My student's my future husband?
(C2) Ep 59. Seminar

It was a bright saturday. The clear blue morning sky without clouds. Trees welcome joy with the freshness of small shoots of foliage growing at each end, signifying a new spirit to keep growing. Although weekends, people should grow every day, making today better than yesterday. Arsene could have stayed in his house or served customers in his shop, but the nimble young man did not choose that today. He already has an appointment with his two sohibs, Adit and Angga, to attend a pre-wedding seminar that they registered a few days ago. He always thought that there would be new knowledge from every place or event he attended. The young man is indeed spirited, moreover he has decided related to his life choices that yesterday had made his mind upset. His heart is fixed.

The atmosphere of Bandung on the weekend is very busy. Not by working people or students who go to school, but people who will vacation and buy souvenirs or products available in the city of Paris Van Java. At 8 o'clock through Arsene has departed, considering the seminar will be held at 9 o'clock on a multipurpose building located on the roadside, not far from the campus complex.

Two separate doors were provided by the committee, one for the Brotherhood and one for the akhwat. Arsene walked to the door of the Brotherhood after a quick glance at the men who were putting a green ribbon on their veils, some blue and red. Occasionally they steal a look at the existence of men wearing beige shirts suits with white t-shirts and pants made of dark brown canvas. Arsene just looked down after that. He walked to the registration table which was greeted by two Brotherhood organizers in a friendly manner.

“Assalamu’alaikum. With Akhi who is this? I signed up earlier, right?” ask a committee member wearing glasses.

“Wa’alaikumsalam. I'm Arsene, I signed up Tuesday!” arsene smiled kindly.

The committee checked the list of participants who had been recorded, Arsene's name was listed there.

“What Akhi is looking for a soul mate? Or are you ready to get married? Or still want to find knowledge?” ask the committee whose body is taller than the one with glasses earlier.

Arsene was quite surprised, he didn't expect it at all.

“I'm ready to get married, Kang!” the answer is too plain.

“Ah, so, what is the CV brought?” ask the tall man.

“Not Kang!”

“Oh yes it is ok.”

The organizers gave her a red ribbon, along with a box of snacks and a notebook for her as a souvenir. The committee told Arsene to put the ribbon on the right side of his shirt.

Arsene thanked him and the committee invited him to enter the hall. The room was quite spacious it still looked quiet, although there were already some participants in it. The seats of the brothers and sisters are separated even though they are not blocked by the curtain, because the material fillers will sit on the same stage.

Arsene chose a seat at the front for easy listening. Already there were some brothers there, he was sitting next to a young man who looked well established from his face and gesture. Ornamental beard under his chin.

“I'm sitting here huh, Kang!” arsene said courteously to the gentleman.

“Mango!” he said, his voice heavy. “Who's name Akhi?” asked the man to extend his hand.

“Arsene, Kang!” arsene shook his hand.

“Fadhli.” The man had a red ribbon on the side of his shirt.

“Still young, still in college huh?” guess Fadhli.

“Iya Kang!” arsene replied.

“How many semester?”

“Semester one.”

Fadhli was surprised to find Arsene's answer. Moreover, seeing the red ribbon mark on the side of his arm. He was amazed at the young man beside him.

“Wah, are you ready for marriage?” tanyanya did not believe.

“God willing, Kang!” Arsene was visibly blushing, though Fadhli still respected the young man by not thinking strangely about him.

“Is it ready too? Is it still college too?” asked Arsene awkwardly. When viewed from the physical Fadhli, he looks very mature to get married.

“God willing, still celebrating. I am an S2 student and while working also a lecturer.”

Arsene.

“What lecturer, Kang?”

“Government Science Lecturers.” The man smiled small, his white face looked handsome and mature, it seemed like there would be many who would be captivated.

The other participants came both from the door of the court and the door of the Brotherhood. Likewise with Adit and Angga, both wearing green ribbons, a sign that their arrival to seek knowledge. Arsene himself is still confused by the ribbons attached. There is another blue ribbon, which indicates that you are looking for a mate. Although he himself did not know what was the difference between blue and red ribbons, was it judging from the readiness of his intentions? Arsene will only focus on the show.

“Bismilbornrahmanirrahim. Masha Allah, Alhamdulillah, here I will share my knowledge with the participants who are amazingly beaming. Well, mostly on blue tape huh? This again on a mate search?”

The participants laughed blushingly at the slim-bodied ustadz question.

“There is also a red ribbon, thank God, means it is ready for marriage huh?! Well, before discussing related to marriage, maybe we should first describe the facts that hit young Indonesian women. Love is a natural thing, God created it and planted it in every human being. But unfortunately, this pink virus is out of control in the modern world that justify freedom, including this country which is even though the majority of Muslims, who actually have rules to control the pink virus.” Ustadz Yusuf explained his material in a language that is easy to understand, Arsene heeded it well.

“In the KPAI report from a survey conducted in 12 major cities in Indonesia, out of 4500 teenagers surveyed admitted 97% had seen porn. 93.7% of teenagers admitted to kissing and making out heavily. Not only that, 62.7% of Junior High claimed to be no longer a virgin. Even 21.% of high school teens have had an abortion*. Subhanallah, naudzubillah! It's been a few years, what about the current situation? Can guess?!”

“Can be increased? It can! Because the social system frees teenagers and other humans to do as they please. The term is permissivism is a versatile culture. There is also called hedonism, which is a culture that seeks happiness to the fullest so that it allows breaking down the existing rules. Are Muslims allowed to embrace it?”

“Tidaaaak!” answer the participants.

“No! Allah has a rule for every Muslim, if he transgresses, be prepared that sin and punishment in hell will wait. If only this rule was applied to a country, there is no longer such thing as free association, courtship that leads to adultery, or changing partners or same-sex likes, abortion or an unprepared marriage. Allah has forbidden to approach adultery, shektilat or mixed and also khalwat or alone with the opposite sex. Also for men to subjugate the view, for women to keep their aurat wearing hijab and khimar. So Allah arranged the problem of this guava virus with a holy and lawful bond, called marriage. Masya Allah.”

Ustadz Yusuf sighed before going to resume his material.

“Tadi, love is fitrah, then God has the rule that is marriage. In marriage all who are forbidden become lawful and parted. Enjoyinge. It's just that marriage that leads to a family of dreams that are sadinah, mawaddah, wa rohmah this is not easy. A good marriage starts with something good. His intentions are straight because of Allah, seeking a soul mate who is sholeh and sholeh. Science and faith are well prepared, as well as the problem of maisyah aka breadwinner must also be prepared. Want to eat love? Where is his stomach?! Yes no?! Can food be paid for with love in the market? Where canaa!”

The participants laughed at Ustadz Yusuf's crisp explanation.

“Keep if his soul mate has not met but his desire is there how? Yes continue to fit, the closer to God so that the closer his soul mate. His worship, morals, and religious understanding were improved and improved. Do not forget that his efforts will be spread, and his prayers will be raised, God willing, God will provide ease. Thank God.”

Ustadz Yusuf closes his delivery material with a greeting. The participants gave him a tremendous appreciation for his explanation.

This time the moderator gave an opportunity to the next speaker who is a partner of Instagram celebrity domicile Bandung. The couple received quite a lot of attention after the woman's hijrah before marriage, which eventually delivered her soul mate to shaleh men. They convey related to household harmony, effective communication between husband and wife, as well as the roles of husband and wife who trace to the sunnah of the Prophet, at this second material delivery session. The participants were occasionally seen beaming at the experience of the couple.

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The seminar ended the afternoon before the dzuhur arrived. Many new knowledge that Arsene got, especially about life after marriage. The test of marriage will always come at the beginning, and this must be prepared by anyone who is ready to get married. Faith will help them get through it or give up on the situation, according to their respective levels of faith. Therefore, the provision to get married must be well prepared.

Arsene, Adit, and Angga walked out of the building after the event was over. The organizers drove the participants home by giving the certificate of the event. Suddenly Arsene is surprised by the presence of Zaara there with his mosque friends. The girl was wearing a red ribbon next to her veil. The two make eye contact because their existence is not too far away, even said to be close enough to the point that Arsene can hear his distinctive sound that is quite flat.

“Akhi Arsene huh?” ask the committee with glasses.

“Iya, what's up Kang?” arsene was surprised.

“This is a deposit from an employee!” he said while thrusting a thin blue map at Arsene.

“What is this?” asked Arsene did not dare to open the contents of the map wrapped around the rope.

“That's CV taaruf from one of the participants here. He was sent to me to give to Akhi. Please learn first and if suitable please directly contact the newspaper. The number is already listed there, he said!”

DEG. Arsene.

Without him noticing, a sharp eye glared at him full of question marks.

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