Muara Kasih Single Mother
Sugeng Riyadi's
After the Eid prayer, the Pandu and Ervita families went home first. After wearing white and mucenah clothes to perform Eid prayer, now they change into batik clothes which are certainly produced by Batik Hadinata and then will prepare to Hadinata residence. Celebrating Eid with Hadinata's family.
"Wearing batik, Nda?" ask Indi.
"Yes, this is the batik uniform of the big family of Eyang. Eyang, Bu Pertiwi, and us, all wear the same batik cloth" Ervita replied.
Indeed it is a batik cloth specially printed by Mr. Hadinata that will be worn together to celebrate Lebaran. Batik fabric with Sogan (chocolate) color is so beautiful worn by the Pandu family. Until Indi and Irene also wore batik dress.
"The batik is good well, Nda," said Indi by turning left and right wearing a knee-length batik dress.
"Yes, dong. Always good," Ervita replied.
"Batik sold Nda also well," said Indi.
Funny Indi because he also understands that his mother also sells batik. Ervita also laughed hearing that. Nevertheless, Ervita was happy. All started from batik, she could survive the escape first when pregnant without a husband. Then having a job, batik also leads him to find a life companion and also get a new family in Jogjakarta. Therefore, Ervita does want to continue selling batik because his life is related to batik, especially Hadinata batik.
"We're going to Eyang's house?" take Jayah Pandu now.
"Yes, Yayah," Indi replied.
"Yes, Yeah .. yeah!"
Now it's Irene's turn to go with her father. So, Jayah Pandu immediately carried Irene, and took Indi's hand. They then walked to the residence of Mr. Hadinata and Ms. Tari.
"Kula nuwun," said Indi as soon as entering the house Eyangnya. Kula nuwun is a greeting in Javanese which means 'excuse'.
"Come, please enter the beautiful grandchildren of Eyang. His little daughter Yamah Pandu" replied Bu Tari.
Then Indi gave a reverent greeting to Eyangnya, continued to Bu Pertiwi and Pakdhe Damar. Indi was also from childhood has been taught with good manners, his parents always provide good teachings for Indi. Many of the lessons and manners they teach at home.
Like, a tradition in Javanese culture, continued with the songkeman where Mr. Hadinata will sit and Bu Tari apologized to her husband first. Then now it is the turn of the Damar and Pertiwi families who do sungkeman apologizing to both parents. The Damar family was finished, then continued the Pandu family who sungkeman to his Father and Mother.
“Dinten jickeying dinten bakdo riyadi, kula menawi gadah kalepasi ingkang disengojo lan mboten disengojo dumateng Mr. saha kaliyan Ibu, kula nyuwun agaring samudamro pangaksami," said Pandu.
In Indonesian, what Pandu said means, "Today's a holiday, I apologize if there was a deliberate and unintentional mistake to all the Fathers and Mothers, I'm sorry as big as it is."
Hadinata put her hands on her two shoulders. "Yes, Le... My boy, on-on. Lan Ibu semono uga. Mr. lan Ibu mangestuni muga anggonmu golek pangan tansah bursa. Rejeki saka Gusti meluwih marang kowe sak bebrayan."
It means, "Yes, my son, together. Father and Mother are the same. Father and Mother always pray that your efforts to find a job are always a blessing. The blessings of God are always abundant for you and your family."
After Pandu, Ervita also sungkeman in the same way. Then Indi who also shook hands with his Eyeang.
"Sugeng Riyadi nggih Eyang. Sorry to be born and inner," said Eyang.
"Happy Eid Al-Fitr Day is also for Ms. Didi. Dear Brother Didi," replied Eyang Kakung.
Not to forget that Eyang Kakung and Eyang Uthi kissed the cheeks of his grandchildren and gave money for his grandchildren. Packed in a cute envelope, Indi, Irene, Latitude, and Sky were thrilled to receive a gift from Eyangnya.
The Eid al-Fitr Day is celebrated with family and carries a Javanese culture that is still thick. Then Hadinata's extended family took photos together. Hadinata's father and mother, then Damar's family, and out Pandu. With grandchildren held by Eyang Kakung and Eyang Putri. Capturing the moment of Lebaran in camera shots.
What a wonderful day with the Hadinata family. After the photo together, continued by enjoying a special dish of Lebaran that has been prepared by Bu Tari. Lontong Opor Chicken complete with Sambal Fried Krecek and Shrimp Crackers.
"Come, on the first meal," ordered Bu Tari.
Finally Bu Tari took food for Mr. Hadinata first. Then Pertiwi also took it for Damar. Following Ervita who took it for Pandu.
Meanwhile, the kids play together. So that parents can enjoy the typical dishes of the Hadinata family.
"That's okay, ma'am," Ervita told Ms. Tari.
"More, Vi. When you go home, bring it. No need to cook," said Ms. Tari.
Ervita then laughed slowly. "Ervi did not deliberately cook earlier, Mom. Just cooking Chicken Soup for kids" Ervita replied.
That is how Ervita is. She had not cooked because she would definitely eat full at her in-laws' house. So, Ervita, who has been a member of the Hadinata family for many years, already knew that she would definitely get food from her mother-in-law.
"Well, right. Take it later. Eat a lot, Vi."
Ervita nodded her head, not resisting because her in-laws' cooking was indeed very delicious. Pandu also added, and Ervita served her husband first.
"Let me take it, Mas" said Ervita.
"Dibanyakin Kreceknya, yes Nda," request from Pandu.
"Excite, Mas," replied Ervita.
Pandu smiled, but indeed Ervita was a good wife, she was always ready to serve herself. Even now Pandu smiles because many Krecek (cow skin crackers) on his plate.
"Thank you, Dinda," replied the Guide.
"I'll get you a drink, won't I?" bargain Ervita.
Pandu's smile grew even more. Because, without him asking, Ervita already understood what he wanted.
"Es Tea only yes, Dinda ... cold," Pandu said.
Ms. Tari laughed when she saw her son. "Nake well, Ndu. There's wives all served."
"Yes, Mom. Husband without asking, wife is sensitive. Justjust wonderful. Blessings too," replied the Guide.
Yes, this is a blessing for Pandu as well. His wife was a complementary figure in his life. A woman who has always been a companion and a companion to her life.
"I haven't hung out with you yet, Mas" Ervita whispered to her husband.
"No need for a hunchback, Dinda. Later that night, well, make time for me," Pandu asked.
Ervita knew what her husband was asking for. The woman just smiled and lowered her face.
"We're going to be lebaran tomorrow in Solo, right Mas?" tanyakanya.
"So, but tonight will be yes, Dinda. Kangen," whispered Pandu by pretending to focus on eating his food.
Pandu😂🙄