Muara Kasih Single Mother
Afraid of Solo
At that time because it calmed Indi, Pandu had to drive a car while holding Indi. There is still fear in my heart. Although Ervita helped him and wanted to calm him down, but Indi refused. He just wants to go with the guide.
"Yuk, Indi same Nda here yuk," asked Ervita.
Yes, even if you have to hold two children in the car like Ervita can do it. It was also because Indi who came back crying. Even the little boy was still as hiccupped in his Yayah's lap.
"Ndak .. want to be with Yayah," he replied.
Ervita took a long breath. Indeed, when children tantrums, usually they will only choose to follow one of their parents. Just like Indi who when tantrum prefers to be together with his Yayahnya. Even this has been a habit of Indi since long ago.
Actually Ervita was also worried when her husband was driving by holding Indi. It's not safe, anyway. Until finally, when their car stopped at a red light, Indi wanted to move and now stood in front of Ervita who sat in front with Baby Irene.
"Well, come with Nda first yeah ... Let's drive first. Later when you get home, you can follow Jayah," replied Ervita.
Indi then nodded his head. The sense of security that he got was not like with the sense of security that he got from Pandu figure. Although Pandu's face also looks sad now. However, Pandu tried several times to smile at Indi and Ervita.
Meanwhile, Ervita herself also knows that now her husband is in a bad feeling. The mood has changed too. Ervita will definitely calm her husband down as soon as she gets home. Now, Ervita sometimes gives a swab on her husband's arm.
"Why, Nda?" tanya Pandu who looks at a glance sees Ervita rubbing her arm.
"Hmm, be patient, Jayah" she replied.
Pandu seemed to nod his head. "Yes, I must be patient. It's okay, Nda," replied Pandu with a faint smile.
Almost two hours drive from Solo to Jogjakarta, now they have arrived at their home. Getting off the car, Indi also asked to be carried by his father.
"You're the same Yayah" pinta Indi.
Pandu is not angry. He carried Indi, and carried her into the car while carrying her bag out of the trunk. Indi's little hand seemed to circle his Yayah's neck.
"Such marijuana is the same Yesah .. Why Didi?" ask Pandu.
"Dad, Didi does not want to go to Solo anymore" said Indi.
Pandu looked at Indi. Now invite Indi to sit over first and then again invite Indi to talk. Even if you are a child, a child can talk together.
"Why .. Kan Eyang Uthi and Kakung live in Solo. Cook his grandson won't see Uthi and his sister again anyway?" ask Pandu.
Now Indi shook his head. "No... I'll see that Om again" he replied.
Apparently Indi still refused, because he did not want to meet with Firhan. Pandu is actually also a dilemma, giving an explanation to Indi also feels it takes its own way and strategy.
"Didi is afraid of the same Om .. he is not Didi's father .. right, Didi's father is only Jayah," he replied.
Actually, if it is examined in the psychological realm, Indi's fear arises because of a sense of rejection from the father who he had experienced long ago. Although at that time the fetus is still in the womb, but can feel the inner bond. Even babies who are rejected from the womb, when the child grows up it will have a quiet nature, give up easily, even have certain fears. Although, sometimes parents do not do it consciously, but actually the child can feel the bond since they are in the womb of the mother.
"Here Yaah hugs," replied Pandu.
"Honey Yaah" replied Indi.
Pandu then gave the box from Firhan, at least that was what Firhan gave earlier. The guide only fulfills the mandate. "This is from the omnya earlier," said Pandu.
"I don't want to" he replied.
Pandu took a long breath. "Open first .. viewed the contents. Forms we appreciate that give," explained Pandu.
"Dad who helped open yah," Indi replied.
Pandu also opened the wrapping paper that wrapped the box. Until then there was a red velvet box, then Pandu opened the red velvet box, apparently in it there is a gold bracelet.
"Golden bracelet from Omnya, Didi want to use?" ask Pandu again.
Seen even though Pandu is actually not willing. However, Pandu still provides opportunities for Indi. Until finally, Indi gave the answer.
"No, just keep it, Yayah. Didi don't want to wear it," he replied.
Again this is Indi's own desire. There was no intervention from Pandu and Ervita. They allow Indi to convey her feelings, say what she wants. A child can choose, and this is Indi's own choice.
"Well, if Jayah and Nda go to Solo, Didi here is the same as Eyang Putri and Eyeang Kakung, Dad. Didi is afraid to Solo," said Indi again.
"Yes, to Solo it's okay there are Yayah and Nda who always take care of Indi," replied Pandu.
"Didi was afraid, Yah .. want someone to make Didi away from Jayah" he replied again.
Ervita who had been silent since then, now approached and hugged her daughter. "No one wants to keep Didi away from Jayah. Didi can forever be with Jayah" he said.
"Didi is afraid of the same Om, Nda," Indi replied.
"And there were Nda and Jayah who took care of Didi. Don't be afraid" replied Ervita.
"Well, why is Didi afraid of that?"
Ervita then smiled and tightened her embrace. "It's okay. Maybe it's because it just saw so there's still fear."
Pandu then rested his back on the sofa, Indi also went down and went into his room to play. Ervita hugged her husband.
"Dizziness, Nda," said Pandu.
"Here, hug first, Mas .. thanks a lot has been so patient with Indi," said Ervita.
Pandu nodded his head. "Definitely, Nda .. always be affectionate and patient with Indi."
Sometimes problems can come from anywhere. Not only the presence of actors or pebikor, but it could also be due to child problems. Besides being patient, of course, they are waiting for the right time to tell Indi how Indi was born first and his relationship with Firhan.