
"Only Father and Grandma would accept Rian's condition and try to make Rian better development. Look at all the big families of Father and Mother only look handsome towards Rian but no one held out help, yes most did not comfort Father and Mother was enough ... but the fact is they think autism is like an infectious disease and worry about their children's grandchildren like Rian" said Fajar.
"Yes Dad is amazing, every return to Jakarta always bring Rian for control to the doctor even to some alternative medicine" added Dafi.
"And mas Dafi tau ga. .. who strengthens Dad and accompanies Dad if Rian brings therapy?" ask the Enigmatic Dawn.
"Ga know, uh but rich Grandma deh" replied Dafi simple.
"Grandmother and Mother Nuha. Rian can be calm if cooled with Mak Nuha, different if Dad or Grandma who nemenin. Mommy and Mas don't know about this? Mak Nuha who is willing to clean Rian's body if he urinates during therapy, feeding food even teaches many things Rian. Almost ten years ago, Mak Nuha accompanied Rian therapy, now we can see if Rian began to be good at communicating, can be a little focused if doing something and certainly not easily angry. After Mak Leha died and Mak Nuha had a plan to move, indeed Mak Nuha asked Grandma not to join between Rian therapy again, maybe Rian had not thought if Mak Nuha would leave. Several times if Rian looking for Mak Nuha must be Granny reason Mak Nuha is busy. Father deliberately paid Mak Nuha every month came to take Rian therapy, but Mak Nuha did not want to be paid, simply replaced the cost to the Hospital only. Later Rian delivered Grandma to the Hospital, Mak Nuha immediately wait there. So that Mother hit Mak Nuha, in fact Mak Nuha was upset and decided no longer want to dampingin Rian therapy rather than accused of being an actor. The same grandmother who coaxed back and feeling strong when Rian dropped out of therapy made Mak Nuha willingly labeled as an actor. Dad, Grandma even Mak Nuha once explained that if only accompany Rian therapy, but Mother is already dark hearted. Finally, Mak Nuha himself told Dad that he would still accompany Rian but Dad did not play to Mak Leha's place again. Quite all reported through Grandma" explained Fajar at length.
"Wait .. so Mother Ain who Rian has always called it no-don't Mak Nuha huh? why does Grandma and Dad say that's her therapist's name to me? If Mother knows about this why Mother is jealous and does not want to join Rian's therapy?" ask Dafi while trying to string together the answer to this puzzle.
"Yes ... Mrs Ain is Mak Nuha, because her full name is Ainuha Suraiya. Mak Nuha always wears a mask and goggles near Rian. In addition to not look at the same people who are worried about knowing our family, Mak Nuha also did not want Rian to know his face, know that Rian himself was not able to be controlled, talking about it can not be controlled, so let everyone feel comfortable and safe" added Fajar again.
"You know all this from Mak Nuha directly?" Dafi.
"That's the difference between Mak Nuha and others, maybe even with the position of Mak Nuha when it was very open opportunity to ask for more money to Dad on the grounds of his therapy Rian, but Mak Nuha ain't. He did not take advantage of the situation, even the therapy of the Hospital was Grandma who paid, Mak Nuha never wanted if Dad transferred the cost of therapy to him. Even if Grandma can't anther, usually Grandma will stop by to drop money to Mak Nuha for therapy. Mak Nuha asked to be kept secret from everything, even Qeena and Mak Leha never knew the same routine duties of Mak Nuha anter Rian. Well at that time I did not accidentally collide with Mother Ain pas anter Rian therapy .. keauan deh from there, but Mak Nuha asked me to come with a secret. Mak Nuha did not want the situation to be runyam again, even though Rian's therapy had no significant progress at that time" explained Fajar.
"Oh so that's why Dad still communicates regularly and if it's right to Jakarta Dad humped to meet Mak Nuha .. I see .." said Dafi while mangosteen.
"Meet humpet-ngumpet? isn't Grandma reporting to Dad?" ask back to Dawn.
"Mas once wriggled them to eat the three together Qeena. That is why Mas was disappointed and decided to enter the Pesantren. Seeing Dad like a small family with Mak Nuha and Qeena was very sick. Pas Mas High School has also seen the three of them go to shopping centers" Dafi said.
"Owh .. It looks like something is wrong. I think Mak Nuha and Dad are pure friendship" Fajar said.
"You have said .. there is no friendship between two opposite sex" said Dafi.
Rian is an autism spectrum disorder. He has problems communicating and interacting with others. Initially nothing looks strange from the process of growth and development of Rian when under the age of a year. She crawled and moved like any other child her age. Even at the age of eight months, he was able to kick, follow the rhythm of the song on television. His voice was smooth and sinless, his smile was always expanding on his lips as well as his eyes were also glowing.
Rian seemed to live in his own world, often ignoring others around them. Rian can talk (though not clearly) and hear, but there are problems in communication skills (body language, expression, eye contact) so unwittingly impressed indifferent to the person who is talking to him. There are no drugs that can cure it completely, but there are therapies to help children indicated by autism adjust to their environment.
Allah is still All-Good with Mr. Dzul's family, Rian is not too severe condition. What is in Rian is being indifferent and easy emotions and a bad mindset (as she wishes), although still able to talk and understand, Rian needs continuous supervision and therapy. This is what the results are not maximal and take a long time, because Bu Fia does not want to accept the reality if Rian like that, plus the caretaker also does not understand how to care for a special child like Rian, Rian, the caretakers are happy to take care of Rian because this child is not fussy and fun to play alone, so no cape to his guard.
Mr. Dzul asked Dafi and Fajar to accompany and pay attention to Rian if Pas Pak Dzul ga in Jakarta. Both of them love Rian. But Rian was more familiar to Dafi who was much more patient in dealing with him than Dawn. If Izma is the same, Rian is fighting.
The five-year age difference from Dafi and three years from Fajar, makes Rian grow up with intensive interaction with his two brothers (Dafi and Fajar enter school age so busy with school). His older siblings became closer after Rian went to therapy and was diagnosed with autism.
Dafi and Dawn initially did not understand that Rian was special, but the bigger they were, the more they understood that his sister was special. If Dafi came home from Pesantren would always be tacky with Dafi, telling his way of thinking that is sometimes strange. He once said he wanted to be an angler to be able to travel around the world, not long later he asked to buy fish and removed in a swimming pool. Stylish ala-ala angler, he used buoys as a boat and began fishing with a fishing rod. At that time Dafi was asked to record the activities of Rian who was fishing like a fishing show on television. Only Dafi was patient in following Rian's wishes long ago, but Rian would lose the figure of Dafi when Dafi returned to his boarding school. Usually Dafi will go quietly, if found out Rian, can ask to come with all his drama.
"We go home yuk.." invite Dafi in a hurry.
"This is who paid for the food?" ask Fajar while pointing at the empty plate.
"Bayarin first." said Dafi.
"Emang Mas Bro's habit .he who eats uh he who asks to be paid. Pantes has no girl until now. They have money but are stingy. Good thing again with fifty thousand money, if not yes the address of the dish here" wrote Fajar while paying for food.
Qeena already listed in one of the State Junior Highs in Wonogiri, coincidentally close to the Mbahnya house. Family cards were there from the beginning. With the zoning path he was acceptable. Qeena is an intelligent student, only she does not have the proper facilities to support her intelligence. He could not teach like other children, although Mr. Dzul was willing to pay, but Noah refused. He also did not have adequate internet facilities, because only now he had his own HP, used to be both the same mother, it was also looking for a cheap and unlimited provider. He and his mother did not open HP for entertainment, just for communication. Given the school in Jakarta, parents must be joined in the group of parents of students and many announcements in the group, so first Noah bought HP second.
Schools in Jakarta and the area are much different, plus in everyday life many still use the regional language in association. Noah helps at his mother's meatball stall. His father had not driven again, his eyes were less aware if hit by the lights of the car at night. So his father farmed and occasionally became a driver if anyone asked to be driven, it was also during the day.
His brother Nuha has not helped in the meatball stall again because he was busy with newborn children and grandchildren. Most of the kids or ex work in big cities.
Ms. Fia still forced Rian to go to public school, once also entered nature school, but Rian was dragged between being able and not attending lessons.