by an intermediary, they will not be left alone without a mahram. If it is suitable directly to the khitbah stage that is to ask the woman, so that it can progress to the stage of marriage. That's a quick overview, is anyone interested in getting married young?” asked Ilman idly to his junior sister.
The four men in front of him chuckled, including Arsene.
“If direct preaching what can, Kang?” ask Arsene curiously.
“Mau khitbah or taaruf used to be no problem, it depends on each agreement. The important thing is that the intention remains straight, the stage is done to accelerate marriage, not to book the newspaper?! Why do we talk about marriage?”
Again they just laugh.
“One more yes Kang. If the office has been paid, is there still a chance to ask for it?” ask Arsene.
“Hmm .. I have read a hadith, if the woman has been betrothed, then the other brother should not ask for it. Unless, if the betrothed turns out not to be so, then the pinangan fall status. So if we intend to propose someone, then we must trace the status of the woman, lest anyone already has. Do not su’udzan, do not hesitate to ber-tabayyun or confirm directly on the concerned,” explained Ilman.
Arsene blushed. The question is too specific.
“God willing, Kang! It just seems I have to ber-tabayyun again on his person related to his status,” replied Arsene frankly.
“God, this amazing brother of ours. Really no intention to marry young?”
“God willingly again celebrate themselves.”
“Wow!” the reflexes of his study friends were cheering.
“We just pray for our brother yes, hopefully what is expected to be realized, of course the best of God!”
“Aamiin!”
The sun is hiding behind the edge of the world. The sky is swept a beautiful bright orange color with thin clouds. The birds fly without any more frenzy of sustenance in the future, because they believe Allah has provided sustenance according to each portion.
Arsene walks on the sidewalk befriending the dim atmosphere of street lights and the singing of night bugs. The atmosphere of the campus was quiet and quiet. Adzan maghrib has passed since 20 minutes ago. There was music and chatter from the FIB hall building. The peak night event must have been running. A business motivator said he would be a guest tonight, who is a graduate of the FIB campus as well. Arsene put on his alma mater's suit, then climbed a short stairway into the hall. Several seniors stood outside the hall while monitoring the event.
“You new generation?” ask the hairy student.
“Yes, Kang!” the answer.
“What majors?”
“English Literature.”
“Fill the list first yes! All to be mated the certificate.”
Arsene filled out the list of present and entered into the hall that was quite full. A student was seen still giving his speech on the podium. Two students were waving at him, and told him to sit there. It was Angga and Adit who had already come and sat slapping on the floor.
The event lasted for an hour and a half. A motivator FIB alumni from Indonesian Literature has filled the event tonight. His messages were enough to get Arsene excited, though he felt there was still less to him. Even so, the young man still took a lot of positives from his delivery.
The senior closed the event after the selection of the chairman of the force for new students. Arsene does not exist like his father used to, he is popular but his popularity will not force him to exist more on campus. The man walked towards his motorbike parking lot to go back home and rest.
“Ra, who are you going home with?”
A voice made Arsene turn. It was Terry, Zaara, and Hana who were still standing in front of Building B. Arsene looked at him in surprise, he thought Zaara would not come at these kinds of events. Is it possible that he also needs the certificate to attend an entrepreneurial seminar? Arsene stole their conversation which happened to be not far from his place. Arsene wears his helmet so that his face is not visible.
“I take public transport, Ry! My brother is in Jakarta, while the bike is broken, so my sister has not been able to pick up!”
“You sure you're going home by yourself? Just go yuk!” take the worried Hana.
“I do not bring a change of clothes, anyways my task for tomorrow is in another flash.”
“Yes already, if anything tell us yes? We'll walk together until the gate!” hana said again.
The three girls set their feet on the sidewalk with dim lights. Arsene. He looked at his watch, the time had already shown at 20 o'clock. This includes being late for a girl who is outside the house. But he will not be able to bring Zaara in a piggy bank with his motorbike, surely Zaara will not want to. Though their residence is in the same direction, even still one way in although Zaara's house is closer to the highway.
What's he supposed to do?
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Hm.... What should Arsene do?
Keep it up, continue tomorrow
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