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An effective day for Pandu and Ervita. The day they start by welcoming the beautiful sun, and also enjoy Soto Bathok on the edge of the rice field area. Afterwards, they returned to their parents' home. Upon arrival at home, Ervita and Pandu change to bathe first, and they gather together at the Pendopo in the Hadinata residence.
There are Indi and Lintang who are familiar with playing Little Pony dolls, and also adults who gather together. It was very nice for Mr. Hadinata and Ms. Tari to see the children and grandchildren gathered together. There is indeed a Javanese philosophy that says, "Mangan ora manganese sing is important to gather". The meaning is "eating or not eating the important gathering." However, for the Hadinata family, they fully support the dreams and desires of their children. However, there was a time when they felt like they could gather together like this.
"Have you seen the sunrise?" ask Mr. Hadinata to his children who gathered in Pendopo.
"Already Mr. .. finally deliver as well. It's been a long time since Pertiwi went to Ratu Boko. Stay beautiful and exotic," she replied.
It appears that Mr. Hadinata nodded his head, "Yes, so .. in Lampung is far away. When in Jogja want to play everywhere," he replied.
"Yes Pak .. mumpung is in Jogja. Later if you have stepped on nine months of pregnancy also has been staying at home, sir .. worry if giving birth at any time," reply Pertiwi.
"Yes, right, Ndug .. danger. If at home it is time to contract and feel like getting pregnant, there are Father and Mother at home. Can move quickly immediately," replied Miss Tari.
Pertiwi nodded her head, "Iya Bu .. just like in the past, when pregnant Latang. It has been nine months even a walk to the Mall, and there feels pregnant. Fortunately, at that time, there was a reliable Pandu and immediately took Pertiwi to the Hospital. This time I don't want any more. It was so hot at that time."
Ms. Tari nodded her head, "Eat her later at home only. If Pandu fits at home can be asked for help to queue up to the Hospital. If you work time guide, yes there is a driver in Batik Kiosk who can be asked for help," said Bu Tari.
Pertiwi nodded her head. "Yes Ma'am ... Pertiwi felt guilty for making the whole family worry first," she replied.
Yes, the first time was Pertiwi when traveling to the Mall. He wants to wash his eyes and also buy some baby equipment. In addition, at the age of the womb which is 9 months, Obstetricians recommend it to be able to walk because walking is good for mothers who will give birth. However, at that time Pertiwi felt her stomach contract. It hurts so much to the waist. Cold sweat flooded his body.
Fortunately, at that time, he went for a walk with Pandu. So that his sister swiftly took him to the Hospital. Although Pandu himself panicked, but the man was very calm and he gave news to his parents and Damar, his brother-in-law that Pertiwi was rushed to the Hospital because of contractions.
Reflecting on previous experiences, Pertiwi also promised herself and her family that when she was 9 months pregnant, she would be more at home. Rather than feeling a contraction in a place like a mall, or another crowded one.
"Yes so .. make the past an experience," replied Ms. Tari.
Until the afternoon Ervita, Pandu, and Indi were still in the Hadinata family residence. Until the afternoon, Pandu say goodbye to his Father and Mother. To go home and of course rest.
Once at home, Pandu took the time to play with Indi first. Because, throughout the day Indi spent more time with Lintang. Therefore, now used Pandu to play together with Indi.
"So Indi played all day with Mbak Lintang?" ask Pandu to Indi.
"Main Little Ponny, Jayah .. same Latitude story if his sister is a boy," he replied.
Pandu nodded his head, "Yes, his sister Mbak Lintang will be a boy," he replied.
"Will Didi call him what?" tanyakanya.
In the rules of Java there is an old rule "Awu" based on bloodline or relationship, or based on age. Those born of an older 'wu' despite his much younger age will still be called Mbak or Mas. While the first born, although the age is more because based on the lineage will be called Sister.
"Call him Mas dong Yah? Mas Baby?" ask Indi.
"Yes, call him Baby Mas," replied Pandu.
"If you call his son Bulik Mei what, Jayah?" ask Indi again because she remembers that in Solo, Bulik Mei will also have a baby.
"If the same child Bulik Mei and Om Tanto are called Brother," replied Pandu.
Indi also seemed to nod his head, "Oke Yamah .. so Didi has Mas Baby and Adik Baby well," he replied.
"True .. later if his sister Mbak Didi was born, has his own Baby Sister," replied Pandu.
"His sister's a girl or a boy's yayah?" ask Indi later.
"Mbak Didi want to have a younger brother or sister?" tanya Pandu who asked Indi again.
For a moment Indi was silent, then the little boy replied. "Uhm, his sister's a girl, Jayah. Let Indi play the doll, and play Dakon. Kayak that Yayah and Mommy taught first," he replied.
Smile over there. Apparently Indi just wanted to have a sister. It feels so funny. If indeed later the baby contained by Ervita is female, Pandu will be the only man in the house.
"Later if Mommy gives birth, we see and welcome together well .. her sister wants a girl or boy is okay, Ms. Didi. The baby is a gift from God," replied Pandu.
"Yeah ... Well, what time is it? Kok Didi was already sleepy," he asked as he yawned.
"It's only seven o'clock at night, son," replied Pandu.
"Didi bobok ya Ya. Tomorrow Didi play with Mbak Lintang again can?" tanyakanya.
Pandu nodded his head, "May .. which is important try not to fight well. Same brother who gets along. Mutual dear. Kan Indi and Mbak Lintang it's Brother and Sister," replied Pandu.
Indi nodded his head with heavy eyes, "Yeah."
At least when alone with Indi, either Ervita or Pandu always provide education, direction, or knowledge to Indi. Some experts and child psychologists say bedtime is the best time to tell your child. The child's brain will record, and get to his subconscious. In addition, good teachings must also be repeated so that children understand according to their age level as well. Therefore, when going to sleep like this Ervita and Pandu always teach and speak good things to Indi. In the hope of what is sown, Indi will do and reap later in the day.