TOAST
* Slice 258, Different Things
"Hepi really Mas . from yesterday we continued together, so dong there is the same attention of the wife" said Qeena.
"Kalo Mas tandem continues, when do you get the money? what matters is that there is a balanced proportion of time. The power is busy, Mas still have time to chat" replied Dafi.
"Thank you for making me happy" said Qeena.
"Makanya Mas take you for a leisurely walk like this, let us focus on ourselves both. Not thinking about work and business. But it has started to get stuck apparently, with the same end of the year employees holiday with school children" said Dafi.
"Qeena has not dared to drive to the streets of the big rich gini Mas, if yesterday just to the cake shop or to the market has been brave even though it is still cooled by Mas Anto" said Qeena.
"Who told Neng to drive, just sit down, enjoy the scenery, talk Mas let's not sleepy, nyuapin Mas if the mouth prank wants to chew something" said Dafi.
Qeena kissed Dafi on the cheek.
"Neng ... do not start deh, we just checkout from the hotel do not check in again .. hehehe" said Dafi.
"I love you Mas. People said the view of the expanse of mountains and rice fields was beautiful, but for Qeena. fell in love many times the same Mas much more beautiful" Kayu Qeena.
"Hahaha ... enter Neng .. there is herbal medicine on top of the nails, it turns out your face is always imprinted in my heart" said Dafi.
The car re-enters the East Brebes toll road. The construction of the trans-Java toll road really accelerates the time until its destination on Java Island. From East Brebes directly continued Pemalang - Batang - Semarang - Ungaran - Boyolali - Yogyakarta only about six hours non stop.
Sampe at his brother's house, Dafi immediately prayed Dzuhur and then slept. Qeena talked with Bulek and Pakleknya Dafi in the front pendopo while eating pondoh salak. Pakleknya Dafi has a garden business salak pondoh. This place is usually used for joint studies every Friday night.
"For a long time to Jakarta again, when Dad no one can also" asked Qeena.
"Yes ..we are umrah. Inshaa Allah Mas Dzul has calmed down, no one has been blessed. Besides it's good here Qeena .. calm" replied Dafi's Buleknya.
"Yes .. Jakarta semrawut" continued Qeena.
"Where is Mba Fia now? Lek heard that much has changed because of your presence" asked Pakleknya Dafi.
"It's not because of Qeena Lek, but it may be a situation that changes Mother a lot, including losing Father" Qeena replied.
ba Fia is unique, in fact, he is good, but it is indeed flippant if you say, more patiently ngadepin your in-law" advised Pakleknya Dafi.
"Yes" replied Qeena.
"The richness of his face seems to be many more thoughts. Any issues?" ask Dafi.
"Ga .. ain't nothing" said Qeena.
"Definitely thinking because I haven't been pregnant?" shoot Pakleknya Dafi.
"Where is Lek?" Qeena asked back.
"Mba Fia once called for advice, he said since Alifa was pregnant, you could start to be at a distance from Mba Fia. He felt so wrong. Watching the pregnant ghost worried that you feel knocked out, watching you later fear Alifa ga keurus. His parents are in Ciloto, in Jakarta there is only the Fajar family. Dawn itself is still the shifting service" said Dafi Pakleknya.
Qeena was silent, it was hard for her to answer.
"All parents must want the best for their children, maybe the meaning is good, only the delivery is not right. There is Javanese advice that you can use. Mbangun kromo shingkang satuu, boten efficient ngagem sepisan roso katresnan.Hanangin need blond blonde katresnan lumeber ning uripmu siji kui couple (A successful marriage does not require a single fall in love, love, but many times fell in love with the same person)" added Dafi.
"Yes" replied Qeena.
"Keep holding hands with Mas Dafi. Marriage is not just getting offspring, but there are some life values that you can get in marriage. Try to remember, do you feel better when you're married than when you were alone?" asked Pakleknya Dafi who made Qeena so embarrassed because he was not good at thanking God's favor.
There was still a lot of life advice that this senior couple gave to Qeena. It turns out that Dafi had woken up and again chatted with Fahmi, his cousin who was as old as Rian.
"My girlfriend ra gelem masang potoku e Mas (my boyfriend does not want to masang my photo)" Fahmi shoot.
"Your girlfriend's grandmother ra gelem, maybe fill karo raimu .. hahaha (kalo ga want, maybe embarrassed by your face)" replied Dafi.
"Serius ki Mas, recipe e opo Mas, duwe bojo (wives) sing top markotop, Mba Qeena kui perfect .. ayu, sholeha, manutan" beber Fahmi.
"Stupid" Dafi replied briefly.
"Bok me in mate to Mas, ono stock e maneh sing sewelas rolas karo Mba Qeena (there is another stock ga eleven twelve rich Qeena)" said Understand seriously.
"Limited edition" replied Dafi again.
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Dafi and Qeena spent the night there, and tonight they had a lot of inner enlightenment. Especially about the child. Qeena, who had been depressed because she felt she could not give a child to Dafi, began to melt, many stories that the couple told. Including background of Bu Fia. As soon as Qeena understood, the fate of Bu Fia was worse than his fate. How was the big family of Mr. Dzul strongly opposed to the marriage of Mr. Dzul and Bu Fia, because it was not clear the seedlings bebet his weight, but over time, Mr. Dzul was able to change many Bu Fia, although there are still many minuses. Only Mr. Dzul's parents agreed.
The big family of Mr. Dzul was only those who immediately had children and many, others long awaited new children. So it is commonplace if in the large family of Mr. Dzul there is a couple who still have not been pregnant even though they have been married for a long time.
In the guest room, Dafi and Qeena rest because tomorrow will continue to Wonogiri. Miss Fia called Qeena. Dafi lifted up because of Qeena again to the bathroom. Talk a little about their journey.
"Qeena.. Mother apologizes if you feel the heart. There is no intention of Mother sneering even burdening you to get pregnant quickly" open Bu Fia full of regret.
"Mother pray'a you are immediately given confidence. Mother is more concerned with Alifa not because she does not love you. But you know for yourself if Fajar is not as patient as Mas Dafi. Mommy is worried that Alifa is filled with her wishes even dicuekin. That's why Mother made what she wanted. If Mas Dafi mah Mommy is sure, he will be considerate and patient. Mother dear to you Qeena. Mother is not different in the same daughter, all the same. But Mommy is just an ordinary human right, who certainly has the same khilaf to talk" said Bu Fia.
"Gapapa Bun, no need to apologize, Qeena even should apologize to Mommy for rarely talking. The nature of Qeena is still childish times yes Bun, so it is still easy baper. But now it's better. The road is the same Mas Dafi, starting from a small trail. Continuing to meet Paklek and bulek, Alhamdulillah many tips that Qeena got. Vacationing with the two also intensify the love between us. Pray that Bun will be able to both of us be stronger in the face of household trials" Pinta Qeena said.
"Aamiin yes rabbal'alamin" replied Ms. Fia.
Quite a long time they chatted on the phone, if not for Dafi who cleared his throat many times, maybe the two were still busy talking.
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The position of Dafi between Mother and Wife sometimes creates a dilemma. How he had to be clever to reconcile the two in order not to become a protracted problem, Dafi had advised Qeena and had shared with Bu Fia as well. But Dafi didn't want to be impressed by defending one of them, so the best way was how the two changed their attitude towards each other. Bu Fia apparently also melted the same words of Dafi, and Qeena also seems to have legowo. What Qeena had today was far from her expectations just yet. When married Qeena realized that Bu Fia could be the person who could not accept it the most, but over time Bu Fia changed and loved her.
When Qeena set her heart to Damar, she married Dafi who was only considered an older brother. But with Dafi much he got, in addition to more than enough material, attention and love were spilled, he said, Dafi is a family man who is always present for the family and does not distinguish both the Qeena family and his own family. He must have helped everyone according to his ability. The point is he prefers to help families who still want to make work.
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Arriving at Wonogiri, Qeena added to his amazement, Mbahnya house was good, once walled woven bamboo now has a brick wall. The floor is already tiled, it used to be still smelting cement. Part of the courtyard was built for his brothers and sisters Mak Nuha. The side again made the meatball shop that once existed and repaired its place.
The last time I returned home when I was married, the condition was not like now. Mak Nuha's family welcomed them well. Even Mbahnya said that now his rice field has increased in breadth.
Qeena knew that Dafi had bought two rice fields that were not too big. But now he says he has about three hundred meters. Apparently, if there are people who need money, Mbah informs Dafi to nawarin rice fields, if there is money usually Dafi wants and take a little. For that all Dafi must be super ngirit.
But when he was anxious to help the family of Noah, instead he would be replaced with a much more God. When he sells a car that is usually for rent to help Mak Nuha's business, he even gets a car raffle from one of the Banks, so he still has a car to rent.
The plan later there is his brother Mak Nuha who will sell seeds and fertilizer and farming equipment. But for this effort, Dafi will share the results, if Dafi's rice fields only have ownership (already named Qeena) he does not want to enjoy the results because it makes family life in Wonogiri.
"So all who make the house so rich gini?" ask Qeena.
"Yes, but now he only has one rental car. The business of buying and selling used cars is also not much results, the name of the car sales yes, not necessarily anyone who buys once a month. Anyway do not suspect if Mas can money outside the salary continue to be not given to you, because usually yes make investments again" explained Dafi.
"Kok Mas PNS can have a lot of assets huh? not corruption, is it?" search Qeena.
"Amit-amit. Mas tuh from the era of being a student has participated in projects, even often join foreign company projects. Tau will be paid with dollars, well the money is made in the business of buying and selling used cars. In the past, mah booming tuh can be cheap prices because the car quickly came out a new model, Mas rapihin continues to usually be offered to campus employees or workmates Dad. Alhamdulillah can profit from it began to make a contract to join Dad. Thank God it is growing as well, continue to buy more houses for rent, so it continues" explained Dafi.
"Definitely Mas ngirit ya life?" Qeena.
"It's more to super ngirit. I don't buy expensive watches, ga branded bags, local brand work shoes. Rarely eat at restaurants, most warteg only. There is no special fee for rich hangouts to the Mall or tourist attractions. Usually go to tourist attractions that are still free. Mas friends used to like to do this, but yes gapapa lah, after all now Mas already can enjoy the results of what Mas tried ten years ago" said Dafi.
"Pinter took the money" said Qeena.
"It used to be bachelor, most loving Mother same little sisters for snacks. I rarely shop, so money is whole. Yes, sometimes the salary is because it can be overtime, can rent money or SPJ out of town. Keep the father who taught to play shares, it used to be able to profit up to two hundred percent, but so can profit Mas take all shares because it feels like he does not play shares. Finally the money to build a future home that we now place" explained Dafi.
"Kok ga ga shy . sorry Mas. people know if Mas is his son an echelon official, Mas's career is also good and always meet people who have a position, be it, isn't first impression important? Now if Mas katro's appearance can be bad judgment" said Qeena curious.
"You are the same, yes, the value of people from what is used or attached to our bodies" ledek Dafi.
"Yes I know what Qeena meant" replied Qeena.
"I know .. but if Mas still think not people judge Mas from what Mas wear, but first impression Mas it has more value that can be given to the work of Mas. It's work" said Dafi with the peda.
"Sweet as hell if I were to say. But sset Mas ran out because of Qeena's extended family huh?" qeena said sadly.
"Who's word finished? It's not finished but changed shape. Turned into the house of Mbah, so the rice fields, so the business of meatballs and the upcoming turned into the completion of the peasant. We are Neng family, there is no such thing as wife family or husband family, which is our family. But after this all I'm handing over to you. The house, the rice field, the car that Mas has will be changed to your name. Now new rice fields and cars are on your behalf. The house will follow" Dafi said.
"Sincerely did I do that?" ask Qeena.
"Inshaa Allah sincerely use. A lot of simple assets for what is Neng, as long as we just make a way of life already, even heavy questions in the afterlife. Try to imagine, if asked ... You have a treasure for what? Well, if you are already rich, the answer is clear, Allah.all I love my wife, ask her yes ..hehehe" said Dafi casually.
Sometimes Dafi is magical if you have an answer, there is always a weight but wrapped in small talk.
"Ih Mas curanggg" protested Qeena.
"Cheat where? hehe. If it is in your name means in the afterlife you are asked" replied Dafi.
"It's so Mas?" ask Qeena seriously.
"Yes don't know either, yes surely every one of us will be asked Neng. But actually have a purpose in your name, so that Mas does not have a mind of sorts and believe that you can take care of what Mas has" said Dafi.
"You're so perfect" praised Qeena
"No... God is perfect. Kyai in Pondok tuh always love mejangan. Life must provide as many benefits to the people. We are indeed encouraged to look for treasure, not for fun in the world, but for the benefit of the ummah. Doesn't charity, shodaqoh, building mosques, building pesantren all need money? Indeed do'a must, but our efforts as humans to fight through property must also be. Is there a mosque that stands without money? Later even the business of buying and selling cars owned by Mas will be handed over to the boarding school where Mas nyantri used to be. Let them learn to be entrepreneurs" said Dafi happily.
Qeena was amazed by Dafi.
"We're going to Pesantren Mas too?" ask Qeena.
"Secret dong... Anyway enjoy our honeymoon trip" replied Dafi.