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* Slice 3, Differences of opinion

After the ijab kabul event, all families and invited guests gave their do'a blessing to the bride and groom. Another field of locusts, in Java many are still using the food system is not served buffet, but has been prepared per portion on the plates. The women's families distributed the plates to the invitees.

"Lah .. kondangan kunyah gini in Jakarta mah can profit nih, if anyone can pack, can be arranged many dishes for guests" said one of the Iyus family.

"Kaga also Mpok, can even be butted kite, for example ngundang 500 people, means we are willing to eat at least 1,000 dishes, mending buffet, cook soup aje keep aerobically multiplied, yes windfalls dah, mending, if fortunately still dapet vegetables are the same meatballs, if kaga ya kokopin bae dah kuahnya. Can also be replaced menu, for example, meat abis yes out already cooking ... Telor sis two sambel. If the guests come late, continue the table buffet abis, yes already garotin a banana, we are ready to know how many bunches" replied the others.

"Ah Lo mah . hajatan aja mikirin profit loss, Lo kira ngawinin children event find money so return capital" said the others as well.

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Ms. Fia has started working after three months of maternity leave. Actually overwhelmed also have three children who are still toddler age. Already added who take care of children, now there are two caregivers for three children. Both the families of Bu Fia and Pak Dzul are far away, no one lives in Jakarta, so can not ask for their help to help supervise children. Pa Dzul is also getting busier out of town and even out of the country because of the duties he carried with his new position.

"Mas Dafi .. tomorrow want a big Kindergarten in Kindergarten school yesterday or want to move?" asked Bu Fia when she heard the report from her teacher Dafi if Dafi seemed to not enjoy at school.

"Move can Bun?" dafi asked seriously, he was indeed a person who liked different ways of thinking with parents. Although he was a child, he was good at talking and expressing his feelings.

When TK was a child he was enrolled in the International Kindergarten school, at the wishes of parents because he did not understand about the school, it turns out that after being lived, he felt uncomfortable, he felt uncomfortable, even want to get into an Islamic-based Kindergarten without international frills, like his playmates at home. Mr. Dzul already supported Dafi's decision, but it was Bu Fia who did not agree because she had high hopes for Dafi. For Bu Fia, schools with international frills must have better quality than without the frills. But since almost a week Dafi was silent in the room, making the heart of Bu Fia melt as well. Mumpung has not been re-listed also to the old Kindergarten, so can still find other schools.

"Mas Dafi knows as the oldest child, mas should be an example of younger siblings" said Bu Fia. Sometimes Miss Fia forgets that she is talking to a 5-year-old child less.

"But I don't like Bun ... Mas want to play with ordinary children, Mas friends at school use English, Mas friends at home use Indonesian. Mas confused. Lagian Grandma said that Mas should be diligent in praying and njai, how would Mas want to pray at school if the place of prayer aja ga there, how would njai if in school there is no religious lesson, how would he like to pray in school, Mother same father called teacher naji to the house twice a week, but will learn it also not konsen. Fajar tuh Bun who likes to disturb you if Mas again njai. Mas want to njai in Musholla here the same Mother can not, he said later Mas become naughty if playing with the village children" said Dafi critically.

Since childhood he has talked a lot, but his talk is arguably too mature for a child his age. In the past when he was a baby until Dawn was born, Bu Fia always took him to the daycare in his office, new understanding of the first child, he always wanted to be close to the child, he always wanted to be close to the child, plus Dafi is exclusive ASI, so it will be easier to bring to the office. Little Dafi rarely sleeps in her Mother's room, even sitting at her desk coloring and listening to adults chat. He is very fluent in English because he hears it every day. For children aged 1 - 2 years who are just learning vocabulary will definitely quickly catch every word he hears even though he cannot speak fluently. It was only when Dawn was born that she was taken care of by a nanny at home and put in a play group that was not far from home. When children his age played a lot of ball or just running around the field, Dafi spent more time reading the books his mother bought. Even if there are parents, he can access the internet on his parents' laptop.

"We make an agreement yes .. if Mas Dafi can be a good brother, Mas can go to school where I like. But must be diligent school and can not complain again. I have to enjoy school" said Bu Fia.

"Yes Bun ... I promise to be a good boy. Mas promise no longer cranky" said Dafi while hugging the Mother with innocence.

How Bu Fia fell in love with this eldest child, Dafi was so sweet to him and always obeyed all the commands of the parents.

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After getting married, Iyus and Nuha did not take long in the village, even immediately returned home with the family group to Jakarta. They live in one of Babe Naim's leases. It has been slightly renovated to look better, indeed this contract is larger than other contracts because there are separate rooms, not ordinary maps.

There was a lot of happiness in Noah's life, getting affection from the husband he loved so much. Iyus did not change, still semesra first. Her in-laws also welcomed Noah, although they had different cultural backgrounds.

Accustomed to having activities, finally to fill the time when Iyus work, Noah help-help make mangroves in the place of his father-in-law, part of making mangroves that will be sold by the traveling sellers, Naha, his wage was 300 silver per mangrove. It is good to add his personal savings. A day can be paid approximately 50 thousand.

His life with Iyus also seemed more harmonious, like a husband and wife. But that's the ordeal, it doesn't come from a partner, it can be from our respective partner's family. This time Enyak began banding-banding Iyus with his brothers who have a brilliant career. Both already have a house, a car and can give regular parents every month with a large amount. Unlike the same Iyus who still live free in his parents' rent and only give a little monthly money, just make a meatball snack.

Sometimes so the silent people also go awry, we are diemin who nyinyir increasingly rungunjak, if opposed later spelled out in opposition. So Nuha chose to be patient and not complain about this to Iyus rather than cause a commotion. As a new family member, he is the one who precisely must be good at following the flow in this family. Plus as an ethnic Betawi certainly family Iyus if you say ga use saya, every word that comes out is not filtered and flows ga use tedeng aling-aling.

Almost 4 months Iyus and Nuha married, there is still a breath of newlyweds, can not look at a few direct just go to the room.

Tonight Iyus and Nuha were chatting in front of the TV. Out of the rain from the afternoon.

"We're looking for another area to rent?" take Noah with you while spoiled.

"Just as Babeh wants us here, all his children will live around here" replied Iyus while rubbing Noah's hair.

"You ga we try nyicil-nyicil buy a KPR home how? Little ones, later on Noah find work again to help Mas Iyus pay the installments every month" Nuha's idea.

"De .. we have agreed if you are at home, take care of the house and our children later. Let Mas make a living" said Iyus seriously.

"But Mas.." said Noah hesitated and did not continue his talk.

"Pok is as good as nyinyir? It does not need to be tolerated, each family has different principles and concepts" explained Iyus again.

"How about Nuha looking for another job? Let ga dumpek in the house mulu, every day that diadepin tuh Pao dough again ... Pao again" said Noah.

"De .. if you are already bored and do not want to cooperate Babe again yes do not need to come there. In the house of ajalah, life did not need to be brought complicated" said Iyus. Nuha males continued the conversation because from the intonation of Iyus, rada sounded upset. Instead of a storm later, so it's better to be quiet.

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Finally Dafi can go to school also in the Kindergarten of his dreams, here he can only run what his Grandmother ordered. The brain of the age of Dafi who is still 5 years old, has not thought the worship is for God, but rather to the men he respects. The school there further increased the criticism of Dafi's speech because the teachers are very attentive to students.

Got more religious knowledge in school, even more than he got from his private teacher.

"Bun .. How do you pray? Are you afraid of going to hell?" ask Dafi after praying with his father.

"Again nyusuin Rian" replied the mother lightly.

"Mother do not pray males yes . kan pray only for a while, Rian can be kept the same Mba or Mas Dafi. If Mother works from morning until night, Males also works?" lontar Dafi's.

"Little children do not need to interfere in the affairs of parents. Kalo Mas want to pray yes pray, ga nasehatin Bunda. There are also parents who nasehatin children" said Mother began rada kel.

"Said Grandma, if males pray it's the devil loh Bun, does Mommy want to be the same as Satan? I was afraid that his friend was a demon, he wanted his friend Allah alone" asked Dafi still with his innocence. Ms. Fia was speechless. Rian who was in his arms was placed into a baby bed next to his bed. Dafi came out of her mother's room.