Muara Kasih Single Mother
Confident with Pertiwi
After several weeks of enjoying refreshing and healing time at the South Sea Coast, there was no time to give birth for Pertiwi ever closer. The pregnant woman began to feel difficulty sleeping at night because she woke up several times to urinate. In addition, Pertiwi has her own anxiety about childbirth later whether her husband can accompany her. Because, the plane from Lampung must transit to Jakarta first, and then only continued from Jakarta to Jogjakarta.
Perhaps if there was her husband by her side, Pertiwi became calmer. However, because her husband works in Lampung makes Pertiwi feel more anxious. Just like today when Pertiwi and Lintang play at the house of Pandu and Ervita, the pregnant woman seemed to want to confide in her sister-in-law, Ervita. However, Pertiwi abandoned her intentions because Ervita herself was pregnant. Fearfully, Ervita came to mind. However, if you soak it yourself it also does not taste good. Fortunately, Ervita seemed to see anxiety on her sister-in-law's face.
"Mbak Pertiwi kayak was worried. Why Ma'am?" asked Ervita who at that time while packing, wrapping batik orders.
"It's okay, Vi," replied Pertiwi.
"If you want a story .. story, Ma'am ... Ervi is listening to the story of Mbak Pertiwi," replied Ervita.
Even now Ervita opened her heart and fully allowed her brother-in-law to speak. Although his hands while wrapping batik, but Ervita's ears can respond well.
"Bother you later?" ask Pertiwi.
"No Ma'am .. only Ervita while nata batik this well," he replied.
Pertiwi finally smiled. "Object Vi ... Pregnant women in the age of the womb are old, approaching the day of labor so it is easier to worry," he replied.
"What are you worried about because of?" ask Ervita again.
"About later her Papa Lintang can come before labor, huh Vi? Sometimes it's fear. Moreover, Lampung to Jogja is far away. Take a plane just have to transit first, afraid not to go hunting, Vi."
Listening to the story of Pertiwi, then Ervita understood that what worried her brother-in-law was about time. Time of delivery and time of arrival of her husband.
"You're giving birth to a normal or caesar's mother?" ask Ervita then.
"The position of the baby has started to enter the pelvis anyway, Vi. Only if normal waiting for the opening contraction first can ngabarin Mas Damar. If Caesar was we could have chosen the date well, so surely Mas Damar could have come home one day earlier," Pertiwi replied.
Ervita listened with a few nods of her head. "True Kak .. Mbak Lintang was born normal, right? Which sister doesn't want caesar Mbak?" ask Ervita.
"He said his healing was more painful, Vi .. I'm afraid of it anyway," Pertiwi replied.
"There is now an ERACS method and he said it is not so painful, Mbak."
"Can for consideration yes, Vi .. because Mas Damar also has not bought a plane ticket to go home. You see the ticket if the refund continues, the cost is lost because it can increase the cost continues, besides that the price is cut continuously as well. So it was Mas Damar who said that he would come home when my stomach felt mules," Pertiwi said.
"I also fear that false contractions, Ma'am .. I was pregnant when Indi feltain false contractions. Want to go home to the boarding house, it feels like my waist hurts so much, my legs for the road also feels pain. Just, yes how else forced the way," Ervita's story.
"Keep the real contraction how long is the distance?" ask Pertiwi.
"After two weeks of real contraction and gave birth to Indi, Ma'am," he replied.
This time it was not only Pertiwi who told the story, but Ervita could also tell her experience first. Yes, Ervita used to feel a false contraction that only a few minutes came and disappeared just like that. At first she also felt panic, fearing that the baby would be born soon. However, the baby was born two weeks later.
"You're going to give birth tomorrow to Caesar or normal, Vi?" tanya Pertiwi later.
"Yes if the baby has entered the pelvis, there is no winding in the body, and not so big, mending I try to give birth normally anyway, Ma'am," he replied.
Yes, the requirement that a mother can give birth normally must at least meet three main conditions that the baby has entered the pelvis with the condition that the baby is not breech, the baby is not breech, then there are no more than two umbilical cord twists on his body, the last of which the baby's weight is not more than 3.5 kilograms. Ervita herself still wants to give birth normally.
"You're great, Vi ... aren't afraid?" tanya Pertiwi later.
"We are humanly afraid, Ma'am. The nature of a woman should give birth, Ma'am .. so well, just live it. Besides, later I will be better prepared Mbak .. because I have Mas Pandu," replied Ervita.
Yes, there was one that Ervita always remembered and instilled in her heart that there was a Pandu later. He won't be in pain in the hospital gurney alone. Unless there is a Scout who will stand next to him. Of course, this time Ervita is also very confident that her husband can be a figure invited to fight together to give birth to her baby later.
"I'm glad to see you and Pandu can have each other. Although my sister's dating experience and knows women is not much, Pandu is a good man, Vi," pertiwi Balak.
Not to flatter his sister. However, Pertiwi who is his biological brother is very sure that Pandu is indeed a good figure.
"Mas Pandu is also a good father, Ma'am," added Ervita now.
Pertiwi nodded her head. "Tuh, really. Do not be afraid later, there is a Pandu who will be ready to standby," he replied.
Ervita responded by nodding her head. He was confident in Pertiwi's words now. Having Pandu beside him seemed to add new strength to him. Therefore, Ervita was not afraid. Her husband will now hold her hand.