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* Slice 300, Finally I understand what love is

After doing istikharah and talking with the family, Izma's decision to establish his heart to be with Leo.

"Yes already if you are steady, ask Leo to come first here, Mas want to talk to him. Abis was just planning to make the continuation rich how. You're racing time, three more months already have to go to continue the study, right?" dafi said to Izma.

"Yes, Izma chat Mas Leo later" replied Izma.

"How's mama?" ask Dafi.

"Yes Mas .. Mother is sincere, Izma has the right to continue her life. Mommy saw also Leo is a good child, so we can put Izma into his hands" replied Bu Fia.

"Alhamdulillah if all parties have legowo. Bun .. Izma only married, not left Mother. Even later your child will be added again" said Dafi.

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Saturday afternoon Leo came to Bu Fia's house, after lunch, Leo was invited to have a serious conversation with Dafi and Dawn. Izma and Bu Fia chose to go to Dafi's house so that these men could seriously talk.

The three chatted casually and with a full family. Dafi and Dawn asked Leo many questions about his family and how Leo viewed a marriage commitment.

"Oke Bro.Welcome to our family" said Fajar.

"Thank you" replied Leo.

"Be nice yes .. Izma will forever be a princess for us, so tau dong ya means Mas" said Fajar.

"Yes Mas .. I understand" replied Leo again.

Qeena who had just returned home there was an RT arisan immediately put Andra who was asleep in the room. Qeena asked about Dafi's whereabouts, but Bu Fia forgot to say that Dafi was talking to Leo again.

"Mas .. Can you please take care of Andra? again sleeping anyway, Qeena there is an impromptu order nih" pinta Qeena who came to Dafi.

"Okay. oh yes Leo, you continue to chat with Dawn, yes, usually I have a state duty" said Dafi.

Dafi rushed up to his room, Andra still seemed very sleepy. While Qeena competed in the production kitchen. On Saturdays like this, workers only work half a day, so if there is an impromptu order, you want to do not want Qeena who intervenes alone.

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Orderan finished at three in the afternoon, while waiting for the cold cake before packing, Qeena headed for her room. He was shocked to see Andra coming down the stairs with a sling.

"Yes Allah .. keep quiet first Mas Andra .. don't go down the stairs, then fall" cried Qeena as she hurriedly ran up the stairs.

Andra, who heard Qeena scream, was crying because she thought Qeena was scolding her.

Qeena hugged Andra and entered the room where the door was open. He saw that Dafi fell asleep until he did not know that his son had woken up and walked out of the room.

"Mas .. can-can keep the child even sleep until ga denger anything" said Qeena.

The shocked Dafi immediately woke up.

"Mas sleepy, Neng, besides his son is still sleeping" replied Dafi.

"Everything opened wide eyes, his son was already carrying Qeena" said Qeena annoyed.

"Oh, you're awake .kirain is still asleep" replied Dafi casually.

"Why is the door not closed rapet, earlier Andra has gone down the stairs, if jatoh how?" oceh Qeena's.

"Emang yes? the feeling of the door being closed quickly" replied Dafi.

"Kalo rapet will not he can come out. Where nyampe handle his door" said Qeena.

Andra was still crying hearing Qeena's nagging at Dafi.

"This Mas Andra .. Mother you are still ngomel, a long rich train. Mending here playing with Dad" take Dafi.

"Yahhhh" Andra said as she extended her hand.

Andra was indeed closer to Dafi, because Dafi since Little Andra took care of everything. Not just staying up late, but she's skilled at taking care of babies.

Qeena was still sprained by Dafi, even Andra was taken to the bathroom for an afternoon bath. After being brought down. Dafi middle of ashar prayer. After that came down to Qeena who was feeding Andra.

"Here is my father" said Dafi.

Andra laughed when she saw her father coming.

"Eating must be happy, he is different from us who eat must be orderly while sitting and diligent to finish food. Young children usually eat while playing, riding a bike or eating together sepantanya in the park. Later also if it has become bigger he understands how to eat" said Dafi.

"From small, it has been designed to be easy in the future" said Qeena.

"Well, his son is closer to Mas than to you, because what? because the mother has many rules that make her uncomfortable" said Dafi.

"Kok Mas said that" said Qeena.

"Later speaking, do not fight in front of the child .. not good" said Dafi mediate.

Indeed, lately, the quarrels that occur mostly around the parenting pattern of Andra. Qeena was classified as an overprotective mother, but Dafi wanted her child to do what she liked as long as it was still under supervision. Fortunately, Bu Fia and Mak Imah have never intervened if Qeena and Dafi were in a dispute.

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Andra did sleep with Qeena and Dafi, but since Andra got older, Dafi slept on the sofa bed so that Andra could be more relieved to sleep.

Sunday morning, Mak Imah and Bu Fia play to Ciloto with Alifa. The Dafi family did not come because Dafi again wanted to be at home, relax with his small family, later in the afternoon want to take Andra to his friend's Playground in one of the Mall. There will be a launching baby class for babies aged six to eighteen months. Andra will attend the trial class at the invitation of her friend Dafi.

"The power is mushrooming again for baby schools, especially in big cities. The concept of school here is not a formal school, more stimulating. Rich learned to crawl, walk, throw a ball, play an instrument and play with other babies. Is it good, huh?" ask Qeena.

"This is what friends say Mas yes, if school from an early age is recommended, but everything depends on the development of each baby because the baby class aims to train the baby's motor, but all depends on the development of each baby, practice socializing and practice sensory skills" Dafi replied.

"It used to be rich that you taught yourself at home, Mas" said Qeena.

"And in big cities, usually the parents of babies are super busy, yes, the same kind of us. But Alhamdulillah there are still Mother and Mak Imah to help take care of Andra" said Dafi.

"Kalo Qeena does not need a rich school like Mas" replied Qeena.

"This is a trial class, we are ATM .. observe, imitate and modify. Teachers in the baby class will certainly have enough training from experts. It is said that in his first thousand days, he had to be stimulated. Sometimes parents run out of ideas on how to stimulate children. Well, school can be an alternative to help parents stimulate children" explained Dafi.

"The rich sales press that again nawarin place this course" ledek Qeena.

"So long as we take his knowledge, there is no intention for other parents. For the first two years, the child is still not able to pay attention to others. In a sense, what he does is still ego centric, his attention focused on things related to himself. For example, the child will only pay attention to the person who carries him, do not care about the people around him who he does not know. With the baby class, children can observe people who are the same age as him, the same activities as him. It will be a social stimulation for the child" continued Dafi.

"This magazine is concerned about the development of children" said Qeena.

"Must dong. Is not wrong parenting patterns of ancient times, but as new parents, we must also be able to follow the development of the era in parenting patterns. As parents, we want the best for our children. But children can not we equally level with other children or we as a child. Yes, as a child, it is important that we as parents should be alone, so that children are not confused" Dafi suggested.

"Mas sometimes like to work" said Dafi.

"Because I don't know how it feels to be spoiled by the old man. What we feel first, do not let Andra feel the same. He must get complete affection from both of us. Being a priority in the midst of our busy lives. We also made him a prize. But we devote each other's attention and affection, spend enough time . yes the same is rich process for him, when the process of caring for him we must also" said Dafi.

"How could not love more with Mas. ga only Qeena and the whole family were noticed, Andra had already learned how to grow up" said Qeena.

"You will be the same family because of a marriage, not the same person Mas. So I have to pay attention to every detail. Andra is the new trust for us. So you have to know the knowledge dong" said Dafi.

"Eating emang, it's not free for me Ter Dafi Dafi all this time" said Qeena.

"I have also known Qeena Qeena since the day of the contract. Now add to Andra Andra, the fruit of love that we love. The power is right, said Neng . mending we give a distance of at least three years to have a second child. Let us focus first on Andra, we prepare him to be a good brother to his sisters later. It should not be a good example, but always be on the path of religious and social norms is enough. If he is handsome because he has a beautiful Mother is a bonus, especially if he has a rich nature Mas .. double bonus it" said Dafi.

"That's it. .. end up praising yourself" ledek Qeena.

"Other than no one is good" replied Dafi.

"Oh so want to be praised anyway .. need recognition" said Qeena.

"It's sometimes necessary" replied Dafi.

"Mas is the best son, sister, brother-in-law, husband and father. Without Mas, there might not be a Qeena like it is today. Thank you for accompanying Qeena on this amazing journey. Thank you my dear, finally I understand what love is, it's because of you (finally I understand what love is, it's because of you)" Quena praised.

"Just thank you?" ledek Dafi's.

Just now that Qeena wanted to kiss Dafi on the cheek, Andra who was in Qeena's lap immediately woke up and cried.

"Nyenyen." said Andra while crying.

"Yahhh .. first his son nih .. hahaha" said Dafi.

"Less gercep his father now" said Qeena.

"Father, he can only enjoy the first two years of life with his Mother, if his father is all the time ..hehehe" Dafi joked while rubbing Qeena's head.